i'm done

[Schaefe89Participant 163]

met this girl on tinder.. asked for her facebook to determine if she was a whale. she is a cute lil Asian thing. the girl then asks for my number and we have been texting for a few weeks. the  girl moved back to our city for summer break away from college. ive been trying to set up coffee or some chit and now shes pussing out.. hasn’t been texting… but randomly likes my s~~~ on facebook… im already past this hoe but wtf man. what kind of psycho goes hot and cold like that? I hate all these bitches.. even the nice ones has some sort of bitch gene.. im a nice dude but everywhere I go these chicks give off the vibe like they need to be addressed in a different way or something.. every single girl thinks they are entitlted to something. im never texting this hoe again. getting sick of the lame ass excuses for not doing basic human communication.

[Anonymous 1]

I’ve been there. Even if all you want is friendship (my case), they still like to play these games. They think highly of themselves, and not so much about men. Walk away, don’t even bother, because in the unlikely event she do change her mind, I can bet she is going to be trouble, all women are… SPECIALLY the little cute Asian ones (been there too).

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

I know the feling real well, in fact it got to the point where I started telling these bitches three words texts or responses will not be tolerated. Trust me, they know exactly what gane they’re playing.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[RedHeadedStrangerParticipant 204]

attention whore.  unfriend her and watch her come crawling.

[peterfaParticipant 833]

Just wait a while and then unfriend her. She’ll disappear when some other sucker takes your place. Yes, they troll for freshmeat. She’s just trying to get all these boys to chase her. It makes her feel like she’s above them. It’s how she’s been trained to think since she was a little girl.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

I once became acquainted with a foreign grad student (different than the one I courted while I was working on my Ph. D., but from the same country).  Three times I tried to set up a coffee date with her.

 

The first time, there was a last-minute matter (i. e., “something came up”), but I accepted that.  Things like that happen once in a while.

 

The second time, some boy band she was a fan of was in town and she absolutely had to go to their show.  (Uh-huh, and she didn’t remember that when we agreed to meet?)  Of course, she told me after the fact.

 

The third time, we agreed on a day, a time, and a place.  A few days ahead, I wanted to check if she was still willing to meet.  One day passed, then another, and so on.  After the appointed time came and went, I sent her an e-mail message and reprimanded her.  Guess who was the indignant one?

 

That was the last time I ever made any effort to have a date with a woman.

 

[RennieParticipant]

treelville..miami wrote:

I know the feling real well, in fact it got to the point where I started telling these bitches three words texts or responses will not be tolerated. Trust me, they know exactly what gane they’re playing.

Back in the day that was something I remember distinctly and oh how I hated it, they heavily used “lol”, “oic”, “brb”, “ok” and “omg”, failing to hold a real conversation despite my efforts, eventually leading me to conclude that they were vapid and foolish creatures. So far I’ve yet to be proven wrong.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Memories come flooding back. I’ve been around that circle myself.
*She needs me to do something for her.
*I agree.
* It’s like a switch gets flipped on. You can see it behind her eyes, and all of a sudden she is treating me like I’m asking her to the junior prom.

If she’s going to make it that hard, I’ll retire from the field. She’ll find some other simp to do whatever it was.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[experiencedParticipant]

Years ago, “Oh. She’s just insecure.”   “No. She’s just full of s~~~.”

Is she acting like a c~~~?  YES/NO/NOT SURE.

Bottom line = if her behavior fits NOT SURE, dump her faster than the YES type.   The NOT SURE ones sodomize your brain.

You do not want to let these wenches slowly calibrate you into thinking you’re a piece of s~~~, and that’s exactly what they’ll do if you let them.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[SMADParticipant 651]

RedHeadedStranger wrote:

attention whore.  unfriend her and watch her come crawling.

Agree 100%.  This is my “go to” response also.

Marriage?  No thanks, i'm not ready to be THAT miserable.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

The first time a woman acts flaky its time to cut her off.

Il be honest i usto put up with that s~~~.again and again and again.

The last time i texted her back and told her to leave me alone.

 

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Schaefe89Participant 163]

Thanks for your words of wisdom, fellas. I joined mgtow because I started to discover the mass amounts of bs women are putting into our society. This latest situation has been an awakening. My buddy and his gf just split after 5 years and I hope to show him the light. F~~~ women and their bulls~~~ man

[BeerParticipant 11832]

– Deleted on Request – wrote:

I once became acquainted with a foreign grad student (different than the one I courted while I was working on my Ph. D., but from the same country). Three times I tried to set up a coffee date with her. The first time, there was a last-minute matter (i. e., “something came up”), but I accepted that. Things like that happen once in a while. The second time, some boy band she was a fan of was in town and she absolutely had to go to their show. (Uh-huh, and she didn’t remember that when we agreed to meet?) Of course, she told me after the fact. The third time, we agreed on a day, a time, and a place. A few days ahead, I wanted to check if she was still willing to meet. One day passed, then another, and so on. After the appointed time came and went, I sent her an e-mail message and reprimanded her. Guess who was the indignant one? That was the last time I ever made any effort to have a date with a woman.

Best thing to do in this situation, is after the first time they cancel on you, just tell them “No problem, get back to me when you want to reschedule.”  No need to be a dick, maybe something really did come up, just keep it brief, end the conversation, and don’t offer to go out with them again unless they bring it up.  Don’t complain or snivel or act upset about it, because its really not a big deal…its their loss at this point, not yours.  If its not someone you typically see often outside of planned get togethers, don’t call them, and if it is someone you see regularly and its unavoidable don’t start up any meaningful conversation with them, let them initiate.  You don’t have to dodge them and make things all creepy, just make no effort to have any conversation more in depth than hi, and some lame comment about the weather or something.  If they had something legit pop up and really wanted to go out with you they’ll bring it up again and probably apologize about 20 times because everyone knows how much it sucks to get bailed on.  If they are just an attention whore drama queen they’ll just f~~~ off when they realize you aren’t going to pursue them like an idiot.

 

[Schaefe89Participant 163]

WTF is wrong with these hoes!!!!!after 4 days without hearing back from her she randomly texts me a pic of her today…then I text back later in the day and she is awol now… how insane can they get????

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Schaefe89 wrote:

im already past this hoe

Schaefe89 wrote:

she randomly texts me a pic of her today…then I text back

She’s playing a game.  You’re losing.

If you want to win ghost her…you already know she is a psychotic bitch, why even give her 3 seconds of attention?  Even if she texts you right now “Let’s go out for a drink,” why would you want to knowing she clearly enjoys mind f~~~ing people.

If she texts you again, you ignore her, and a day later if she texts you again, and you ignore her again, then you’re winning.

If you keep texting her back…you are losing simply because you are feeding her ego.  If you do get a chance to go hang out with her…you are just losing even worse because she has already proven beyond a shadow of a doubt she is a selfish wretched c~~~ who will never give a s~~~ about you because the only thing that matters is her.

[Schaefe89Participant 163]

Beer wrote:

She’s playing a game. You’re losing. If you want to win ghost her…you already know she is a psychotic bitch, why even give her 3 seconds of attention? Even if she texts you right now “Let’s go out for a drink,” why would you want to knowing she clearly enjoys mind f~~~ing people. If she texts you again, you ignore her, and a day later if she texts you again, and you ignore her again, then you’re winning. If you keep texting her back…you are losing simply because you are feeding her ego. If you do get a chance to go hang out with her…you are just losing even worse because she has already proven beyond a shadow of a doubt she is a selfish wretched c~~~ who will never give a s~~~ about you because the only thing that matters is her.

dude she is twisted. liking my facebook posts etc… sending me random pics… then going silent.. im deleting her s~~~ right now. f~~~ that noise

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Schaefe89 wrote:

after 4 days without hearing back from her she randomly texts me a pic of her today…

Good!

Schaefe89 wrote:

then I text back later in the day and she is awol now… how insane can they get????

Oh oh… Bad.

After all this irritation she caused you, you texted her back? Man, you gotta treat your attention like women treat sex.

WITHHOLD THAT F~~~ING ATTENTION!!!

She texts you a pic? If you MUST reply, say: “I LIKE a girl with meat on her bones”.

or…. “I don’t think you look fat AT ALL”.

Backhanded compliments. She will bow up your phone 30 times in the next 15 minutes wondering what you mean by that. Don’t answer. Just laugh your f~~~ing head off.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DarthWParticipant 70]

Ignore them.  Years ago I dated a chick who was hot and cold like that.  I wasn’t MGTOW, and was in my mid-20s so a bit naive.  Sometimes she’d seem interested and we’d go out, then she’d be like “Oh I have to work” or “I had to work” after she gave me the cold shoulder.   Initially, I was trying to be that nice, understanding guy, but even at that point in my life after a few times of her telling me “Yeah, lets go out” then acting like something came up and cancelling.  Finally, I called her one afternoon, and within a minute she says something like “Oh I have to go to work.”  I simply, and nicely said, “Well, if you want to do something at some point again, gimme a call.”  No anger.  No frustration.  Just considerately saying “Call me when you aren’t busy.”  I didn’t hear from her for a couple months, then come home one day and she’d left a message something like “Hey.  I hadn’t heard from you.  You probably don’t want to hear from me…blah blah…gimme a call if you want to talk.”  Because I was so curious as to why I wouldn’t want to talk to her from her perspective I called back.    She made some comment about how I hadn’t called in a while to which I responded – again nicely as if I were being understanding – “Well you seemed busy whenever I tried to arrange something, so recall that last time we spoke I told you to ‘call me if you have some time’, as I figured you just had too much going on.”  She made some lame excuse about taking a Basic EMT class two nights a week and being so, so busy with it (she was a nurse), to which I responded, again nicely “I’ve taken that course and worked full time as well.  It’s  a difficult track for some people to maintain.”  Then, she proceeds to tell me something about she would be on vacation the next week, staying home for her days off, and I took that as an opening where she expected I’d say “OH, you’re free.  Want to get together!?”.  I merely said, “Well, if you find you have some time give me a call, and maybe I’ll have some time too.”  We said our goodbyes, and I never talked to her on the phone again.  When the ball was in her proverbial court she was just going to be flaky and not deliver, yet for some reason she also wanted me to just keep pursuing her.

The last time I saw her I was talking to some clients at a hospital probably a year later.  She passed behind them and tried to get my attention as I spoke to the clients.  I kinda waved her off, like “I’m busy.  See ya”, and didn’t stop what I was doing to run over and chat.  She appeared sad and disappointed….poor thing.  I later heard she apparently got married soon after I saw her.  LOL.  Lucky guy.

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