In a dilemma.

[Savage WillParticipant 181]

I got a call from my dad. He said my mom is sick and is in the hospital in the ICU. There is a small outgrowth of abnormal cells. The doctor said its gonna be fine though. My dad is calling me to meet my mom where I’ll have to meet my c~~~ of a sister who spread my rumours and tried to shame me publicly. My mother did not help me none. It was very clear. Whenever I try to bring this topic out to her she changes the topic. It’s clear that they are in cahoots with one another. If she really is sick then I would like to go. But if they’re(not my dad but the rest of the people i know in that town) up to something fishy. Somehow I feel uneasy about this. If theyre upto something and I don’t go, then again people with lizard brains will start hating me more. But somehow if i think its the truth and i go, then i risk how much ive been healing and all the peace ive acquired. My sister is ready with an army of feminists and sjws. I just know. Its a tight spot for me to be in. I just dont feel comfortable about the situation. What would be the best thing to do in this situation?

Don't fucking tell me it's nighttime when the sun is clearly shining in the sky.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Savage Will wrote:

If theyre upto something and I don’t go, then again people with lizard brains will start hating me more. What would be the best thing to do in this situation?

Since when should the opinions of people with lizard brains, be prioritized over your own well being ?

Can’t tell you what to do, but that’s something to think about.

[Anonymous 42]

Savage Will wrote:

What would be the best thing to do in this situation?

Go visit unannounced when nobody is there and you’re unexpected then disapear into the night like thief or a bandit!

In and out! Just like modern relationships! IN AND OUT! They won’t have time to enact any battle plans or ambushes. Like a thief in the night they won’t know anything until you’re long gone.

Sucks being on the spot, I know, my spot follows me around like a searchlight on a helicopter…

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Savage Will wrote:

Somehow I feel uneasy about this.

– you should go, I was to proud and the relationship I was stuck in, f~~~ed things with my family up, so when I finally got out, my parents had both passed away, my Sis wouldn’t speak to me and my son was taken hostage (at least this is, what it felt like) by his mother.

right now, your mom is sick and that is all that matters. You will hopefully find time to sort things out, when she is better again. Now is not the time to pick up on old fights. Show them you will not grant them the power to scare you away. You will not allow them to rule anything in your life, you will stand your ground.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Anonymous 0]

It’s family. You have to go; but I like Tower’s method. Don’t let them see you coming.

[SlingshotParticipant 171]

Sounds like your sister is the real (CONTROLC~~~) issue. Can you call your dad to express your concern and get more details? You should be able to get a clearer lay of the land without going into an ambush scenario. If your sence of s~~~tery is still ringing then take appropriate action(s).

I second Nighthawk – your well being Trumps any other considerations. You’ve created a space for good reason, this sounds like a catch 22 event. What action will create the best long term outcome for you?

[MagusParticipant 424]

It would depend on your relationship to your dad. If it means a lot to him then I would go. Otherwise I would not. I have no trouble judging people based on their actions rather than their relationship to me.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

In your spot I’d go see my Mom, despite the fact that my mom and I never got along until my late twenties.

As far as your sister and an army feminists and sjws go, they are powerless against you if you don’t engage. They can say anything they want, you’re there for your mom.

I’d make sure to never be alone with any of them though to mitigate false accusations about your conduct.

They can’t make you impregnate, cohabitation, or marry. Any argument they make if you even bother to speak to them just proves your decision to go MGTOW was the right decision.

Are there specific topics that you are concerned are going to come up? Maybe the brothers can give you some tools or quick phrases to shut them down.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[HitmanParticipant]

your’e walking in to an ambush.
DO NOT GO,
not when they are waiting for you.
listen to tower.
visit off hours and get out.
..talk to your dad,
because a few cells growing is NOT a death sentence.
. you go when it’s BEST FOR YOU.

[Anonymous 11]

I’d do what Tower suggests hit and run.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Yeah don’t let them dictate exactly when you’ll show up, if you’ll even show up at all. Since everything is “going to be fine”, as you said, there is no reason to go. You don’t have to be at their beck and call just because they had a “scare”.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Anonymous 1]

Family, or at least what is left of it, is one of the most valuable things you have, I say you should go. Wether or not there will be your sister, you can just ignore her and take the best out of that situation, be a man.

Last Christmas, one of my cousins(a female obviously) had some resentment towards me, she acted like a kid and did not speak for the whole lunch time, I, on the other side had a nice talk with relatives and some laughs.

Take the best out of the situations, give them nothing.

[rebelandboltmanParticipant 640]

Go, but do it on your own terms.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Go….. make an entrance MG-TOWer style.

Take someone with you (not a blue-pilled f~~~wit however).

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Savage WillParticipant 181]

i appreciate all the insights you guys give. its coming from a genuine place.
You guys are my real friends( I PREFER BROTHERS FROM DIFFERENT MOTHERS) even though its just through the internet.
I’m sure if i go I’m gonna be doing what they want me to do. I risk everything Ive worked for if i go.
I’m gonna find out in a discreet manner( i still got a small handful pals and cousins who’re single and not lizard brained. can’t say if theyre blue pilled or not but they don’t entertain a woman’s crazy nature) if my mom is actually seriously ill or not. I’m not gonna risk my hard-earned personal position to satisfy my sister’s sadistic nature over a game(if it is so)
I agree about the family thing. the greatest blessing in life is family. But my family(excluding my father) have hurt me deeply and deliberately in the past and it f~~~ing hurts. I’m not gonna make myself feel like that again. takes more than a year of suffering to get through it.
there will be consequences too but better the consequences I’m anticipating than the one i can hardly or can’t handle.
a Long time from now, im gonna beat the s~~~ out of those guys who’re blindly targeting me. the guys. nothing sadistic. just plain rage. its gonna happen

Don't fucking tell me it's nighttime when the sun is clearly shining in the sky.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

If you want to see her, then go see her. If you don’t, then don’t.

To avoid the other nonsense if you do go, tell your dad you want to see your mother but not your sister etc. Ask him for a time where it will just be him there etc.
If he f~~~s you over on that, and they are waiting for you, then leave, and cut them out of your life. imo

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Savage Will wrote:

i appreciate all the insights you guys give. its coming from a genuine place.
You guys are my real friends( I PREFER BROTHERS FROM DIFFERENT MOTHERS) even though its just through the internet.
I’m sure if i go I’m gonna be doing what they want me to do. I risk everything Ive worked for if i go.
I’m gonna find out in a discreet manner( i still got a small handful pals and cousins who’re single and not lizard brained. can’t say if theyre blue pilled or not but they don’t entertain a woman’s crazy nature) if my mom is actually seriously ill or not. I’m not gonna risk my hard-earned personal position to satisfy my sister’s sadistic nature over a game(if it is so)
I agree about the family thing. the greatest blessing in life is family. But my family(excluding my father) have hurt me deeply and deliberately in the past and it f~~~ing hurts. I’m not gonna make myself feel like that again. takes more than a year of suffering to get through it.
there will be consequences too but better the consequences I’m anticipating than the one i can hardly or can’t handle.
a Long time from now, im gonna beat the s~~~ out of those guys who’re blindly targeting me. the guys. nothing sadistic. just plain rage. its gonna happen

I hear you bro.
Family isn’t always the greatest thing in your life. Some time they are the most destructive people you will ever be around.
People who come from nurturing, functional families don’t always understand how toxic these people can be. That you didn’t cut them out of your life because they made a snarky comment at Thanksgiving.

I cut my family out, and it is the best thing ever. MY family is so dysfunctional that everyone has now cut everyone else out as well. MY younger sister doesn’t deal with any of them, my older sister only my mother etc.

Don’t let them damage you further. If you want to go, go, but only on your terms and if they f~~~ you over by trying to ambush you, then leave.

If you don’t want to go, don’t go. Nobody can judge you for that. They didn’t live through what you di with your family. THEY DON’T KNOW.

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

I would say go, just remember that you can leave at any time. I think the best time to leave is right after you tell your sister you are not going to take her s~~~ anymore. Boldly tell her where you stand and that she is full of s~~~. Remember, your sister is just another c~~~ using her sick and disgusting ways to hurt you and to manipulate you. You may not think she is a c~~~, but remember, the rest of us on this site will. Use the info and methods you found on this website to bolster yourself and F~~~ING TELL HER!!! What is she going to do? I will tell you. Drop her jaw and stare at your back as you walk away from her. (you might see if you have a friend to record it for you)LOL Don’t forget, your true brothers and friends are here on this website. If you need help don’t hesitate to ask.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

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