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MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give 3 years, 3 months ago.
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Ok I said I would shut up about this but I want to build on Russky’s excellent point. Happiness can never be produced externally—it must come internally. If you are not happy with yourself no amount of pussy, $$$ or anything else will ever make you happy.
Sure maybe life sucks right now–so what? You’re a man act like one. All Men take a bite out of the s~~~ sandwich that is life every day and we ask for seconds. We take it on the chin and get up, dust ourselves off and say—is that all you got? You want to crush me you better bring lots of friends along. I might go down but I won’t go easily or alone.
Remember who and what you are: walk away and do so with pride.
Anonymous24Playing with fire is fun, just be prepared to get burned.
Other brothers have already touched on this but I will add to it. You do not fool around with someone you work with period. Relationships do not last and once you two part ways having to see her at work everyday will only bring you trouble down the road. You feel lonely so go out and get a dog or cat to keep you company until you can figure things out. You want to date that is fine too but not with a coworker and never cohabitate, bring her to your house, or pay any of her bills and always use protection.
No one is not telling you that you have to stay single forever, but in this current climate it is the best choice because of what women will do to you when they don’t get what they want out of you. You are playing with fire and people who do that always get burned.
Anonymous3I want to laugh and love with someone I care about. I miss that so much. The thought of me blowing off going to see her tonight makes me sick.
I want to give you the contrarian advice: go for it! Full steam ahead, wedding bells and rice in your hair!
This is not a place where you come by belief or following a trend. MGTOW is the recognition of a truth, the seeing of reality. Once seen, there is no unseeing.
You need experience to complete your path. You need the learning that comes mostly from pain.
Go my friend, to the hands of your teacher. Once you learned, come back to say how it worked.
She is actually pretty, compared to the other female coworkers. I’m stuck in a small town with nothing to do and I don’t know anyone. I’m stressed out about work and the only thing I enjoy about it is flirting with her. I just want a little bit of happiness and I don’t know how I can be MGTOW and not ever experience love again. I’m so lonely I can’t stand it and it is making me act irrational.
Then get out and move to the city where you should have a bigger selection of women for the picking. You are going in dangerous waters trying to f~~~ your coworker especially when she can file harassment charges so she can get her payday and move out of your small town. If i was a bitch i would do the same thing however i cannot get away with s~~~ like a woman can.
I want to laugh and love with someone I care about. I miss that so much. The thought of me blowing off going to see her tonight makes me sick.
My n~~~~ you need to get some friends that are not coworkers or hang out with family. I do stuff with my family all the time whether it be going to concerts with my uncle or sporting events. If your family is still alive try hooking up with them if they are not get some friends but do not fall into any trap with coworkers.
God dammit how did I end up in this situation. I know this could end badly but I have to go see her.
Then f~~~ing don’t let your lizard brain takeover and don’t be a blind dumb ass about this. If you need this job then don’t do it.
Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.
I can’t help it.
Yes you can.
A big part of the problem is how easily impressed you are by a woman who touches your arm. Have you ever enjoyed a woman wanting you and NOT LETTING HER HAVE you? Have you ever treated women the way they treat men? Like she is “not good enough” for you?
START TODAY.
You know just because a girl seems to really like you… does not mean you have to act on it unless you’re so goddam desperate you think receiving some female attention is like food being thrown to the starving.
Especially a woman you WORK WITH.
NEVER speak to women at work about anything other than work.Ever.
Let women like you – and want you – and want your attention and DON’T GIVE IT TO THEM. Don’t allow yourself to just lose all self control to the point where you “can’t help it”. The WORST thing you can do is get all googly-eyed over every f~~~ing chick who touches your arm.
Make her bake you a lasagna first. Or some cookies.
THEN you can start to think she’s something special.A touch on the arm?
F~~~! HOW LOW ARE YOUR STANDARDS!!!If you’re that easily smitten, I’m afraid you’re basically f~~~ed. No offense meant. But you’re truly f~~~ed. Pull yourself together. You gotta learn to treat your interest, time and attention like women treat sex. Withhold that s~~~.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.How about a real life example:
A black woman worked in a VA billing office with 20+ other employees. She spent three months going to work and engaging other employees in inappropriate sexual and racial discussions. She would freely use the phrase N****Ger whore, black bitch; I love white boy dick etc. The idea was to get everyone comfortable using and hearing this kind of language. Then guess what? She came to work one day with a concealed tape recorder—recorded her fellow employees engaging in what was now acceptable banter— and then promptly filed and EEO claim for hostile work environment.
F~~~ing hell. What a malevolent c~~~.
pete jungen, thanks for sharing that. As the real life experiences of others, carries a lot of weight. With the potential of helping others to avoid harm. If they are wise to it.
You need experience to complete your path. You need the learning that comes mostly from pain.
Go my friend, to the hands of your teacher. Once you learned, come back to say how it worked.
As much as this advice may seem counter intuitive. I couldn’t agree more. MGTOW is found by way of a lot of pain and suffering. And Ghost Dog nailed it. The pain and suffering is at the hands of our teachers, which is more often than not, females, perhaps jobs or marriages. Courts. Life itself.
And class, is ALWAYS in session.
For you, Joker. This is a very important moment. As you can decide whether you will allow yourself to get f~~~ed. Or whether you will remove yourself from harm’s way.
The men here, speak from experience. They would not warn you, if there was not real danger present.
You’re right on the edge.
It’s hard. Especially when you are under the pussy spell. And you don’t know her. So the allure of the unknown, plus your own personal stuff with feeling lonely that all factors in.
But some part of you, knew to reach out here, and ask for help. So clearly on some level, you also recognize the inherent danger in this. Now, you have received a lot of feedback. And the gents here are sounding the alarm for you.
Choose wisely.
There is no shortage of females. Small town or otherwise. Work pussy is totally off limits. For your own well being.
Some things to keep in mind.
Best of luck mate.
“He who takes an eel by the tail, or a woman at her word, soon finds he holds nothing.”
Dude, I work with over 30 women and many years I was the Lone Ranger but I kept and keep it professional and things go smoothly, do not go over there, there is no road where this ends good for you. You will either get fired or quite because the situation is uncomfortable for you both. Take a cold shower and jerk off.
"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."
My guess is that it doesn’t matter what we say, Joker is shining his shoes and putting on his best shirt right now. He’s too invested. I know, I’ve been there (but not since finding MGTOW).
Let us know how things turn out, Joker. Good luck.
I can’t help it. I have to go see her.
I “have to” go see her .. another way to phrase it, I “want to” go see her ..
then you’re still following your own decision making path. Just my play on words .. imho; for what it’s worth.Holding hands how cute.If it is a post wall like you said on the other thread she will be a master manipulater.touching your arm all the time is a sign she wants a f~~~.for your sake i hope you go down for a munch to see a well used f~~~ed up vagina which might bring you back to reality before she Has the chains on you.I can see no matter what advice is given you are going to f~~~ her.good luck with your enslavement dude.I just hope you don’t and listen to everyones advice and Petes advice because it is sound.
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
My guess is that it doesn’t matter what we say, Joker is shining his shoes and putting on his best shirt right now. He’s too invested. I know, I’ve been there (but not since finding MGTOW).
And packing condoms in his wallet.
I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.
I can’t help it.
Then get the f~~~ out. Seriously. Get. The. F~~~. Out.
If you truly believe you can’t help yourself, if you truly believe you’re too stupid to understand the advice posted here hour after hour, if you truly believe you’re too weak to control your own actions, then there’s nothing we can do for you.
An actual lawyer has told you how dangerous your decisions are. Other men who have suffered at the hands of women have told you how dangerous your decisions are. Yet all you can do is whine and mewl about how you can’t help it.
There is nothing we can do for you. We cannot make the decisions you need to make, we cannot say “no” for you, we cannot ensure you walk the path you need to. Only you can do those things for yourself.
Yet you won’t.
You’re wasting your time here and you’re wasting our time here, so get the f~~~ out. Go ahead and place your job, your career, your finances, even your liberty in the hands of some c~~~ you’ve got a crush on. Go ahead and make the biggest f~~~ing mistake of your life. Go ahead because you’re too stupid and weak to help yourself.
Years from now, when you’re sifting through the rubble of your life, you can come back. Maybe you’ll be ready to learn then. Maybe you’ll be ready to take responsibility of your own life and your own decisions. Maybe.
Until then, get the f~~~ out.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
May be if some one puts up some pics of some post wall f~~~ed up vaginas might help.it did something to me back once incountering a blown tire and still haven’t forgot it.dont know at moment how to do that post s~~~ of net.Or f~~~ it he is going to do it anyway.holding hands lmfao
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Women and relationships do not equal happiness or contentment.
Happiness, contentment, fulfillment comes from within.
I am often lonely, stressed or fatigued from work. When I was married, I never got solace from the ex-wife.Protect your finances, protect your sovereignty, protect your freedom. Just say NO.
- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein
I can’t help it.
Then get the f~~~ out. Seriously. Get. The. F~~~. Out.
If you truly believe you can’t help yourself, if you truly believe you’re too stupid to understand the advice posted here hour after hour, if you truly believe you’re too weak to control your own actions, then there’s nothing we can do for you.
An actual lawyer has told you how dangerous your decisions are. Other men who have suffered at the hands of women have told you how dangerous your decisions are. Yet all you can do is whine and mewl about how you can’t help it.
There is nothing we can do for you. We cannot make the decisions you need to make, we cannot say “no” for you, we cannot ensure you walk the path you need to. Only you can do those things for yourself.
Yet you won’t.
You’re wasting your time here and you’re wasting our time here, so get the f~~~ out. Go ahead and place your job, your career, your finances, even your liberty in the hands of some c~~~ you’ve got a crush on. Go ahead and make the biggest f~~~ing mistake of your life. Go ahead because you’re too stupid and weak to help yourself.
Years from now, when you’re sifting through the rubble of your life, you can come back. Maybe you’ll be ready to learn then. Maybe you’ll be ready to take responsibility of your own life and your own decisions. Maybe.
Until then, get the f~~~ out.
Great kick in the ass oldbill,after all he’s read on this site he makes a post for help all while grabbing his jacket and keys to head out the door.
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
Great kick in the ass oldbill,after all he’s read on this site he makes a post for help all while grabbing his jacket and keys to head out the door.
We can only hope it worked, brother. I hate posting like that, but sometimes it’s the only thing that can get them to pay attention.
Joker’s original post was sickening, nothing but a disingenuous plea for help with built-in excuses. His follow up posts weren’t any better either and that despite all the heart felt advice he was receiving.
He needed a dope slap and the only way to apply in a forum is to post a “nasty-gram”. I just hope it shocked him enough to start thinking.
It’s like you tag line wisely states:
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
We’re like C~~~ Anonymous. We got keep reminded each other about what brought us to this point in our lives.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Great kick in the ass oldbill,after all he’s read on this site he makes a post for help all while grabbing his jacket and keys to head out the door.
We can only hope it worked, brother. I hate posting like that, but sometimes it’s the only thing that can get them to pay attention.
Joker’s original post was sickening, nothing but a disingenuous plea for help with built-in excuses. His follow up posts weren’t any better either and that despite all the heart felt advice he was receiving.
He needed a dope slap and the only way to apply in a forum is to post a “nasty-gram”. I just hope it shocked him enough to start thinking.
It’s like you tag line wisely states:
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
We’re like C~~~ Anonymous. We got keep reminded each other about what brought us to this point in our lives.
I believe he was out the door by the time the advice was posted by his lack of response,I guess he’s following his primal urges to chase stench. Sometimes I wonder with this major influx of new members how many really get it and want to go their own way or are they just here hoping to be apart of some guy’s club. Joker if you’re listening,since you posted about having so much time on your hands and now need a woman why not do some binge reading on this site as well as the recommended books (I see you need The Manipulated Man) to enlighten your mind,also reread your post and do some self evaluations because it’s obvious it’s easy for you to relapsed into a blue pill coma.
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
Anonymous7Do you bro. Consider the risks. If I were you though I would break it off with her and f~~~ a high end escort.
Anonymous7When ever I start to relapse at all. I just act kindly to a woman and see how much pussy that gets me.
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