In search of friendship I was tricked by a gay son of a bitch -Part 2

[DisenchantedBroParticipant 156]

Thank you guys for all the advice. The situation is complicated because as many of you pointed out, everyone is on his side, which is crazy and angers me. One thing I know I did wrong is that I called him a “f~~~ing f~~~~~” when I was pushing out of the car. I know that’s seen as something horrible, but it seems that me calling him a f~~~~~ was worse than what he did. Since it didn’t happe at work I don’t know if HR is a good route. I’m trying to let the situation die down, but I do feel like a pariah. I know people see me as homophobic now. It just felt so ducking wrong when he tried to bust that s~~~. Since I’ve never had it, I’ve always seen brotherhood and friendship between men as something sacred. I watch a lot of War movies and shows about the army and I’m always impressed at those guys, their loyalty, and how they stick to their word. It feels none of that matters anymore. Seems like only gay people matter and that being straight is weird now. And then something like this happens and I’m the one that’s seen as a monster. WTF. I just wanted some friends that’s all. Just regulars straight guys to be bros with, nothing more. Everywhere I go I feel like I’m committing a crime if I look at a woman’s breast or ass, like I feel paranoid. Of course I never verbalize any of my thoughts on women because I’m scared someone will accuse me of harassment, but then some dude grabbing my crotch is okay? F~~~ no. I’m angry. I feel like this dude saw my vulnerability and took advantage of me wanting friends. How f~~~ing low is that. Instead of being a friend, he does that. I feel like gay guys are almost as bad as women. I don’t want to generalize but it seems like it.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Separate your work life from your personal life.

Ignore the people at work and only talk/interact with them on an as needed basis. If you eventually make one to two “work” friends keep your friendship “work related”, and on the clock. Don’t go out with them after work. In the long run, your work life will be simpler, and you will AVOID a whole lot of “work” drama that a lot of people get all tangled up in like YOU ARE NOW.

Consider this a Life Lesson. LEARN from it, and move on.

Go to work, and do your job, and go home.

Outside of work join a gym, find clubs/groups of an interest of yours, etc. etc., and make friends/acquaintances there if ya feel the need.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[AutoliteParticipant]

Awakened wrote:

Ignore the people at work and only talk/interact with them on an as needed basis. If you eventually make one to two “work” friends keep your friendship “work related”, and on the clock. Don’t go out with them after work. In the long run, your work life will be simpler, and you will AVOID a whole lot of “work” drama that a lot of people get all tangled up in like YOU ARE NOW.

Unless of course you’re in the military. You are forced to socialize with your ‘co-workers’. During my time in the service, I had been ordered on multiple occasions to attend social functions with retards I wouldn’t have given the time of day to in the real world…

[Anonymous 12]

I just wanted some friends that’s all.

And there you go and call a Gay guy a f~~get.

Oh you dumb F~~~.
Oh the Naiveté!
Nobody will ever be your Friend just becaused you need one.
Nobody will ever be your Bro just because you wish so.
Nothing is sacred.
Certainly not at work.

From your intro:
It was always hard for me to talk to the other dudes at my job and even harder to talk to women or go on dates.
The Job is a Minefield.
A Shark Tank.
It is not a Playground.
This is not High School any more – it is about Gold Coin and the ability to pay your Bills.
Spend a few hours on your CV and expect to be shown the door at your current place of employment.

And forget this whole “i need brothers, i need Friends, i am so alone, i am an only child, nobody loves me, waaa waaa waaa.”
Jesus F~~~ing H Christ! Start protecting yourself from Blue pill men!
Stay away from drama queens!
Drag queens!
And all other Queens!

You were Born alone.
You will die alone.
Learn to live alone.

Love the Guy in the mirror, by
– feeding him right,
– clothing him properly,
– showering daily,
– staying focussed on the Job at hand.

He will level up in no time.

[bladeParticipant]

DisenchantedBro wrote:

I know people see me as homophobic now.

Why give a f~~~ what others think of you .

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DisenchantedBro wrote:

And then something like this happens and I’m the one that’s seen as a monster. WTF

Stop with worrying what others think of you . You either want to deal with the matter or not . If it was me in the car and some f~~~~~ tried that s~~~ on me it would of been dealt with on the spot .

If you feal it has effected you that bad why not go to the cops . This guy could be a habitual f~~~~~ with a record .

F~~~ line up another job and leave this job on good terms . Start lining up now .

DO OR DO NOT . Don’t end up chasing your tail . Sitting stagnent going over and over s~~~ will not help you in the long run .

Ring the cops and have a chat with them over the phone

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Have a choice, you can have friends or money/success.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[JVBParticipant]

You did nothing wrong bro. You stood up for yourself. Don’t take any s~~~, making everyone happy is not realistic.

Peace is > piece.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

DisenchantedBro wrote:

I know that’s seen as something horrible, but it seems that me calling him a f~~~~~ was worse than what he did.

Look up the etymology [origin] of that word.

F~~~~~ is an old English word describing a lit torch, flaming on one end and being carried on the other end [think witch hunts at night].
F~~ is still used in the UK as another word for a cigarette.

“Can I bum a f~~?”

In the early 19th century, it was considered unmanly to smoke anything but a cigar, or maybe a pipe. As cigarettes were becoming popular with the gay community in London as a means of identifying each other, the term f~~ started being used to describe what they were smoking and those smoking them.

THEY HAVE OWNED THE WORD F~~ FOR 200 YEARS.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[MonkParticipant 16982]

Solo MAN’S Wisdom wrote:

In the early 19th century, it was considered unmanly to smoke anything but a cigar, or maybe a pipe. As cigarettes were becoming popular with the gay community in London as a means of identifying each other, the term f~~ started being used to describe what they were smoking and those smoking them.

It may also have some connection to the practice of f~~ging in public schools.

For non-British readers: ‘Public schools’ are in fact private, fee-paying institutions. ‘F~~ging’ was the practice of older boys having younger boys assigned to them as servants. The younger boy was a ‘f~~’.

Homosexuality was common and the younger boy was frequently buggered.

[CuckSniperParticipant 449]

Laugh it off and tell people you are allowed to say it because you are also gay.

It’s your only option left if you wish to save your job or whatever. *Note that I did not see the first thread lol

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