I year and one day…

[YAZParticipant 140]

That’s how long it’s been since my whore of an ex-wife moved out of my house and I moved back in. I was almost forty one when I got married; 50 when divorced. No children. Never married before either. I thought it would be fun. I thought it would be cool. Combined incomes, shared expenses, etc. Fun life, eh?

I can tell Y’all…..the saddest and the most stressful times were spent with that bitch. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had bad times when I was single……but Holy S~~~…….the duration, the intensity, and the frequency of bad times was incredible when I was married. Yeah kids, it’ll take some time before you realize that you’re happier being single.

It takes some effort to turn the corner, but when you do……you’ll be enlightened.

Go your own way.

Whore Magnet

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

YAZ wrote:

but Holy S~~~…….the duration, the intensity, and the frequency of bad times was incredible when I was married.

Unfortunately, I know exactly what you mean. So glad that nightmare is finally over.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome to the world of freedmen.
I’ve never been married, but my exposure to the world of relations~~~s was lesson enough.

Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty or give me death!
— Thomas Payne

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Let these words of wisdom be a guide for others tricking themselves with the Disney propaganda machine.

Before marriage you are a free man. After …. nothing more than a pack mule ….. and a poorly treated one at that.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

Since right around February for me.
I get up everyday and the agenda is all up to me, nobody bitching at me, nobody waking me up before my 6-8 hours sleep (work nights)
No more arguing for the sake of arguing (her mood swings dictated what day we were going to have) bad mood, I get the f~~~ out of the house.
It’s sooooo quiet in here…n here….here….ere………………………..

I think about winter coming, no more getting out of bed to shovel the driveway, neither her or her spoilt rotten (adult) daughter dared lift a shovel. I don’t have to listen to ‘but I’m a girl, that’s a man’s job’ I heard that one a lot, a lot of jobs became a ‘man’s’ job.
Seems I was doing more, they were doing less, and bitching more, I was such a tool.

I no longer want to share a roof with a woman, that’s the secret to a good relationship, you live where you live, I live here, we can get together 2 times a week to hang out, get our rocks off, etc. Then we say goodbye! But of course, she better be a NAWATLT (not totally AWALT)

Starting to consider escorts to get my mind off the pussy, those urges are strong man!

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

megatoad69 wrote:

I don’t have to listen to ‘but I’m a girl, that’s a man’s job’ I heard that one a lot, a lot of jobs became a ‘man’s’ job.

I had an ex that tried that crap on me.
I said “Ok, I’ll cook, clean, and do laundry. You cut the grass, snowblow/shovel the driveway/sidewalks, and take out the garbage/recycling.”
End of conversation… pouting ensued…

[Symmetric MGTOWParticipant 570]

Welcome home brother.

I also suffered like you did. I know exactly what you mean.

Enjoy your freedom. I have been separated for a month and a half and I am learning to love life and everything I have now. Happier and happier everyday, except for when I need to deal with her and the divorce paperwork again.

Thank you for sharing your experience.

J.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Absolutely damn right!

Totally agree, Bud!.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[YAZParticipant 140]

I understand that many of us were brought up to be gentlemen to the “fairer” sex.

Some unsolicited advice:

During the divorce process, there must be VERY limited contact. Do it through the lawyers if possible. Anything you say can and will be used against you

. For the gentlemen without children:

Break off ALL contact. Get an unpublished phone number. Remove her relatives from ANY kind of communication. Be very wary of “mutual friends.” Don’t say a damn word to ANYONE that she knows. Your “mutual friends” will show their allegiance soon enough. And your TRUE friends will become quite evident.

Her correspondence to you should be limited to your government’s mail delivery service.

This isn’t about love, friendship, or being a gentleman anymore. It’s a war about money and things. Let her have the kitchen gadgets. Not worth fighting over. Corresponding with her only gives her a feeling of empowerment which she will show off to her friends, trust me.

My ex-wife continuously tried to drag me into her bulls~~~……a year after the split After perusing others’ experiences here on MGTOW, I realized how wrong I was to be “nice.” Take out the trash and go your own way. We deserve to have peace.

Whore Magnet

[DarthWParticipant 70]

Never been married. I so appreciate you guys sharing your stories to remind me how great never being married is.

[RoninParticipant 42]

Welcome Brother,

As a fellow mgtow who has gone through the hell of divorce from my golddigging c~~~ of an ex, you’ll find that you are less stressed, your blood pressure is lower and you have had your moment of clarity. I find that I prefer to hang with my homies, tell dirty jokes, work and fly airplanes, travel and have fun with my car. Dating is falling so low on my priorities that, it is fun seeing women try to hit on you while walking away; the pussy has no effect.

Your life is your’s to live.

Be free man

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