Hi, I have found this site couple of weeks ago. I was seeking some advice about my now ex gf. I read this forum since and all i can say is Im more observant since then. At first I thought you guys are overkilling women here, but after some thinking all I can say is ‘not so much’. I think Ill keep reading this forums.
So last Saturday my friend celebrated his 32nd bday. We went out to another town and hit some clubs with couple of friends. Friend who had bday makes a good money so he was buying a few bottles through the night. Soon we met 3 chicks from our home town: all old between 25 – 32. The oldest is the only one I knew and she is married now for like a year. I know her through mutual friends and we spoke here and there but not really much more then ‘hi’ and ‘bye’.
Something about me that relates to the story. Im around 6’5 and pretty muscular at 27. I have been playing semi pro basketball for 15 years and I have been hitting the gym since I was 18. For the last 6 months Im going to the gym 4,5 times per week and Im very consistent with it – especially since my last breakup because its the only thing that keeps me sane. All the frustrations came out in the gym and I feel good for at least couple of hours and the results have been good.
So here are couple of stories about women we met. They are all from the same night.
Slut number 1: The married one, the one I (barely) know from before. She is not a good looking woman, she is average, and she was drinking the whole night. She was talking with one of my friends who just finished medical university and got a job as a doctor. She didnt believe him he is a doctor so she decided to check things with me if he was telling the truth. She was asking me what his profession is and i told her he is a veterinarian. She said that our answers are not the same. She said that he said he is a gynecologist. I said ‘yes he is, i told you so’ She said ‘no you said he is a veterinarian.’ I said, yeah its the same thing. She said how rude and disrespectful I am and stopped talking to me. I was having just some fun.
As i said she is average at best but in the club guys keep hitting on her. She was showing them a ring, but many guys didnt go away, so when she was drunk enough she asked me for a favor to pretend Im her fake husband (since Im a big guy) who was ironically at home (she let her go partying with her 2 friends to have a ladies weekend). So 3 or 4 guys came to her and start hitting on her and all I said was ‘hey man shes my wife’. They all apologized and quickly went away as soon as I came to ‘rescue her’. My fake wife was so happy, all giggly how strong and intimidating her new husband is. As the night went on, she was more and more drunk. All I can say is that if I would get a free drink for every time she touched/rest her hand/squeezed my shoulder, biceps, triceps, chest and stomach, Id have so many drinks that everyone in the club can have one drink for free. I didnt mind much about it, of course its nice to feel attractive and desired but all I was thinking of was ‘what a slut, poor husband, etc’… so after a while she asked my friend if i work out and then telling me how hard my belly feels and how her husbands belly is a bit fat. After that she asked me to pick her up to see how strong I am. I did it dont really know why and she was happy. As we went out she was expecting me to took her friends apartment but I told her she is my ex wife now and that we divorced as soon as we left the club.
Slut number 2: Was ignoring me from the start, showing me no interest to even know me. We were not even introduced. She was talking to my friends but not me. After she was drunk enough and I went to the bar to get a new drink she approached me and spoke to me. She offered me to buy me a drink but I refused, telling her I still have a drink but 5 seconds later my friend showed up and did asked me if I want another drink and i said ‘sure’. She looked at me and asked me why do I have the ‘dirty/ugly look’ on my face. I calmly replied ‘well I see dirt/ugliness’. She made a grimase and turn around. After couple of minutes she bumped into me and asked me to at least smile a little.
Slut number 3: I had zero interaction with her, none, no introduction, no conversation.. nothing.. when my friend who was pretty drunk bought a new bottle of wine he left it at the bar and go dancing with some chick. So the slut was here with couple of unknown guys I have never seen. I think she met them in the club. So one of these guys grabbed the bottle from the ice bucket. I calmly grabbed the bottle and put it back telling him that this is not his bottle. So this slut ignored me and took the bottle out again. I said to her ‘its not your bottle, its my friends. I know you can drink from it but not these guys you are with until my friend comes back and approves you wont get any’. After a minute she took bottle again and i did the same thing. My other friend came by so i gave him the bottle and told him about the situation..
It was fun, but at the same time I feel kinda bad for being mean from time to time. I have mixed emotions. I dont really like myself for doing /saying some stuff even though I am mostly having fun/enjoying myself when it happens. But at the same time they deserved it just to think how women act, especially when drunk. God knows what my ex was doing when having gfs night out. It really makes you think…
I have some more from this night but its already a long post so I will share it later if you want.
XSDBS 4 years, 5 months ago.
