I'm back and hurting

[MGTOW_MedicParticipant 184]

I feel like a fool brothers. I fell for a single mother who basically used her kids as a reason to let me go. When I noticed she was fading I became worried and upset. I tried to hold on, but it became an issue of her using my insecurities against me. I was told have to many insecurities and issues and it’s better if I find someone who can give me the attention that she can’t. I even got to meet her kids, being a father myself, it wasn’t an issue.

After trying to make things right I was still left behind holding the bag, her best friend telling me that I need to get myself straight emotionally. I think it’s time to sit down and speak to a counsellor. My marriage has left a huge scar on me and I have been told that it causes me to self sabotage.

This whole time I still had this feeling that I was sharing all the blame, that she was gonna take none of it at all and passively make it all look like my fault. What hurts the most is that it seems as if she has just emotionally switched off. She has no problem walking away with a huge smile on her face.

Like I said, I feel like a fool.

MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

[Anonymous 42]

WELCOME BACK!

For the ten thousandth time:

It wasn’t YOU!

It wasn’t YOUR FAULT!

Chad will be f~~~ing her soon, if not already!

You just gained EVERYTHING and LOST A HEAVY BURDEN!

I’ve been observing this cycle for more than 35 years!

It never stops, it never rests, women have become mechanized to degrade, belittle, and demoralize all men!

Round and round, year after year, decade after decade, men go in and bones come out.

You’re dealing with a ruthless machine that has no empathy, just a 3phase 500hp GE electric motor with a serpentine belt driving a gearbox connected to stainless steel blades!

It always eats, it always chews, it always devours men.

That is until we walk away and let the generators that feed it fall silent letting the power go out.

Now where would you rather be, shoving coal and taking s~~~ in the face, or walking away and breathing fresh air on a warm sunny day?

[AutoliteParticipant]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

What hurts the most is that it seems as if she has just emotionally switched off. She has no problem walking away with a huge smile on her face.

Your story is as common as dirt. You’re certainly not alone. You’re just now learning the same lesson millions of other guys already know. Women have no soul…

[Anonymous 13]

Women are PAIN.

STAY AWAY FROM THEM.

Go and work on yourself,

Start enjoying some hobbbies,

Learn to like your own company.

BE YOU.

Then stay the f~~~ away from women.

They’re no good anymore.

It’s over.

Good luck.

[ViciouscunningtreacherousParticipant 823]

I did the same thing brother. It was my fault. Same s~~~ different day. These guys are right. Women suck today. They truly have no soul. I have often wondered if there are any female souls in heaven.

For in much wisdom is much grief, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Hi Medic ! You are the Number 1 person who can help yourself. You know your likes and dislikes, your own diagnosis, troubles. I would suggest to focus less on things that went wrong and focus instead more on new things or what you enjoy, that brings you peace.

Get away from ”civilization” as often as possible, take a walk in nature, find a nice sight, a new sight you have never seen, go for a long walk or get on a bicycle, make sure to have some water with you. Think over s~~~ you must, but first and foremost enjoy the nature. Travel.

Find enjoyment in yourself, stop trying to find fulfillment in women. You may or may not find someone good, but enjoy your life now.

I hope you will find inner peace at last as I did.
PS. I hope to hear from you one day/evening in Zoom conference, would love to talk with you. Good people like Math, GregBo host Zoom conference where MGTOW brothers talk face to face on video&audio, (camera or microphone required) I will gladly pass you the link if you want to connect one day, just make sure to hit me up (or GregBo) in PM or here even.
I have 1 year left before I get my paramedical diploma man, Im pumped. I could learn many things from you Im positive.

Regards!

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[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome back, brother. Don’t kick yourself too hard. You’re human – it’s ok to trip every now and then.
Curious – what made this lady so attractive? Was it looks alone? Unicorn at first who jabbed you with her horn so quickly?

[MGTOW_MedicParticipant 184]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Welcome back, brother. Don’t kick yourself too hard. You’re human – it’s ok to trip every now and then.
Curious – what made this lady so attractive? Was it looks alone? Unicorn at first who jabbed you with her horn so quickly?

We started out as friends. She had gorgeous red hair, normal body type, great sense of humor and we clicked. We did so much stuff together, we hiked, went to the movies, went on drives, and just one day it stopped. Yeah I prolly believe it was a unicorn at first.

As she started to fade I became upset, worried, scared, and my methods of reaching out came off as paranoia, flip flopping, insecurities, etc.

MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

[Anonymous 6]

[MGTOW_MedicParticipant 184]

Im in venom! Just gotta finish these push ups! Hang on…..99….99 and a half…..100.

MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

We started out as friends. She had gorgeous red hair, normal body type, great sense of humor and we clicked. We did so much stuff together, we hiked, went to the movies, went on drives, and just one day it stopped. Yeah I prolly believe it was a unicorn at first.

As she started to fade I became upset, worried, scared, and my methods of reaching out came off as paranoia, flip flopping, insecurities, etc.

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Red heads – can relate. Something about them. So true. Glad you’ve landed on your feet and are back on course!

[Anonymous 2]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Welcome back, brother. Don’t kick yourself too hard. You’re human – it’s ok to trip every now and then.
Curious – what made this lady so attractive? Was it looks alone? Unicorn at first who jabbed you with her horn so quickly?

We started out as friends. She had gorgeous red hair, normal body type, great sense of humor and we clicked. We did so much stuff together, we hiked, went to the movies, went on drives, and just one day it stopped. Yeah I prolly believe it was a unicorn at first.

As she started to fade I became upset, worried, scared, and my methods of reaching out came off as paranoia, flip flopping, insecurities, etc.

I would bet everything I own that she was monkey branching with some Chad while she was with you. She likely found out he has a higher salary. When a woman goes from wanting to spend a lot of time together to giving you the cold shoulder in the blink of an eye, that is a textbook example of what women do when monkey branching. Then, she tries to push you away, and make you believe it is YOUR fault! Christ, there’s a million red flags going up here!

Seriously, whoever the Chad is did you a favor. You could have gotten stuck paying child support for her kids. Now, it will be him taking all the risk while you walk away unscathed. I hope you have learned your lesson this time.

[MGTOW_MedicParticipant 184]

Anonymous wrote:

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Welcome back, brother. Don’t kick yourself too hard. You’re human – it’s ok to trip every now and then.
Curious – what made this lady so attractive? Was it looks alone? Unicorn at first who jabbed you with her horn so quickly?

We started out as friends. She had gorgeous red hair, normal body type, great sense of humor and we clicked. We did so much stuff together, we hiked, went to the movies, went on drives, and just one day it stopped. Yeah I prolly believe it was a unicorn at first.

As she started to fade I became upset, worried, scared, and my methods of reaching out came off as paranoia, flip flopping, insecurities, etc.

I would bet everything I own that she was monkey branching with some Chad while she was with you. She likely found out he has a higher salary. When a woman goes from wanting to spend a lot of time together to giving you the cold shoulder in the blink of an eye, that is a textbook example of what women do when monkey branching. Then, she tries to push you away, and make you believe it is YOUR fault! Christ, there’s a million red flags going up here!

Seriously, whoever the Chad is did you a favor. You could have gotten stuck paying child support for her kids. Now, it will be him taking all the risk while you walk away unscathed. I hope you have learned your lesson this time.

I have, it hurts and angers me that that is a serious possibility. Damn….

MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

This whole time I still had this feeling that I was sharing all the blame, that she was gonna take none of it at all and passively make it all look like my fault. What hurts the most is that it seems as if she has just emotionally switched off. She has no problem walking away with a huge smile on her face.

Like I said, I feel like a fool.

The fact that most, if not all women are like that at their core is the reason why I feel no more emotions for them. I can f~~~ them, I can socialize with them, but I don’t love them.

I truly understand female nature, thus I can truly never love females again. They are just empty vessels to f~~~ and dump semen into, and eventually not even that when the rest of my fading sex drive dies completely.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

Murph wrote:

I would bet everything I own that she was monkey branching with some Chad while she was with you. She likely found out he has a higher salary. When a woman goes from wanting to spend a lot of time together to giving you the cold shoulder in the blink of an eye, that is a textbook example of what women do when monkey branching. Then, she tries to push you away, and make you believe it is YOUR fault! Christ, there’s a million red flags going up here!

Seriously, whoever the Chad is did you a favor. You could have gotten stuck paying child support for her kids. Now, it will be him taking all the risk while you walk away unscathed. I hope you have learned your lesson this time.

I have, it hurts and angers me that that is a serious possibility. Damn….

20+ years ago, when I was blue pill, I ended up playing the roll of Chad for a woman who was separated. One day we f~~~ed, and I pumped a nice load in her. She had to go pick up her daughter from her ex’s.

She came back a few minutes later with a weird s~~~-eating grin on her face, and she finally couldn’t keep it in. She let him eat her out on his pool table and the poor fool apparently didn’t known she had sex 5 minutes earlier.

I honestly hope you never ate your unicorn out, because women are uncouth.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Tower said it best, “not your fault”. Move on Sir with your head held high.

Another single mother horror story.

[Anonymous 7]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

… and just one day it stopped. Yeah I prolly believe it was a unicorn at first.

From my experience, and that which I’ve noticed from others… someone else was most likely consuming her mind.

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

As she started to fade I became upset, worried, scared, and my methods of reaching out came off as paranoia, flip flopping, insecurities, etc.

This is the worst mistake, and I fell into it as well. Women see our caring, nurturing, and loyal traits as Kryptonite. You know, you are supposed to be the rock, strong Oak, whatever. This is especially true when there is another possible suitor in reach. It is an easy sell in her mind when her prospects are either a gob of mushy feelings compared to “Chad” acting all cool and s~~~.

The MG-TOWER has called you in for safe landing on runway f~~~ac~~~ 1 North. Grab a beer out of the mechanics lounge fridge and ponder your next new adventure while we refuel your plane.

[Anonymous 18]

MGTOW_Medic wrote:

I think it’s time to sit down and speak to a counsellor

In my dumb opinion you will get A-grade advice here.

Counsellors are gynocentric shills. The relationship counsellors are real f~~~~~s.

This bitch just found a bigger wallet.

Do yourself a favor, block her from email/phone … Change your number if you must.

There is no easy way to put this, but men are the real emotional beings. Give it time. You got used and discarded.

Don’t be lead by your dick or needing emotional validation through a woman.

Women are third-rate option and have equally limited metrics to gauge a man’s worth. Its all how it benefits her.

When you get other men to respect you and serve as a role model to, you are doing above average.

Take your time. And put effort to build your value for yourself.

I have not met a man who hated himself enough to learn about redpill and go back to plantation.

You are here. Stay here.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Hey Medic, I wondered where you went. Now I know……..

Look, here’s the thing. MOST relationships don’t work out. If you break up with one person in high school, then married the next woman and stayed married until the day you died, you still only batted .500. So any one single relationship, the odds are that it won’t work out.

So don’t beat yourself up too hard. Give it a few weeks and you’ll realize that you were done a favor.

Remember, she was never “yours”. You were just the most recent guy f~~~ing her. Now some other guy will get to see how your dick tastes.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 43]

Woot! you escaped the s~~~ vortex…

Here have a seat, you must be exhausted

None of what she blames you for was your fault.

You weren’t fading, you were coming to your senses, brother.

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