In Reality The Divorce Process Never Ends

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

So what, the divorce is finalised; means nothing. The bitch can open a new court case any time during the rest of your natural masculine life. All she needs to do is refer to the finalised divorce judgement and contest it at her fancy. The law gives the bitch the power to take money from you, punish you, and crush your soul. IT NEVER ENDS! NEVER! NEVER GET MARRIED! NEVER!
If this is what equality is all about then MEN should have the ability to put BITCHES through hell. I don’t care how or when. C~~~s have a crap load of bad karma heading their bloody menstruating way if you ask me.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I had a bloody dream that I managed to invent a small stick of TNT that looked just like a damned tampon!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I know I’m pushing it but let’s be clear here. As A MGTOW I can bloody well let my mind dream up whatever it wants to!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

No worries bro—we have all had serious red-pill rage moments. I know I have been WAY over the line more than once, so everything is cool–this is a safe place to vent.

[AutoliteParticipant]

In Reality The Divorce Process Never Ends

The really sad part is that most guys do not appreciate this until they’re already married.

It should be mandated that couples attend family law lectures before a marriage license is granted. The only reason not to do this is that it would likely put a huge dent in birth rates and the divorce industry…

[Anonymous 42]

Point Of No Return wrote:

I know I’m pushing it but let’s be clear here. As A MGTOW I can bloody well let my mind dream up whatever it wants to!

Ever play soccer ball in your mind except the ball is someone’s head? It’s really cool how the blood flies from the severed neck and the spatter pattern it leaves on the sidewalk; blot, thin spatter, blot, thin spatter, blot, thin spatter, blot, thin spatter, blot, thin spatter, blot, thin spatter, blot, thin spatter, sometimes I have to kick a motherf~~~er clear to China before I calm down! You’re in the right place!

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m not sure that’s true. Isn’t there a statute of limitations on the divorce decree? Now, if children are involved, then yes, she can go back to court for more child support. I guess alimony could also factor in, but not where I live.

However, if you do have kids, even after the kids are fully independent, you still have divorce issues to deal with. Your kids still need to navigate spending time between you and mom. And then possibly the grandkids.

Really, it doesn’t end till somebody dies.

Ok. Then do it.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

narwhal wrote:

I’m not sure that’s true. Isn’t there a statute of limitations on the divorce decree? Now, if children are involved, then yes, she can go back to court for more child support. I guess alimony could also factor in, but not where I live.

However, if you do have kids, even after the kids are fully independent, you still have divorce issues to deal with. Your kids still need to navigate spending time between you and mom. And then possibly the grandkids.

Really, it doesn’t end till somebody dies.

It’s called A Motion For Modification
http://info.legalzoom.com/after-divorce-final-can-exspouse-back-court-23937.html

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[AutoliteParticipant]

IIRC there was a YouTube video that mentioned some guy who went to prison for 25 years for a crime that he didn’t commit. He was exonerated and released on new DNA evidence and was award a few million dollars for the injustice that he endured.

His wife divorced him after the first three years into his sentence but she sued him for ‘her share’ of the award when he got out.

I don’t recall what the judgement was but it’s unsettling that the case even made it to court…

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

narwhal wrote:

I’m not sure that’s true. Isn’t there a statute of limitations on the divorce decree? Now, if children are involved, then yes, she can go back to court for more child support. I guess alimony could also factor in, but not where I live.

However, if you do have kids, even after the kids are fully independent, you still have divorce issues to deal with. Your kids still need to navigate spending time between you and mom. And then possibly the grandkids.

Really, it doesn’t end till somebody dies.

It’s called A Motion For Modification
http://info.legalzoom.com/after-divorce-final-can-exspouse-back-court-23937.html

I think it varies from state to state. I’m pretty sure it’s 3 years after the divorce in my state. Partially because the ex threatened me with it when she overspent what was given to her. I told her that a deal is a deal and she replied, not for the next three years. I can always go back and ask for more.

Order the good wine

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

narwhal wrote:

Isn’t there a statute of limitations on the divorce decree?

No I’m afraid not. Statutes of limitations refer only to the attachment of liability with regard to criminal offenses. Since divorce is a civil/tort action it doesn’t apply.

[narwhalParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

No I’m afraid not. Statutes of limitations refer only to the attachment of liability with regard to criminal offenses. Since divorce is a civil/tort action it doesn’t apply.

At least in my case, I really don’t have much to worry about. My ex knows that there was very little money at the time of the divorce. As well, I had her provide financial statements 3 times while we were separated. She absolutely hated that. She also knows that I will never just give her money, I will make her get it legal and she’ll have to pay a lawyer for that. Although it was never really my intention, I believe she’s scared to challenge me in any way on a legal aspect.

Besides, she has a new husband and appears to be getting a lot more traction from him. Not my problem.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 13]

Marriage is a full on legal ruination of most men.

During the marriage where all his money is spent on s~~~ trying to keep the c~~~ happy.

During the divorce trying to get unc~~~ed.

And often way beyond, when the greedy c~~~ keeps coming back.

Getting married is the worst thing any man can do today.

This from someone who once believed in the sanctity of marriage and loving a partner for life.

Now I think marriage should be outlawed.

It needs to be seen for the man destroying machine it is.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

narwhal wrote:

PistolPete wrote:

No I’m afraid not. Statutes of limitations refer only to the attachment of liability with regard to criminal offenses. Since divorce is a civil/tort action it doesn’t apply.

At least in my case, I really don’t have much to worry about. My ex knows that there was very little money at the time of the divorce. As well, I had her provide financial statements 3 times while we were separated. She absolutely hated that. She also knows that I will never just give her money, I will make her get it legal and she’ll have to pay a lawyer for that. Although it was never really my intention, I believe she’s scared to challenge me in any way on a legal aspect.

Besides, she has a new husband and appears to be getting a lot more traction from him. Not my problem.

That’s right, you have to make getting anything as difficult as possible. Some women can’t stand getting their papers together, for others, like you mentioned, they’re too busy bleeding a simp, and then again others don’t have the means to pay the retainer. Be a pain in the ass to her without lifting a finger, because that’s what she deserves!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

Marriage is a full on legal ruination of most men.

During the marriage where all his money is spent on s~~~ trying to keep the c~~~ happy.

During the divorce trying to get unc~~~ed.

And often way beyond, when the greedy c~~~ keeps coming back.

Getting married is the worst thing any man can do today.

This from someone who once believed in the sanctity of marriage and loving a partner for life.

Now I think marriage should be outlawed.

It needs to be seen for the man destroying machine it is.

It should be outlawed! I’d back any politician with the guts to voice that one.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

There is another possibility. If you don’t have much in the way of assets, family, or job then you can REALLY throw a monkey wrench into the machinery. Move to a new jurisdiction, legally change your name, apply for a new social security number. That won’t stop the ex from finding you but it will make it more difficult in terms of paperwork…once you do this two or three times the ex will give up.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

PistolPete wrote:

There is another possibility. If you don’t have much in the way of assets, family, or job then you can REALLY throw a monkey wrench into the machinery. Move to a new jurisdiction, legally change your name, apply for a new social security number. That won’t stop the ex from finding you but it will make it more difficult in terms of paperwork…once you do this two or three times the ex will give up.

I’ll be keeping this one up my sleeve just in case.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 42]

PistolPete wrote:

narwhal wrote:

Isn’t there a statute of limitations on the divorce decree?

No I’m afraid not. Statutes of limitations refer only to the attachment of liability with regard to criminal offenses. Since divorce is a civil/tort action it doesn’t apply.

In other words, married or not, until death do you PART! At weddings they should hand a shotgun to the groom so he can blow his own f~~~ing head off!

[DDJParticipant 1880]

To the OP:

Women know this. The best thing a man can do is try to rebuild his life somewhere else where he is out of the jurisdiction where the divorce was filed.

It only takes one court hearing to destroy a man’s life for decades to come. With that in mind, I encourage those who, like myself, are divorced to adopt more stoic and minimalistic views of life. This is a mindset change that for many is often painful. However, once achieved, the man finds peace and can rebuild his life from the ashes of the old one.

Like anything in life…lay low and don’t draw fire.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

DDJ wrote:

To the OP:

Women know this. The best thing a man can do is try to rebuild his life somewhere else where he is out of the jurisdiction where the divorce was filed.

It only takes one court hearing to destroy a man’s life for decades to come. With that in mind, I encourage those who, like myself, are divorced to adopt more stoic and minimalistic views of life. This is a mindset change that for many is often painful. However, once achieved, the man finds peace and can rebuild his life from the ashes of the old one.

Like anything in life…lay low and don’t draw fire.

I think learning to embrace stoicism and minimalism is key to ‘giving back’ to society. For every guy that takes that path there’s a little dust thrown into the machinery. With time the machinery will start to fail.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

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