I'm starting to relapse.

[JokerSpectator 55]

Last month I posted a topic that I was being sexually harassed at my new job. As of right now, I’m getting really run down with the whole situation. However, I have now been caught in one of my coworker’s webs and I don’t know how to get out.

We started flirting and then she touched my arm and I suddenly felt like I was back in high school again falling in love for the first time. We playfully tease each other every day at work. Yesterday we went for a walk during our lunch break and we held hands for the very first time.

Tonight I’m going over to her apartment to watch a movie and I know it’s wrong but I have nothing going on in my life to look forward to except being with this one very special person.

I can’t help it. I have to go see her.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Yes you do have something to look forward to —- getting fired. I’ve handled a lot of sexual harassment cases in the government and I’ve seen this scenario; you are being set up. (And your employer is being set up—because they didn’t stop your harassment.) She is after big $$$

Break it off before she breaks it off IN YOU!

[Anonymous 1]

PistolPete wrote:

I’ve handled a lot of sexual harassment cases in the government and I’ve seen this scenario; you are being set up. (And your employer is being set up—because they didn’t stop your harassment.) She is after big $$$

Sound advice from someone with plenty of legal experience in these matters. I would listen.

Having said that, you don’t need a law degree to tell this probably isn’t going to end well.

[Anonymous 6]

Get that s~~~ shut down fast!

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Joker wrote:

Tonight I’m going over to her apartment to watch a movie and I know it’s wrong but I have nothing going on in my life to look forward to except being with this one very special person.

I can’t help it. I have to go see her.

You really should not be f~~~ing with a coworker because if she gets p~~~ed you go and dump her she will get your ass fired or file harassment against you probably both.

You need to get out of the love drunkenness for a second and think rationally about the situation and try not to develop too much of a bond with her so you don’t start making more stupid mistakes. Like you should always keep it wrapped up so you don’t have a kid or if she gets pregnant try the hail Mary on her but if that still fails then still do not get married to her.

Also since you posted this mangina s~~~ i have to rip on you for fun now (my personal way of going through things). I mean

1 Why did you post some blue pilled fantasy about you finally held hands? the only time you should even mention something (having to do with hands) is that if her hand reaches down there for the first time.

2 No holding hands and no cuddling you need to listen to some Tom leykis.

3 I read the other topic you have and it says these women are post wall women now why the f~~~ are you getting into childlike infatuation with post wall diseased women? if these women were 20 and you were 20 id excuse you but these women sure have f~~~ed over a man more then the typical f~~~ing of the nice guys in highschool.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Joker wrote:

I have nothing going on in my life to look forward to except being with this one very special person.

I can’t help it. I have to go see her.

Is this not what you’ve been brainwashed to believe ? That your life is empty, meaningless, and has no purpose … without a woman in it ?

I cannot and will not tell you what to do. However i can advise you on this much, with all due respect to a fellow MGTOW. You’ve just set one foot back on the train, and it’s a one way ride, and you know where it goes.

If you can’t find anything else to look forward to, than the company of a woman, you’ve overlooked a LOT of hobbies and potentials.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

DOES YOUR RED ALERT FLAG EVEN WORK?

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[Anonymous 43]

[Anonymous 43]

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

How about a real life example:

A black woman worked in a VA billing office with 20+ other employees. She spent three months going to work and engaging other employees in inappropriate sexual and racial discussions. She would freely use the phrase N****Ger whore, black bitch; I love white boy dick etc. The idea was to get everyone comfortable using and hearing this kind of language. Then guess what? She came to work one day with a concealed tape recorder—recorded her fellow employees engaging in what was now acceptable banter— and then promptly filed and EEO claim for hostile work environment.

She played them all—why by statute she was entitled to 300K of YOUR tax dollars. Without going into detail we fired her and we won both the EEO case and the removal—took a year and half. This is what you are up against. WAKE UP!

[Anonymous 1]

PistolPete wrote:

(And your employer is being set up—because they didn’t stop your harassment.)

He goes round and f~~~s her – she’s got Skynet by the b~~~~

Joker wrote:

have nothing going on in my life to look forward to except being with this one very special person

I don’t know how she likes her eggs in the morning, but it appears you like yours scrambled.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Anonymous wrote:

Get that s~~~ shut down fast!

Joker needs to do as follows.

Get the hell out of there !!!

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

“I have nothing going on in my life to look forward to”

Your doing this out of desperation. Fix this.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Joker wrote:

going on in my life to look forward to except being with this one very special person.

Unicorn.exe hijack tool identified.

Man, if you can afford to lose your job, if you have marketable skills, go for it, but know that it will probably not work out. Not even talking about bad scenarios here, false accusations, etc. And even if everything is quiet, once it doesnt work out you will feel really bad there. Also if you hold any position of power you are really vulnerable, your enemies only need to offer her a career move and watch how hypergamy works with lightning speed in work evnironment.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Anonymous 43]

holey mackerel does this dude even tell his boss this s~~~ is happening?

Or is better to blindside the company

and everyone gets butthurt with the harassment settlement

do not go within 5 miles of her house and get an alibi from another town 50 miles away…movie tickets, failmart receipt, mcdonalds receipt, emergency room admit report and xrays for your head. stay the f~~~ away.

[JokerSpectator 55]

I know that I’m acting irrational, but this past month or so has been hell on earth except for her.

She is actually pretty, compared to the other female coworkers. I’m stuck in a small town with nothing to do and I don’t know anyone. I’m stressed out about work and the only thing I enjoy about it is flirting with her. I just want a little bit of happiness and I don’t know how I can be MGTOW and not ever experience love again. I’m so lonely I can’t stand it and it is making me act irrational.

I want to laugh and love with someone I care about. I miss that so much. The thought of me blowing off going to see her tonight makes me sick.

God dammit how did I end up in this situation. I know this could end badly but I have to go see her.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

You were manipulated into this situation—she sensed your weakness and is taking advantage of it. Will you be happy when you’re fired? Try loving yourself first. Try loving your Independence, your personal sovereignty. Don’t let others dictate your worth to YOU!

That’s it I can’t be any clearer. Take it or leave it and roll the dice if you feel real lucky.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

No matter how you feel about this woman – you must stop dealing with her except business. Now. Let’s say for a moment that you weren’t being set up at this point. What’s to say she won’t change her mind if she decides to bang a Chad. Then you are screwed. Anytime she wants something at work – if you don’t comply you’ll have an HR cloud hanging over your head. And that cloud contains a mangina and vagina induced bolt of lightening aimed at your ass.
Dude, we’ve all been there. But no pussy is worth that risk. Cut and run.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Joker wrote:

I know that I’m acting irrational, but this past month or so has been hell on earth except for her.

You are there now for less than 2 months, you are getting s~~~ tested really hard and i can tell you are not really winning those s~~~ tests.

Also last month there was no desperation in your text, only rational analysis of situation. Now it looks like your rational abilites are clouded with estrogen smoke and you suddenly develop some unicorn fantasies.

Hope it works for you, but do protest yourself because you said you need this job. Because if it doesnt work you could get red medicine force fed down your throat.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Even if you were a complete blue pill and she was a NAWALT – you never want to work at the same job as your GF. It is a recipe for disaster. You don’t s~~~ where you eat, and you don’t f~~~ your coworkers.

I knew enough people who worked at the same company while married or f~~~ing co-workers. It never ended well. I had plenty of opportunity to date co-workers but I never did because I learned from other people how bad of the situation that can become.

Even if you’re married or have a GF – you can escape her while you’re at work. Unless she works for the same company – then you have to deal with her 24/7 and can’t escape from her bulls~~~ permeating into your professional life.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

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