In a bad space right now. REALLY BAD!

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

In a bad space right now.
My ex wife had her boyfriend MOVE IN to my place after only 3 weeks of my sons knowing him. I can barely contain my rage! I can barely talk without foaming at the mouth. This is a horrible experience for me. My ex has told my sons that he is their new dad! Both my sons can’t stand this guy. I’m having one hell of a time maintaining self control at this point. For you guys that have had something similar happen to you, it only all I can do from keeping myself from doing something irreversible. It’s incredible that my ex would do this to her own sons! I can’t get over it. My sons tell me that they sleep on the floor in the living room so that they can have the back part of the place for their little f~~~fest. There’s even a single mom with a baby moved into the room that my son usually sleeps in. I’m feeling, well, it’s practically evil the thoughts I’m having.

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[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

My ex met this guy over some dating site and actually got him to leave Europe to come and stay with her and my sons at the place I STILL OWN! What kind of f~~~head leaves his city and goes without seeing his own two kids for over a month just to f~~~ my ex c~~~ that he met through a dating app and has facetimed with for only a couple of months! I can’t believe this is actually happening! Both my sons can’t stand this f~~~er, who, to please my ex c~~~, is in full Save-A-Hoe mode and the two f~~~-rabbits are trying to turn me into a f~~~ing Uncle Dad! I’m so full of rage it’s crazy!

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[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

It takes all the inner strength I can muster not to connect with that f~~~er or tell my ex a s~~~load of nasty stuff by email. And they all don’t have jobs! Now that I have a job I will be financing f~~~ing plane tickets for my ex’s Chad-f~~~head to fly back and forth from Canada to Europe! She’s put a single mom with baby in my son’s room to make extra cash, she tell my son that this guy of her’s, a guy that simply moved into the place where my sons live, went and tell my sons that he’s their new dad! And now he talks to him like he’s the boss, or their dad, or something, this is what my son told me!! My older son is a teen and is so upset that he clenches his fists with anger when my ex’s f~~~er tells my son to obey s~~~. This is all truly insane and I had no idea that this s~~~ was in my future when I first came to MGTOW, so I’m really struggling to keep it together and not do something crazy, and I mean REAL REALLY CRAZY.

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[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Hey man, sorry to hear you have to face such an absurd situation. Firstly, as tempting as it may be, doing something really crazy isn’t going to help your boys. Perhaps reporting these conditions to child welfare might help? That or maybe you could talk to the local police or lawyer to see if anything can be done?

As for the new ‘Dad’ bulls~~~ I’ve seen it before and it’s disgusting behaviour, but sounds like your sons won’t fall for that crap.

I know in Australia the child can choose to live with whichever parent they want when they reach 14 years old. Might be worth investigating to see if any such rule exists in your own country.

No matter what you do, I’d recommend you give yourself time to grieve and channel your anger through exercise and base your actions on logic and on the advice of professionals.

All the best mate, RD.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

I admire your self control. That is amazing strength. Please find solace in knowing your sons hate him and will resent her forever.
I can bet this Chad won’t last.

This is absolutely horrible! The bitches in this damn country are the worst and our system is so f~~~ed up, especially with PM Mangina and his bloody socks.

Is there any way your boys can stay with you?

Working your ass off for their betterment is enraging. If it helps, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Revenge has a funny way of striking those who wrong you. Give it time.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[DocParticipant]

F~~~ing hell.
I feel for you. Just pause for thought.
Good thing you vented here instead of acted on those thoughts.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

that must suck, big time.
But there is nothing you can do, hold in there, hold tight. use that rage, take it out in the gym, run, run like a mother f~~~er, it worked for me.

Just hang in there, 1 hour at a time.

Dont do anything stupid, just wait, wait and wait.

a good warrior knows how to sit at the river shore and wait for the corpses of his enemys pass floating by.

Just sit and wait.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[JVBParticipant]

Just terrible bro. I’m sorry for your pain. Reading that I think it’s gonna turn into a shambles between them and he will be gone shortly. Hang in there and don’t do anything stupid.

Peace is > piece.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I’ve told my sons that if their mom’s boyfriend so much as makes them feel threatened that they need to tell me and that I will report it to my lawyer immediately. I was enraged when I found out today that my ex grounded my son for four months because he’s been talking back to her about what he perceives as unfairness about what is happening. Four months! (he accumulated week after week as she doled out punishments at her leisure and is now up to four months grounded). It just boggles my mind that she would go like this, I’ve seen her in the past be a thoughtful mom to them, and so to see her just act in such a selfish way is just unimaginable. I gave him the key to my super tiny apartment and told him that he can come here at any time night or day. I told him that if he feels threatened he can take a cab or call 911. This f~~~er-chad-s~~~head actually swears inside the house when he gets frustrated while doing whatever-s~~~ in front of the screen while on the internet. It’s just crazy! My ex has full custody and all I can do is visit my own sons, while f~~~-head has constant access to them. When my son’s mom admonishes my son for some reason, the f~~~er actually says “Yeah [my son’s name]” in the background! I could bust him open if I were standing there, seriously. Since about 3 months after going into MGTOW, I adopted a hard stance and ditched s~~~ and went stoic. I eat well, kept on looking for a job in spite of my difficult situation, improved my physical training, and really took care of myself, and that primal urge that grows in me as a result of increasing my exercise drives me to having images of me busting up some skin on the guys face to say the least. Here too it’s 14 to be able to choose, except that now my ex will be taking ALL of the money that I could have put to the side to get a place big enough for myself and my two sons, and spend that hard earned cash on plane flights for her f~~~er to go back and forth from Europe to Canada. She even told my son she wants to move them all to Europe! F~~~ing bitch knows she can’t do that , but she still told my son this. She told him that she’d find a way to make me give in. She’s just s~~~ting, because there’s no way in hell my lawyer would let her take the kids without asking the law to pursue her. She’s off her f~~~ing rocker! The guy is here only 3 weeks and he’s painting walls to make extra cash seeing that he has no real job. I’m trying to keep a level head and the plan that my sons and I agreed to is to hope he’s a f~~~-ass that doesn’t give a s~~~ about my ex and hope that when he leaves in a couple of weeks he doesn’t come back. But he told my ex he would be back in November. If he’s fleeing some s~~~ he did in his home country in Europe he’ll be around for a long time looking to get a visa to stay in Canada. That would be bad news. I’m hoping he simply told my ex that he’ll be back in November so that she will continue banging him without relent, but that he doesn’t plan on coming back. My sons now hate him and the climate is likely to get nasty because my teen son is big for his age and even though he tries to stay calm says he gets real angry when , while his mom is arguing with my son, if my son hears “Yeah, [mysons’s name] in the back ground from f~~~head there. I just can’t stand the thought that my hard earned money will go to finance f~~~ing plane tickets if what he really needs is a visa to excape his kids in Europe and some other s~~~ there he’s trying to leave behind.

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[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Point Of No Return wrote:

The guy is here only 3 weeks and he’s painting walls to make extra cash seeing that he has no real job.

Is he paying tax? Might be able to report to tax office and get him deported and not allowed back in.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Thanks guys, I really do appreciate all the comments and input. It’s good to know that I can just jump back into this place and feel understood. That’s a strength we all have here that can’t be taken away by any feminist.

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[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I have told my son that. That if I need to, I will have a pro-snoop find him out and have him sent out for working illegally.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

I’m really struggling to keep it together and not do something crazy, and I mean REAL REALLY CRAZY.

I want you to take a breather and think about what you just said. Think about your kids and how it will affect them. It seems like with the good relations you have with your sons and the fact they get treated like s~~~ at home means you have a fighting chance to win favor with them and when they reach 18 I’m sure they’ll want to stay the f~~~ away from her and come closer to you. This is a good opportunity to get closer to your sons who are more important than your c~~~ ex-wife.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I might fly this plan by my lawyer first in case I may have missed a detail in this strategy. It’s not that easy to prove he’s working illegally I imagine though, he can say he’s just helping out a friend etc. I may just have better luck nailing him on psychological abuse towards my son. I might to to fly that one by my lawyer. Also, I think that my ex is really angry that I ignore her, I used to cave in to her while we were together, and this change is making her mad. I ignore her completely now, because I want to give her as close to nothing as possible. She don’t deserve s~~~ from me. It’s a shame that I have to fork over hundreds in CS to her. At least if she was doing right and being decent with my kids, but imagine… Being a young teen and then after knowing only after roughly 3 months of mom and pseudo-chad doing facetime, and POOF the dude-stranger is now walking around in underwear in front of you while you know your own dad can’t see you when he wants!! My son sees the injustice now in that. He said to me “You’re right dad, it’s not right that this stranger has more acces to me than my own dad!”

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[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Joey Alfio wrote:

Point Of No Return wrote:

I’m really struggling to keep it together and not do something crazy, and I mean REAL REALLY CRAZY.

I want you to take a breather and think about what you just said. Think about your kids and how it will affect them. It seems like with the good relations you have with your sons and the fact they get treated like s~~~ at home means you have a fighting chance to win favor with them and when they reach 18 I’m sure they’ll want to stay the f~~~ away from her and come closer to you. This is a good opportunity to get closer to your sons who are more important than your c~~~ ex-wife.

I know what you say is on the money. I know I must control myself. It’s just so damned hard!

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[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Delay that gratification man, the best revenge is living better than before, look after yourself! Hell even if it’s talking s~~~ on this forum to feel better it’s better than responding to her.

Hopefully your kids will grow up to be red-pilled, so in that regard their current hardship can help them avoid relations~~~s in the future.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I know, it is the right move to wait. I do look forward to living better, to showing my sons that I’m living better. They already see it. My older son recently told me that he now understands why I was so angry while living with his mom. He told me that he knows that it wasn’t all just me having a bad attitude. He knows now what she is capable of. He is totally on board with red pill ways and knows more and more about it and even has some friends that are on board too. We are making it guys, ALL OF US! Our MGTOW attitudes and the good life that we can live once we harness our strength has become visible to the new generation, kids that come from busted up families and see the importance of men, dads, going their own way. It’s working, and it will create some better men here and there, young men who grow up with their eyes open, to their own benefit. The feminists will have no grip on them aside from what little temptation is between their legs and that some of ours sons will have the strength to pass on and be wise in their choosing if choose they must.

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[AwakenedParticipant 35226]

I REALLY do feel Sorry for You. The S~~~ that SHE is Putting YOU, and YOUR Kids through is Un-F~~~in-Believable.

And, She is the same type of c~~~ that in a few months/years will ask, “Where Have ALL the GOOD MEN GONE ? “”

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Awakened wrote:

I REALLY do feel Sorry for You. The S~~~ that SHE is Putting YOU, and YOUR Kids through is Un-F~~~in-Believable.

And, She is the same type of c~~~ that in a few months/years will ask, “Where Have ALL the GOOD MEN GONE ? “”

Yup… And I hope strongly that she gets to that point where she asks herself that question every five minutes in the dead of night while she lies there on her bed ALONE!

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[JakeParticipant 909]

not the girl you thought she was, probably not even close you dated a stranger so you would never date her if you knew her it happened to me I told her when people get to know you they would realise your an asshole remember the other guy will sooner or later see her for the c~~~ she is oh it gets better trust me

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