Ideal marriage for a red pill guy.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Iam from south asia, When i think of my grandfather and the people who lived before him, i think there is something flawed big time in our generation,

these guys had their wives under control, thanks to weaker laws and no feminism bulls~~~.

Now things are changed a good husband is the one who is blue.

My question is due to cultural and family pressures i may marry in a few years. I want to marry someone who just acts and does what i told them to do and less maintenance.I want to be like a single but married guy.
I know it is impossible but atleast have to try.

How to spot a girl with these characters.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

globemaster wrote:

My question is due to cultural and family pressures i may marry in a few years.

F~~~ those cultural and family pressures and f~~~ the horse they rode in on.

You only get one life. Are you going to live your one and only life for your family? Are you going to live your one and only life for your culture?

Or are you going to live your life for yourself?

How to spot a girl with these characters.

You don’t. Because you only meet her for real after you f~~~ up and sign on the dotted line. You’ll find she’s a completely different person once she doesn’t have to pretend any more. By then it’s too late for you to do anything about it.

No marriage. No cohabitation. No procreation.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Globemaster- As Sidecar said cultural and family pressures are nothing. MGTOW is male sovereignty. That means making your own choices that are good for you. Since it sounds like you are surrounded by traditionalism let’s make a list.

He is responsible for providing money, protection, shelter, and food.

She is responsible for taking care of the house, providing for his sexual needs, and taking care of the children.

All of his requirements are now enforceable even after divorce, what of her requirements can be enforced even after the first day of marriage.

You will outlive all of the family members that you saying will be the reason that you get married. Can you justify giving the life that you want to live up so that they can be happy with your decisions.

Please understand that your choice isn’t about finding the right girl for you, it’s about being the man that you want for your own reasons and it’s more of a lifelong commitment than marriage currently is.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Ogre wrote:

Please understand that your choice isn’t about finding the right girl for you, it’s about being the man that you want for your own reasons and it’s more of a lifelong commitment than marriage currently is.

Very well said in a nutshell. I could have hardly phrased it any better than you just did Ogre. +1

Modern feminism as well as traditionalism in this day and age are both obsolete and in the end it will be down to each and everyone of us here to figure out something else entirely new and appropriate since nobody else can or would dare to do that…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 3]

globemaster wrote:

I want to marry someone who just acts and does what i told them to do and less maintenance.I want to be like a single but married guy.

And what in the f~~~ are you bringing to the table? This is the thing with these NAWALT fantasies, I’m all for being pro-male in this gynocentric bitch, but some of the relations~~~ demands I see from guys are completely detached from reality.

You want somebody who does what you tell them to, reread that for a second, how does it really sound? What makes that person want to do that? Hell, what does that say about YOU? Reverse the situation for a second, let’s say if a woman wants you to do what she tells you to, what happens then, are you able to walk the walk? You are like that post wall, fat chick who only wants a 10/10 perfect good guy and him to accept her post wall fatness, but is unable to accept lesser guys out there.

Come back to reality, man. Part of the red pill is realizing what the truth is. If you want a marriage, you’re going to have to work with something, something has to give, part of you has to give. Just like if that post wall fat chick wants it, she’s going to have to lose the weight for one. Deal with it. Either you accept the fact that you will be collared, or don’t get married, but either way, drop this stupid delusion about finding such a woman, you are just another guy.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

The only thing a male can control is himself. Otherwise he will be controlled by the female in todays world. One tip buddy, stay to yourself. Otherwise welcome to slavery. Just a fair warning for the sake of a future mgtow.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

sir, don’t marry…don’t listen to the social and family pressures.

even if you find a “perfect” women, she be a COMPLETELY different person 5 years after marriage.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Globemaster,

Your questions and situation is appreciated. It is good to have young men questioning what is happening to them.

Do not be discouraged by the answers you receive!

Nevertheless, you are acting like an ignoramus who goes to an Alcoholic’s Anonymous meeting and expects to get advice on choosing the best alcoholic drink: “wine is fine, but liqueur is quicker.”

Don’t be ashamed, I hope you are laughing now.

On MGTOW, do not expect to get any positive advice which encourages you to find a “Good” wife. Any free man who has real experience with marriage, especially with South Asian woman, will strongly dissuade your from such foolishness.

In fact, you will inspire the anger of battle hardened MGTOWs, if you persist that marriage for a man is a good idea.

However, more experienced MGTOws can understand that you are young and in a bad place right know. The young should ask “stupid” questions. So, you can expect to get some help here to see things differently and come up with other choices which benefits you.

Some of my views against marriage and the myth of South Asian Women were already posted in your introduction, so I will now add some other thoughts for you to examine.

On this thread, I want you to examine your false assumption that your Grandfather and those before them had “Good” wives.
This assumption is a mistake and will ruin your life, especially if you continue to believe the deceptive appearances.

I had the same assumptions drilled into my head and the truth was buried deep down underneath my awareness. My Grandmother was considered a “Saint” and the ideal wife/ mother of our fishing village. It took a decade of being MGTOW before I could admit that this was a false illusion. Now I can finally remember my Grandfather’s complaints about his “good” wife: “there she goes, off spending my money again.”

It wasn’t until I turned fifty years old that I was able to examine the reports that my beloved Grandmother was a viscous narcissist. She was a master at illusions and knew how to get others to do her bidding.

The ancient South Asian Cultures have the most fabulous Operas and performances I have ever seen. They are masters of illusion.

The Ancient and sophisticated propaganda that you have been subjected to is extremely powerful. Your blue pill is an extra strength variety.

There is also another bulls~~~ assumption circulating that claims our Grandfathers and those men who came before them were more masculine and were more capable at inspiring a woman’s good feminine qualities. This vile propaganda further asserts that if a wife chooses to act like a rotten c~~~, it is because the husband is too feminine. These are malicious lies and they are wrong on so many levels. Don’t fall into those traps!

Here is a reminder from an Ancient South Asian Culture:

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Anonymous wrote:

You want somebody who does what you tell them to, reread that for a second, how does it really sound? What makes that person want to do that? Hell, what does that say about YOU? Reverse the situation for a second, let’s say if a woman wants you to do what she tells you to, what happens then, are you able to walk the walk? You are like that post wall, fat chick who only wants a 10/10 perfect good guy and him to accept her post wall fatness, but is unable to accept lesser guys out there.

That was my impression as well. You aren’t going to find a slave, but the real problem is most women aren’t even rational once married because at the end of the day they understand they can divorce rape you and there is nothing you can do about it. If I was going to ever marry I wouldn’t expect it to be 100-0 in my favor, but with current laws its too far in the woman’s favor for me to even consider it.

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Im going to marry my fembot with the scarlett johansen body with d size t~~~.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Ideal marriage. …none.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[atlasParticipant 285]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Ideal marriage. …none.

@jan.Sobieski 1000% yes.

“We are on strike, we, the men of the mind. We are on strike against self-immolation. We are on strike against the creed of unearned rewards and unrewarded duties. We are on strike against the dogma that the pursuit of one's happiness is evil. We are on strike against the doctrine that life is guilt.”

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Families are never around or nowhere to be found in divorce court,every man is there alone to get raped. Dont let your family cherry pick your life. They are not there to tell you to do it doggy style or missionary so why give them conditional access to you when it comes to other decisions. Go Your Own Way…..

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 12]

Being Red Pill means being aware and pragmatic about what is going on around you.

So in regards to marriage it would mean accepting that it is really just a business deal, one that is these days skewered to the woman’s advantage.

She can withhold sex, affection, not do housework or anything else, she can choose to work or not.

And if you have kids then when she decides she wants a divorce than not only do you lose most of what you work for you also have to pay for the kids you no longer get to see.

So what’s in marriage for you??

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