If you can't take the heat, then you're depressed.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I’m sick and tired of having a buddy of mine tell me I’m depressed just because I’ve been going through a hard time lately (hence my absence from this site). So he went on and on about how he thinks that I’m sick and that I need to see a doc and all that bulls~~~. By the way he’s consulted more doctors than he can remember. What is it with even a good pal that he thinks I have to share the “mental illness” boat with him? I told him I’m just going through a lot of stress at work and that it’s giving me migraines and that I just finished the worst bout of flu and still have symptoms and that I’m generally feeling like crap, and have ditched all form of exercise it’s been about 3 weeks now, and I throw in some s~~~ about how society sucks and that most women are bitches and nothing more than self-conscious vagina-valuing leeches … and then he uses this to turn to me and say I’m badly depressed and that I should seek medical attention. So I turn to him….

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

… and I say, I’ll just tough it out like a man and pick myself up and move on and accept that I’m on my own and that no one really gives a s~~~. and then he goes like “you see? you and your manly thing, it’s a problem, you need to seek help man”… I just like told him I had enough of his s~~~ and that he sounded like a damned hypocritical feminist with his bulls~~~ of ” It’s ok to be mentally derpressed, it’s acceptable to come forward, you need to to get treated”… all that s~~~. When Guys… the truth is that though I know depression is real, it don’t mean that you have it just because someone wishes you have it….or I mean, who’s to say? … So I told my buddy that I was going to let him be and I dropped the connect and plan to give him some distance for a while. Maybe he had good intentions, and maybe I came off a little too strong with some of the s~~~ going down in my life right now. But I just can’t take the s~~~ of everything is you’re sick in the head….business. He buys into it all and thinks I should too. and by the way, I’ve been to docs and SW and the like so it’s not like I don’t know what I’m taling about, but I found for the most part it’s all just a load of s~~~, and that no one really cares and that some big drug company loves to sell pills so they can get the top cats rich as hell. and so on. man, what a piece…..I’m off this site for 3 months and then come back on just to rant like hell. Not the best approach but if you’ll understand it’s just my head space now. …

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I want to hear from any of you that can relate in some way to what I’ve said so I can read some comments take a step back get some ideas and maybe formulate some more thoughts that I may have. Depressed? Well, firstly sick as a dog from the flu doesn’t help and bouts of migraines due to stress is not great, and not to mention the fact that my ex is having her boy-toy move back in with her and my kids for the 3RD!! time… and that doesn’t help. But in the end I told my pal to basically take his pills and shove em, and let me be and on my way and don’t get in my way of me grabbing me by the bootstraps and lifting myself up. But he said that was too “macho” and well I just see it as the only option to avoid the traps of society and yes, there is the reisk that I will burn myself out and go beyond my limits, but what else is a man to do?… Submit to a life of docs and meds?… now don’t get me wrong, I’ve done those things TEMPORARILY… and it helps but I can’t agree with the permanence of it unless it’s truly some form of real mental disorder, but I think those are relatively rare. Any how, thanks for reading and I think of you guys , and even when I wasn’t here for those months I thought about the struggle each of us has and that we are valiant and our struggles and that it’s not right to have manliness put down or attempted to be subdued with medication or feminist-engendered shame tactics etc. I will take a break now.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Point Of No Return wrote:

I throw in some s~~~ about how society sucks and that most women are bitches and nothing more than self-conscious vagina-valuing leeches

This should affect your life in zero ways. This guy is a blue pill simp, like 99% of men.

Point Of No Return wrote:

I’ll just tough it out like a man and pick myself up and move on and accept that I’m on my own and that no one really gives a s~~~.

Sounds mentally sound to me. Honestly, it’s the truth!
NO ONE cares about me (unless they want something) mom and dad aren’t there to change my diaper either.

Some loyal bitch to stroke my c~~~ now and then, or maybe fold laundry, isn’t worth the pain of watching Degrassi or whatever feminized s~~~ they’re into.

Point Of No Return wrote:

some big drug company loves to sell pills

Bingo.
Those drugs, especially SSRI Anti-Depressants will f~~~ you up man.
I was prescribed them and they’re awful garbage.

I’ve been depressed and known people who are/were depressed.
When this occurs you know it and can feel it and will know to seek “help”.
‘Help’ being in quotations because when I went to a shrink was told:
“Go to church. Play baseball and take drugs.”

That’s not f~~~ing help.

Pursue you passions.
Build credentials and skills (education).
Try and get lost in yourself (hobbies)
Personally, I work hard, learn about investments and seek knowledge.
And smoke weed.
Works for me.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Another thing I ask myself in order to find out the truth is this:
Would I become instantly free from most of my sadness if I won the lottery? If I answer yes, then it’s not depression, seeing that depression is supposedly a chemical imbalance and thus the thought of too much cash should not technically change that. So If I won the lottery and then still after counting out the 10 million bucks sat in a corner doing nothing all day, then yes, meds may need to be taken. It’s a simple test and if anyone can find fault with it please chime in.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

The idea is that you would know WHAT to do with the cash in order to find stability, balance and harmony. Happiness is a bonus and nowhere in the bible does it say “Thou shalt always strive to be happy to please God” … But we live in a society that shames you if you don’t go around all chipper and all smiles and all “positive”. I mean it’s the right direction but it doesn’t means it has to be like that most of the time. But society wants you to believe that it should be like that most of the time, and so people go into overdrive striving for constant “happiness” and playing I’m-always-so-happy-and-cheerful games with their own mind. Let all that crap be the domain of feminists and their games and s~~~ tests and little workings to keep their little manginas all in a row and working for them.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Sounds like HE DOESN’T UNDERSTAND some of YOUR choices mate.

Point Of No Return wrote:

But in the end I told my pal to basically take his pills and shove em, and let me be and on my way and don’t get in my way of me grabbing me by the bootstraps and lifting myself up. But he said that was too “macho” and well I just see it as the only option to avoid the traps of society

I’m sure his comments were meant in ‘good faith’, but let him do him and you do you.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I agree. But now he told me being “too manly” is a problem in society and told me to think about that if I really want to “man-up”. Well that last little bit about manning up was too much for me to handle. I told him good luck with his feminism. His current gf will be the end of him. He’s being cuckolded and is reverting to Blue Pill ways. Goes to show… A man must come to his own RP realisation totally on his own.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 54]

Any one who says your being too Manly…get rid of.

I agree with your thought that short term dpression doenst mean jump on meds.

Fighting your way out is allways the first step.

I dont know of your depressed or not.

But I think youve got the right approach.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Anonymous wrote:

Any one who says your being too Manly…get rid of.

I agree with your thought that short term dpression doenst mean jump on meds.

Fighting your way out is allways the first step.

I dont know of your depressed or not.

But I think youve got the right approach.

I think it’s temporary, a lot of stuff happening, but I must say I feel like fighting and making this work and continuing to put the blazes in while going my own way. It’s got to be one of the worst things you can say to a MGTOW… Man up… Shame tactics stink of rotten maggoty fish, always.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Went to look at weapons with my older son this past weekend. People get all upset by that. Really! It’s actually a good thing! I told him about the history of weapons, what they can be used for, bad and good intentions behind them. No damned feminist mom gonna educate her son in that appropriate way. I told my son… “Respect the power of weapons, don’t underestimate the damage they can do, ever”. That’s educating!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

I’m feeling like I’m at odds with 95% of the world… Maybe that’s a little depressing and I just have to get used to it still, move past it so to speak.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 54]

Ultimately its allways ones own fight that will bring you back up.

If youve got fight in you, you will do fine.

[Anonymous 54]

Point Of No Return wrote:

I’m feeling like I’m at odds with 95% of the world… Maybe that’s a little depressing and I just have to get used to it still, move past it so to speak.

For a Man,liveing in a girls world of make pretend can be very depressing.
Feminised buddies wont help.
His intentions may be good, but he acts like a girl.

Distance yourself from him.

Enjoy your Manly things.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

YES!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 54]

Point Of No Return wrote:

YES!

See! Your feeling better allready!

Society wants you to hand over your Masculinty.

Tell them they can lick your hairy b~~~~!

Hhahaha

We are F~~~ing Men!!!!

[It’sallbsParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Feminised buddies wont help.

Nor will blue pilled male relatives.

This will help though…

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 54]

Point Of No Return wrote:

Went to look at weapons with my older son this past weekend. People get all upset by that. Really! It’s actually a good thing! I told him about the history of weapons, what they can be used for, bad and good intentions behind them. No damned feminist mom gonna educate her son in that appropriate way. I told my son… “Respect the power of weapons, don’t underestimate the damage they can do, ever”. That’s educating!

If this is what you enjoy, do more of it.
I see no point in debateing with people about it. That will bum you out.
Carve out a niche foryourself, and avoid the feminised world of make pretend.

[narwhalParticipant]

Eh don’t worry about it too much. You came to him with your issues, and like most men do, he wants to offer what he sees as a solution. I can respect that to an extent.

However….

Point Of No Return wrote:

Another thing I ask myself in order to find out the truth is this:
Would I become instantly free from most of my sadness if I won the lottery? If I answer yes, then it’s not depression, seeing that depression is supposedly a chemical imbalance and thus the thought of too much cash should not technically change that

I don’t think that’s a bad way of looking at it. However, money isn’t everything, and the pain from the death of a loved one, for example, isn’t going to go away with the lottery. The way I see it is, do you have a reason for how you feel? If yes, it’s not depression. If no, then it probably is.

For me personally, I do get depressed and am on regular medication. I don’t get very depressed without it, but it certainly helps with my every day life. It doesn’t sound like you are depressed to me. It sounds like you’re just going through some s~~~ that will pass.

That said that I would say it’s a good time to focus on the things you like to do when you can. Not a good time to think about how crappy society is right now. Nothing you can do about it, and it will just prolong your funk at best.

Ok. Then do it.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Point Of No Return wrote:

But now he told me being “too manly” is a problem in society and told me to think about that if I really want to “man-up”.

So, you’re supposed to “Man Up”, but not in a manly way?????? You’re friend is a f~~~ing idiot. My advice would be to beat him over the head with that stupid statement until he cries Uncle. Then tell him to never say anything that stupid in front of you again.

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