Ignore them and they chase you?

[OdinParticipant 524]

All of a sudden when you start paying attention to your girlfriend or ex or whatever; they want almost nothing to do with you. But when you ignore them, they give you more time of their day and suddenly want to know how your day was. The f~~~ is wrong with these c~~~s?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Odin wrote:

All of a sudden when you start paying attention to your girlfriend or ex or whatever; they want almost nothing to do with you. But when you ignore them, they give you more time of their day and suddenly want to know how your day was. The f~~~ is wrong with these c~~~s?

They crave attention due to their need for constant and incessant validation. All PUAs know and exploit this. Don’t give them any attention and they will chase you down for it. Make them pay for it with sex and they will.
If you all ready have something, would you pay for it twice?
If you give them that attention for free why would they chase you for it, let alone f~~~ you for it.
Supply and demand.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 43]

aww love me love me pet me love me please just love oooo yess love me love me omg you are wonderful just love me listen to me love me listen to me blah blah blah isn’t that right? blah blah blah love love love me I need money pay the bill and ill love you jut f~~~ me f~~~ me harder, HARDER! ok that was ok is that all there is? blah blah blah love me love love oh look it turned blue were having a baaaaaaaybeeeeeeee pay attention to me love blah blah more money, this makes me happy happy happy blah blah blah hey why are you looking at her why love me me me im over herei want another baby hey love me I wasn’t done blah blah blah. Im not happy. I want a divorce. I want half your stuff, money and im telling the kids that you beat me and are a drug dealer, pedophile and a rapist. They won’t see you any more so pay me more money and never come near us again I want money as long as you live f~~~ you im writing about you in f~~~book and the kids really hate you now, they got married a couple years ago one child is on drugs itas all your fault its all your f~~~ing fault

[Anonymous 18]

FrostByte wrote:

They crave attention due to their need for constant and incessant validation.

Women are insecure. Attention (with social media and feminized beta men) too much of it is the norm for sub-par overweight woman.

When it was the norm that men only pursued a woman for her beauty (or talent) – attention was a good thing.

Now every woman gets attention because of ease of online dating/hook up sites. Attention doesn’t mean much because by experience it doesn’t translate to a woman being happier.

When a man ignores her, he is expressing his own time and self-image to be worth more than the said woman. She chases him not because the man is irresistible, she does so to obtain that allusive happiness. That the hoards of men liking her Facebook pictures or ex-bf/f~~~ buddies couldn’t.

Rest assured once she sucks whatever she has to from the man she will move on.

Do not use the ‘less attention means more pussy’ as PUAs use it. It just becomes another form of game to pedestalize pussy.

Pay less attention because as a mghow you have more important things to do than to entertain a woman.

[Anonymous 0]

Odin wrote:

All of a sudden when you start paying attention to your girlfriend or ex or whatever; they want almost nothing to do with you. But when you ignore them, they give you more time of their day and suddenly want to know how your day was. The f~~~ is wrong with these c~~~s?

Bipolar Disorder.
They will always make the self destructive choice.
They want drama in their life.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Cats.
Cats will move from one owner to the other if the food is better or the house is warmer.
Cats run away when you approach them and become agressive and defensive when you try and touch them.
Cats will always go to the person that ignores them or dislikes them, rather than the ones who call them, when there is a group of people.
Cats will lick the s~~~ of their fur, so they will be spotless on the outside but full of s~~~ and disease on the inside.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Anonymous 42]

They’re not chasing you, they’re honing their orbital tractor beam and getting frustrated as the MGTOW fails to change course, she’ll fidget with her tractor beam until it becomes more than obvious. MGTOW are non metallic and they just don’t get it.

Women VALUE orbiters, each one is a potential escape vessel from her sporadic and poor life’s decisions.

I like using their gravitational pull to slingshot me further into deep space where all the peace and quiet is.

I thank the modern ladies for the great TRACTION!

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Women always want more, and they desire it even more when they think they can’t have it. Also, women love to keep men under their thumb, and will work towards getting and keeping them there.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Odin wrote:

All of a sudden when you start paying attention to your girlfriend or ex or whatever; they want almost nothing to do with you. But when you ignore them, they give you more time of their day and suddenly want to know how your day was. The f~~~ is wrong with these c~~~s?

I attempted an experiment with what you have described and it really is how it works, as the below quoted post talks about women really are like cats, and cats are f~~~ed.

John Woods 13 wrote:

Cats.
Cats will move from one owner to the other if the food is better or the house is warmer.
Cats run away when you approach them and become agressive and defensive when you try and touch them.
Cats will always go to the person that ignores them or dislikes them, rather than the ones who call them, when there is a group of people.
Cats will lick the s~~~ of their fur, so they will be spotless on the outside but full of s~~~ and disease on the inside.

Dang that is a very good analogy and the truth lol…

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

That happens to me all the time. I have a lot of money saved up and work out often so I get the usual stares, smiles, and compliments but I don’t even pay any attention and treat them like s~~~. Bear in mind that some will try to get your attention just for the challenge, others for your resources and there are those who want revenge on their ex or boyfriends so you have to be very careful when they seem the most inviting.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

They crave attention and validation. It’s a pretty s~~~ty world when everything’s a f~~~ing game with women, and the risks are far greater than the reward. It boils down to this.

If you are chasing her, then that must mean she is valuable to you. And if you see her as having value, then odds are you are less valuable. Women are hypergamous, they want to date or marry someone who is more valuable than they are. If you chase her, you automatically validate her as having value.

If you aren’t chasing her, odds are that you have another woman in your life, she’s no big deal. If she doesn’t get your attention, it means she’s not worth your time and that you are more valuable than her and able to get women more valuable than her. Therefore, you’re more valuable and you trigger her hypergamous instincts to chase you. Hell, if other women are interested in you, you must be worth something right? Probably valuable.

If you have other women hitting on you in front of another woman, they will automatically be more attracted to you because women see more value in you so there must be something of value right?

The thing is, I’m not ignoring her or playing hard to get as part of getting laid, I’m ignoring her because I DON’T GIVE A F~~~.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Odin wrote:

But when you ignore them, they give you more time of their day and suddenly want to know how your day was.

There is simply no better way to get a woman’s attention than by ignoring her. This is a true thing I’ve observed over and over again.

For example, after years of marriage my wife was becoming less than affectionate. No more caressing my hand or leg while curled up on the couch and watching a movie. No more random hugs in the kitchen while we’re preparing dinner. But I’m an affectionate guy, and so this bugged me. So I stopped any and all acts of affection. I would still be engaging and talkative, but no touching. And within a day she’d be all over me. Then I’d go back to being my normal, affectionate self again. Then she’d back off again. Then I’d repeat the whole cycle over and over again for nearly a year, and it never failed to produce the same results.

It’s f~~~ed up, and that’s one reason out of a thousand that I’m MGTOW.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Step 1: ignore them
Step 2: tell them to f~~~ off when they want attention

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

Mr. Man wrote:

There is simply no better way to get a woman’s attention than by ignoring her. This is a true thing I’ve observed over and over again.

Yup.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[OdinParticipant 524]

Loving the answers on this.

[Anonymous 16]

Not all of them but lots of them will. By ignore him them you just became a challenge. You think by sending them emails calling them all the time, chasing them giving them attention is the way to go, but most women will get tired really quick of this and lose interest.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Odin wrote:

The f~~~ is wrong with these c~~~s?

Who cares?

What matters is how you can use this to your advantage.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

FrostByte wrote:

BioRhythmicStudios wrote:

All of a sudden when you start paying attention to your girlfriend or ex or whatever; they want almost nothing to do with you. But when you ignore them, they give you more time of their day and suddenly want to know how your day was. The f~~~ is wrong with these c~~~s?

They crave attention due to their need for constant and incessant validation. All PUAs know and exploit this. Don’t give them any attention and they will chase you down for it. Make them pay for it with sex and they will.
If you all ready have something, would you pay for it twice?
If you give them that attention for free why would they chase you for it, let alone f~~~ you for it.
Supply and demand.

Its build into their biological drive.
If they are not receiving attention from the guy that used to be crazy about them, it might mean they need to set for marriage RIGHT NOW.
Usually this does not mean they want you, but they are testing if they still got more time to fool around until their looks go away.

I SAY AGAIN: You are not what they want, just the confirmation that they can still get a guy later on.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

I agree with catspaw. Make no mistake they only want the attention. Platonic friends, ex wives, ex girlfriends, female colleagues all crave on attention. No woman wants to be invisible to men. It somehow stabs them sharpely. My time, my activities, my hobbies and my money are important to me. Women are not.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

They crave attention and validation. It’s a pretty s~~~ty world when everything’s a f~~~ing game with women, and the risks are far greater than the reward. It boils down to this.

If you are chasing her, then that must mean she is valuable to you. And if you see her as having value, then odds are you are less valuable. Women are hypergamous, they want to date or marry someone who is more valuable than they are. If you chase her, you automatically validate her as having value.

If you aren’t chasing her, odds are that you have another woman in your life, she’s no big deal. If she doesn’t get your attention, it means she’s not worth your time and that you are more valuable than her and able to get women more valuable than her. Therefore, you’re more valuable and you trigger her hypergamous instincts to chase you. Hell, if other women are interested in you, you must be worth something right? Probably valuable.

If you have other women hitting on you in front of another woman, they will automatically be more attracted to you because women see more value in you so there must be something of value right?

The thing is, I’m not ignoring her or playing hard to get as part of getting laid, I’m ignoring her because I DON’T GIVE A F~~~.

Fantastic theory and very true. Man, there have been some really good general MGTOW posts on women’s behavior and habitat lately. Too bad we don’t have a place for MUST READ threads.

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