Incoming Rant

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

Voidrathe, as BulletDodger stated, congrats on not being a Captain Save-A-Hoe and being proud of going your own way.

There are three sad parts to your story, in my eyes. We’ve already covered the fact that your friend was complicit in what was supposed to be a trap; pussy-whipped friends will do that, though. I’d personally say no harm, no foul. He’s under the influence; let him sober up a bit.

The second part, also covered, is the girlfriend trying to shame you. That’s just pathetic. Why the f~~~ would it be/is it your fault what these women have done in their pasts? The lack of accountability in women just f~~~ing astounds me sometimes.  Imagine if I said to the next hot girl I met, “Hey bitch, you owe me a f~~~ because I went through high school and didn’t get f~~~ed once.” How on earth would that be right?

But possibly the saddest part is this woman’s son. No offense to you, Voidrathe, but how desperate for male companionship must a boy be to bond with a total stranger? Granted, comics are kick-ass, but the kid needs a father and the bitch screwed him out of that opportunity, literally and metaphorically. I had the same thing happen at an acquaintance’s house where her 9 year old nephew went from “Aunt So-and-So is my best friend” to telling her off because he wanted to hang out with me, a dude who had similar interests, in about 10 minutes. Fortunately, more of these kids seem to be going MGTOW than in my age group, so there may be hope yet.

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

There is no such thing as a single father or a single mother. When you become a parent you become either or father or mother. You are no longer single. If you have any type of paternity they come first.

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[BubParticipant 1407]

@Voidrathe.  Print this whole post out and let your bud read it.  Let him see what the MGTOW’s think of this life he’s imprisoned in. Ask him if any of what he’s reading here makes sense, can he see how he’s a slave to the plantation.

Then hand him a red pill.  The choice is his… Take the red pill now or take it later but take it he will, eventually….

Just rolling down the road

[Dcue95Participant 78]

Voidraithe wrote:

they are getting desperate and bitter.

In all seriousness though, we’re starting to have an effect!

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

There is no such thing as a single father or a single mother. When you become a parent you become either or father or mother. You are no longer single. If you have any type of paternity they come first.

 

All this. As a father who struggles to get along with the mother of my child, it truly galls me that I have to speak with her often and even ask questions of her to ensure my sons safety and that he is provided for by her. If shes going through a tough time and struggles for money, I feel obligated to pay whatever it is that needs paying at the time. I’m not naive enough to give her cash, I’ll either take the overdue bill or turn up with shopping to ensure that my son will be ok. It rarely happens but as a Father, I will put my son first and while he’s a child I have to watch over her too.
Shes not a single mother, I rip through her when she makes comments like that because shes not doing it alone. Those that ARE single mothers have only themselves to blame.

In response to OP? I’d only hang onto your friend if he grew a spine, frankly. Allowing a manipulative bitch to use his email? Allowing her to set up his friends without giving them warning? Allowing her to decide who his friends should be? The mans gotta find his b~~~~ n put the bitch back in her box, or flick her off REAL quick cause my spidey sense tells me this one he’s with will get very vicious if he keeps her

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[experiencedParticipant]

VoidraitheI need to rant somewhere.

Brother, after reading your topic, it isn’t possible for you to ‘rant’ on this one. Anything you communicate is completely justified.

I attended a barbeque on Friday. My friend invited eight people, and his girlfriend invited eight of her friends, didn’t think much of it until later.

Lesson learned for all of us, thank you for sharing it.

During the barbeque I ended up talking to this 10 year old who was running around playing Iron Man. I’m a fan of Iron Man so we had a talk about comics and the Avengers movies. I had a good talk, surprising considering his age.

Entirely reasonable.  Again thanks for sharing, many would’ve done the same thing and now we know not to.

I didn’t realize it  at the time but there four “single” guys and four “single” ladies.

No, there were four single guys and four single moms. If laydeez can brag about what true heroes these single moms are and how they have the hardest job int dee wohrlt…well then, that’s what they should’ve been introduced to you as, along with  a brass band/red carpet/ light a candle/ring a bell……..      For crying out loud, you let your guard down at a friend sponsored party.     “What friend like this would do such a thing to their own friend naturally trusting them [sing to green sleeves] this this is not a friend at least until he begs via recompense, this this is not a friend but a blue piller til he wakes up”.       ANS: a male now temporarily or permanently compromised by a laydeez.

 

All four of these ladies were single mothers and most of them in the end days of their looks.

Well, sounds like They are not relationship material… and neither is your “””friend’s””” pushy pushy bang bang.

Saturday, I get an e-mail from my friend. Yeah, the mother of the ten year old I was talking to thought “I was a nice guy and wondering if I was available for coffee sometimes”. My response was: I know you know I’m MGTOW. Why would you ask me this?

Good call!

I’m not interested, at all.

IMO, bad call. Volunteer Nothing. The trap was set without your being briefed – screw that.  No EZ answers – Ever. Just ask her eg “why didn’t you talk to me directly? What other things have guys found out indirectly? Is this your way of showing basic human respect? Does little Timmy have to be how old before he realizes he is being used for bait? What effect will that have on him – figuring it out for himself?   ………..Don’t give her anything, do forty to four hundred emails with just questionsquestions until she gives up. IMO.

Later I get an e-mail back explaining that his GF sent the e-mail and arranged the barbeque to try and get her single friends to meet his single friends.

No, she tried to help get her irresponsible loser friends “latch ontoable wallets.” Now it’s not even, they don’t make anywhere near what you do, it’s financial black holes. at the neighborhood  Sesame St song, “OhHHH, the skank is the woman in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, the skank is the woman in your neighborhood who reaches at your wallet each day.”

Not to mention breadwinners vs life wreckers. What a pairing.

He apologized for his GF sending the e-mail in a false pretenses. I told him if his GF is putting together any more single Mom mixers to lose my invitation. He agreed.

Yesterday I get an angry e-mail from his GF.

Wasn’t she in Nazi Zombies?

It was a bunch of attempts at shaming and blaming as well as a whine about how hard it is out there for women and especially single Mothers.

And their kids. they don’t give a damn about their kids. if they want to ruin their own lives, that’s one thing, but they ruin the kids as well

They cash in over half of a child’s childhood happiness and growth for ‘quick c~~~ing fun’ and ‘child support cash to boot!’ You go girl! Hang your f~~~ing head in shame.

The e-mail ended with a “he doesn’t need a friend like you.”

No. no no no no NO. Who the eff does she think she is, pointing fingers. The first accuser wins strategy doesn’t work for MGTOW. Your ‘friend’ doesn’t need a mate like her. “what they do with the small stuff, they will do with the big stuff”   She has shown him by this post exactly who she is. REALLY, it’s akin to the “I will rule you” c~~~ that Vector had an extremely close call with. His staying with her would be like taking a biting Doberman from the dog whisperer After he told you that he was sorry and tried everything and nothing’d work. And both his hands and arms were wrapped in gauze.

I have sent that e-mail to my friends and haven’t heard anything back.

Look out MGTOW brothers, they are getting desperate and bitter.

There but for the grace of God.

Seriously – tight post – thank you for it.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

I attended a barbeque on Friday. My friend invited eight people, and his girlfriend invited eight of her friends, didn’t think much of it until later.

Lesson learned for all of us, thank you for sharing it.

During the barbeque I ended up talking to this 10 year old who was running around playing Iron Man. I’m a fan of Iron Man so we had a talk about comics and the Avengers movies. I had a good talk, surprising considering his age.

Entirely reasonable.  Again thanks for sharing, many would’ve done the same thing and now we know not to.

I didn’t realize it  at the time but there four “single” guys and four “single” ladies.

No, there were four single guys and four single moms. If laydeez can brag about what true heroes these single moms are and how they have the hardest job int dee wohrlt…well then, that’s what they should’ve been introduced to you as, along with  a brass band/red carpet/ light a candle/ring a bell……..      For crying out loud, you let your guard down at a friend sponsored party.     “What friend like this would do such a thing to their own friend naturally trusting them [sing to green sleeves] this this is not a friend at least until he begs via recompense, this this is not a friend but a blue piller til he wakes up”.       ANS: a male now temporarily or permanently compromised by a laydeez.

 

All four of these ladies were single mothers and most of them in the end days of their looks.

Well, sounds like They are not relationship material… and neither is your “””friend’s””” pushy pushy bang bang.

Saturday, I get an e-mail from my friend. Yeah, the mother of the ten year old I was talking to thought “I was a nice guy and wondering if I was available for coffee sometimes”. My response was: I know you know I’m MGTOW. Why would you ask me this?

Good call!

I’m not interested, at all.

IMO, bad call. Volunteer Nothing. The trap was set without your being briefed – screw that.  No EZ answers – Ever. Just ask her eg “why didn’t you talk to me directly? What other things have guys found out indirectly? Is this your way of showing basic human respect? Does little Timmy have to be how old before he realizes he is being used for bait? What effect will that have on him – figuring it out for himself?   ………..Don’t give her anything, do forty to four hundred emails with just questionsquestions until she gives up. IMO.

Later I get an e-mail back explaining that his GF sent the e-mail and arranged the barbeque to try and get her single friends to meet his single friends.

He apologized for his GF sending the e-mail in a false pretenses. I told him if his GF is putting together any more single Mom mixers to lose my invitation. He agreed.

Yesterday I get an angry e-mail from his GF.

Wasn’t she in Nazi Zombies?

It was a bunch of attempts at shaming and blaming as well as a whine about how hard it is out there for women and especially single Mothers.

And their kids. they don’t give a damn about their kids. if they want to ruin their own lives, that’s one thing, but they ruin the kids as well

They cash in over half of a child’s childhood happiness and growth for ‘quick c~~~ing fun’ and ‘child support cash to boot!’ You go girl! Hang your f~~~ing head in shame.

The e-mail ended with a “he doesn’t need a friend like you.”

No. no no no no NO. Who the eff does she think she is, pointing fingers. The first accuser wins strategy doesn’t work for MGTOW. Your ‘friend’ doesn’t need a mate like her. “what they do with the small stuff, they will do with the big stuff”   She has shown him by this post exactly who she is. REALLY, it’s akin to the “I will rule you” c~~~ that Vector had an extremely close call with. His staying with her would be like taking a biting Doberman from the dog whisperer After he told you that he was sorry and tried everything and nothing’d work. And both his hands and arms were wrapped in gauze.

I have sent that e-mail to my friends and haven’t heard anything back.

Look out MGTOW brothers, they are getting desperate and bitter.

There but for the grace of God.

Seriously – tight post – thank you for it.

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

KingOfTheSea wrote:

But possibly the saddest part is this woman’s son. No offense to you, Voidrathe, but how desperate for male companionship must a boy be to bond with a total stranger?

Ah, there is the real tragedy. As for her, as Keymaster has eloquently said in the past. Made. bed. Lie.

I asked if he had seen Age of Ultron yet and he had not. The last movie he saw in a theatre was Frozen with his sister. There is no male presence in his house other than him. I would have liked to take this kid to see AoU but I can’t now as I have no doubt she will see any involvement with him as intrest in her. Or am I being paranoid here?

I had a phone convo with my friend and he is plenty p~~~ed at her, the invasion of privacy and general attitude of who will be his friends like that needs her approval.

He gave me some info on her. She divorced her husband because he was “cold and emotionally distant” but monkey had already chosen her new branch. She drove this guy away and has had no luck since.

Also she was made aware of the $325,000 house I have a mortgage on. 😮

 

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

Voidraithe wrote:

I had a phone convo with my friend and he is plenty p~~~ed at her, the invasion of privacy and general attitude of who will be his friends like that needs her approval.

I would have loved to have been a fly on the wall for that conversation.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Voidraithe wrote:

She divorced her husband because he was “cold and emotionally distant” but monkey had already chosen her new branch. She drove this guy away and has had no luck since. Also she was made aware of the $325,000 house I have a mortgage on.

I’m assuming you have a good job and your s~~~ together…so once again we see a case where a toxic woman with NOTHING to offer other than a well used vagina thinks she is entitled to a decent guy.  Its too bad these women are too stupid to realize we have two options that are both a way better choice than being with them…we can either just remain single or if we must have a woman, get a younger one with no kids.

It cracks me up how women try to spin the whole single mother thing like its female empowerment and any man with their head not buried in their ass sees it for what it is…a plague on society.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I’ve been the nice guy who had his life together (aka prime target) at many of these kinds of ambushes. I got education, job, house, no kids, no baggage, aka: stability. A regular Dr. Jekyl. It used to insult and irritate me, like it (rightfully) does to you right now. But eventually, I realized that being irritated doesn’t really change much, since no one actually gives a damn how I feel about anything. So, I started to think about what would make a difference…

Meet Mr Hyde.

Today, this is how I would have handled the situation you described. When I got the message that wall crasher thinks I’m a nice guy and wants to meet for coffee, I would have responded by saying that another of the wall crashers at the party has already asked me out, and already sent me x-rated pics and offered to have sex with me, and that I’ve accepted. But she has asked me to keep it quiet about it to respect her privacy. Then, NEVER say anything (even to the male friend) about which one it is. That news will spread among the group like lightening (they have no more respect for each other than for you). And within a day or two, everyone in the group will have gotten this news. The group of 8 of them will forget all about me and tear each other apart trying to figure out who the slut is. I just slide away and chuckle…

Of course this is a dishonest, ill intentioned, nasty thing to do. And I’m clearly a dick for even suggesting it, right? But given what everyone here knows they had in mind for you, is it not just an equally dishonest and nasty, and therefore perfectly appropriate response to that crap?

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

BrainPilot wrote:

That news will spread among the group like lightening (they have no more respect for each other than for you). And within a day or two, everyone in the group will have gotten this news. The group of 8 of them will forget all about me and tear each other apart trying to figure out who the slut is. I just slide away and chuckle…

+1   that is genius 

 

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

Hey BrainPilot, you ever consider teaching a class? That’s devious s~~~ right there, my friend.

[experiencedParticipant]

I had a phone convo with my friend and he is plenty p~~~ed at her, the invasion of privacy and general attitude of who will be his friends like that needs her approval.

“Plenty p~~~ed and a dime,” fifty years ago would get you a cup of coffee.  Today, in his situation, it will get him indentured servitude to slavery, twenty to life.  He just doesn’t know it yet.  My guess is he’ll marry her and his b~~~~ will shrivel faster than famed cyclist without HCG. His bitch would be right there to give the ironman boy’s mom advice on how to screw you in court years from now if you hadn’t seen it all for what it is. Unfortunately for the blue pillers, we are not allowed to turbo charge any info to them – they’d reject it. It has to be like a normally aspirated engine – extremely readily available fuel air mix, always ready, but only to be consumed at their choice of time.  This topic is a great one though and Will do a world of good.

He gave me some info on her. She divorced her husband because he was “cold and emotionally distant” but monkey had already chosen her new branch. She drove this guy away and has had no luck since.  Also she was made aware of the $325,000 house I have a mortgage on.

Goldigging c~~~S. She even Knew it’d be rejected by “I’m busy this weekend” and tried preemptively to curtail that by asking if you’d be available for coffee sometimes.

@brainpilot, thank you for your past description of women today vs men’s feeling guilty over their bounty. The short of it was something like: A guy is interested in a woman-wants to help her/   No, she’ll take half, then if he falls for this, she doesn’t consider herself having crossed the finish line til she kicks him to the curb.     [[No middle ground, no justice whatsoever, just kahchink..kahchunk.]]

If you, BrainPilot continue as you have been, you are doing so much good that it is hard to fathom.  If you were to choose to start formulating a book, my vote is that when it hits the e-shelves it will be a blockbuster impact wise.  I’ve got the notion you may already have thought of this and it is my sincerest hope that you follow through with it.]

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Magnificent thread, thank you for sharing !

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[TheBardParticipant 974]

I can see why you would be mad, but don’t be. I hope to be in a position like this myself one day. Think about it. You are doing just fine on your own right now are you not? You have a nice house, nice job, and as a man your looks aren’t really going anywhere. Now look at her. No father in her kids life, her looks are starting to go and she can’t offer what she used to unlike you who pretty much still can. You basically get to friend zone her but with one major difference. She is too old to do anything about it. In her youth she could easily just go use her looks to find someone else, but now the tables have turned. Just like how women could be super picky and use their looks to get ahead in their youth us men can be picky and use are kept looks and skills to get ahead in our late 30’s and beyond. One day after a I adopt a daughter I hope someone tries to introduce me to a woman to be her mother and after talking to said women be like “sorry but I really just see you have more of a friend”. I get to go home with my daughter and continue enjoying my life with her and no crazy woman while she will continue to go on childless, boyfriendless, and more eggs dying lol. Iknow it sounds extreme but to me it is a form of payback for all the s~~~ women do in their youth lol.

BritGHOW wrote:

I’ll be blunt and say that it’s you that don’t need a “friend” like him. As for her bulls~~~ about how single mothers having it so hard? My heart f~~~ing bleeds, maybe the single mother should have chosen an actual father rather than a sperm donor.

Now I know sometimes the woman had a really good guy and he might have died or been killed, but usually the woman made some stupid choice and refuses to live with the consequences. We all know the kind of men many women go for instead of decent guys. Someone needs to tell women that if they chose to f~~~ that douche bag looking buff guy at a party who is fondling a bunch of other girls then most likely he isn’t going to want to take care of any children and especially not going to want to stay committed to one woman.

Voidraithe wrote:

KingOfTheSea wrote:

I asked if he had seen Age of Ultron yet and he had not. The last movie he saw in a theatre was Frozen with his sister. There is no male presence in his house other than him. I would have liked to take this kid to see AoU but I can’t now as I have no doubt she will see any involvement with him as intrest in her. Or am I being paranoid here?

Ehh maybe you should have taken him to see Age of Ultron. He needs to see a real movie in the theater again after having watched that over hyped Frozen movie lol. Seriously you notice how women love it just because of that “you can’t marry a man you just met” line? It wasn’t a bad movie, but holy crap do women give that movie way to much credit. It had 2 female leads and no one got married at the end, big whoop. Quit acting like it is up there with something like The Dark Knight or The Empire Strikes Back lol.

[KingOfTheSeaParticipant 1270]

TheBard wrote:

Ehh maybe you should have taken him to see Age of Ultron. He needs to see a real movie in the theater again after having watched that over hyped Frozen movie lol. Seriously you notice how women love it just because of that “you can’t marry a man you just met” line? It wasn’t a bad movie, but holy crap do women give that movie way to much credit. It had 2 female leads and no one got married at the end, big whoop. Quit acting like it is up there with something like The Dark Knight or The Empire Strikes Back lol.

God, don’t get me started on this. I’m not a violent person at all, but if I hear “Let It Go” ONE more f~~~ing time…

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

TheBard wrote:

as a man your looks aren’t really going anywhere

Well here is the thing, I’m not what I would consider attractive. I’m overweight, have a fondness for food and a mild addiction to Dr. Pepper. I can cook well and have made things like Chicken Breast with Goat Cheese, Bacon and Chive filling. A bad knee prevents really strenuous exercise so I just deal with it. That said, she wasn’t after me for my looks. I looked like father material and had a house, that is it as far as I can see.

[experiencedParticipant]

Voidraithe,”I looked like father material and had a house, that is it as far as I can see.”

Don’t sell yourself short.  You don’t get a $325,000.00 mortgaged house by playing tiddlywinks. The career you have represents a rock to her that she can count on. And you don’t arrive at that much income by being lazy/stupid. You, via what you can provide to her, are the effing prize. They  know this and will do all sorts of stuff to get that prize. Unfortunately, you can not count on her, as you well know.  (Keep your guard up.)

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

TheBard wrote:

BritGHOW wrote:

I’ll be blunt and say that it’s you that don’t need a “friend” like him. As for her bulls~~~ about how single mothers having it so hard? My heart f~~~ing bleeds, maybe the single mother should have chosen an actual father rather than a sperm donor.

Now I know sometimes the woman had a really good guy and he might have died or been killed, but usually the woman made some stupid choice and refuses to live with the consequences. We all know the kind of men many women go for instead of decent guys. Someone needs to tell women that if they chose to f~~~ that douche bag looking buff guy at a party who is fondling a bunch of other girls then most likely he isn’t going to want to take care of any children and especially not going to want to stay committed to one woman.

Widows are a different kettle of fish, they at least get some measure of sympathy and even respect for the fact that through no fault of their own they’ve lost the husband that for at least for however long they stuck with. Single mothers who of their own free will chose poorly to either get knocked up by a badboy or to ditch a husband/father because they thought they could do better get nothing but contempt.

KingOfTheSea wrote:

God, don’t get me started on this. I’m not a violent person at all, but if I hear “Let It Go” ONE more f~~~ing time…

You have no idea how tempting a target this is:p ah, get thee behind me, Satan

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