If You Put her on a pedestal then she has no choice but to look down on you

[Anonymous 6]

FOund this on the MGTOW Reddit…. I figured it could help out the new guys or guys still in relationships.

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This topic has been well and truly covered before but it is a reminder of a fundamental red pill truth, and some instruction on what to do if you still have this tendency. This post is for newbies and those who are yet to fully swallow the pill. Search yourself for these behaviours, and be honest.

Pedestalising women is one of the most beta, repulsive, vagina drying things that a man can do. Seriously if you are more into a girl than she is into you, then just walk away, or alternately grow a f~~~ing pair. If you are looking up to a woman then mentally, physically and metaphorically, she has no choice but to look DOWN on you. It is entirely your fault, do not blame the woman for treating you like a lap dog bitch, you put yourself into that position 100%. I will break this down into three categories:

You like a girl you are not having sex with. This is the worst case scenario. You think about her before sleep and as soon as you wake up. Your b~~~~ tingle while you visualise her. You get butterflies in the stomach when you think about her. You dream of a life together. If the above Disney movie description of your fee fees is accurate, do not feel too bad, we have all been there (except Chad). However we at the red pill are here to wake you up. Seriously if this is you then I wish I was in the room with you right now so I could slap you upside the head and tell you to f~~~ing grow a pair.

Women are repulsed by this behavior and rightfully so. Your options are either: A – sidebar, man up and initiate kino the next time you see her or B – just forget about her. You repulse her and she is busy getting railed by Chad while you are at home crying into your pillow.
You are in a sexual relationship with a woman and you think she is great and you are in love.

If you love her more than she loves you do not ask me how you can tell this, if you are unsure, then you definitely love her more than she loves you. You do s~~~ like text her then worry when she doesn’t text back, you accept her bulls~~~ excuses as to why she is late or cancels a date (do you think she is slow to text Chris Hemsworth or she cancels dates with him?), you miss her a lot when you have not seen her for a while.

You have two choices here, A – walk away or B – flip that s~~~. The second option will not be easy, I give you at best a 25% chance, after all she already knows you are p~~~-weak. So if you are foolish enough to try option B then head to the sidebar and read it again because if you are in this position, you have not swallowed the pill. Cancel the next date you have with her, go to the gym, go out with your boys, visit your family, f~~~ another girl who likes you more than you like her. Just know that you need to be ready to lose her. She already thinks that you are a weak little bitch, so changing her mind is going to be hard work.

You are either married, in an LTR of several years or more, and maybe have kids. Now as pathetic as category 1 is, your situation is almost as bad. Either you started alpha and went beta, or you were always beta. The signs and symptoms in this case: you are scared to lose her (not scared of losing your kids and money – that is a different and reasonable fear), you buy her expensive gifts and she does not reciprocate, her SMV is higher than yours, she speaks to you or treats you disrespectfully.

If this is the case you need to do one of two things, A – GTFO of the relationship (especially if there are no kids, seriously just run, you cannot fix that s~~~ and even if you make it better it is not worth it). or B – Read Rollo’s “The Reconstruction” ten times, then start the long, difficult, painful but ultimately rewarding path laid out on the MRP sidebar.

This stuff is so basic it should not need to be written down. Search your feelings, are you more into her than she is into you? If yes or you are unsure then you are pedestalising her, f~~~ing stop it. If you put her up there, then no wonder she is p~~~ing on you from a great height.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

I blow pedestals to pieces as a demo-man. No kidding, I use to make my own explosives when I was a mining engineer and did my time in a third world country. I use to make my own detonators, using black powder and fuse wire. I also used dynamite and made my own ammonium nitrate fuel oil (ANFO). This s~~~ is powerful and is used to shatter hardened rock. Light the fuse and f~~~ing run. I also worked as a blasting engineer, here in Australia, making blasting plans (setting the sequencing and delays). Any pedestals that need blowing up, i’m right here …lol.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Putting her on a pedestal is as pointless as getting down on one knee and proposing.

[joetechParticipant]

I’ve always demanded, yes demanded, that a woman stand on the same rocky ground that I do. After my experience with my first wife, I never even dated pedestalized females or even talked to them.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Anonymous 18]

Pedestal is a great asset for a mghow.

Use it for your own peace and women-free existence.

I have made the mistake of treating women like s~~~. They get off on it.

Treat her with respect and admiration. Winning: no false allegations as she will never feel rejected. Let her reject you in her mind. Don’t give hamster anything to feed on.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Don’t have to put them there. They step up on the pedestal of truth with self righteous indignation all on their own.

A bunch of victorian princess snowflakes standing on their pedestal of truth. Go get some

Peace brothers

[JayjaysParticipant 44]

“It’s a man’s job to respect a woman, but it’s a woman’s job to give him something to respect”

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

If you’re going to put her on a pedestal, make sure it’s very tall. Then walk away. Take the ladder with you.

[The Tower DogParticipant 23]

This was one of my biggest problems when dating. If it was during a red pill phase, then I wouldn’t do it and dude, you can’t shake them. Admittingly through the years I had a couple that almost re-indoctertated me to the blue pill and I would put them on the pedestal. They can’t stand it. You over look faults and don’t call out bullsh**. When you feel yourself doing it, back up, turn around and just let it go. Already too freaking late. Hard to come back from that mistake.

You can be a good guy still, just not to women you want to bed.

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