I would be in jail right now…

[Anonymous 42]

Jeremiah Johnson wrote:

Please take it from me, I have been physically assaulted twice now by two different women.

@jeremiah, Montana, beautiful country! I only flew over it, I saw a tiny little ranch in the middle of nowhere, all by it’s self, it may have been your place???

I’ve been assaulted (physically verbal not included) by women (let me think)…… 5 times, 2 were strangers (a stripper and a road rage lunatic) 1 GF,  a friends GF, and my mom for beating my brother to a pulp (that one I deserved), but all the others were (PHYSICALLY UNPROVOKED) they were crazy c~~~s that snapped and went off the handle without warning! Yea I maned up alright!

I never let my guard down (not the touchy feelings guard) but the actual physical stance guard, I defend my circle from intrusion, I back away from danger, I never allow a vulnerable hole to open up, I’m not s~~~ting! F~~~ taking a sucker shot by allowing them in your circle! I’m starting a new thread; “Have you ever been assaulted by a woman?”

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

ILiveAgain wrote:

1. You MUST report this

2. You MUST get restraining order

3. You MUST start a paperwork trail.

The least of your worries is the physical gun …. it’s the huge f~~~ing legal bazooka she has on her side.

Start getting a legal case/evidence against her. Her switch has flipped and now she’s through the looking glass.

DON’T LET HER COME BACK

Arrange one of her friends to come get her stuff and film it being taken and it’s condition.

You are on borrowed time.

ACT NOW.

This is good advice.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

I would get her s~~~ in boxes and tell her it’s going to be outside.

ILiveAgain wrote:

1. You MUST report this 2. You MUST get restraining order 3. You MUST start a paperwork trail. The least of your worries is the physical gun …. it’s the huge f~~~ing legal bazooka she has on her side. Start getting a legal case/evidence against her. Her switch has flipped and now she’s through the looking glass. DON’T LET HER COME BACK Arrange one of her friends to come get her stuff and film it being taken and it’s condition. You are on borrowed time. ACT NOW.

Great advice here. Her switch has flipped, don’t be fooled by her apologies because it is just another form of her manipulation.

Starting a police file will help protect you against any false accusations she makes.

Get her s~~~ out immediately, in boxes on the front yard, tell her to pick them up and delete her from your life in every way possible, ignore her.  

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[YAZParticipant 140]

After my ex-wife moved out, I started purging.  Anything that she left behind had a special place in the garage.  All toiletries, hair goop, razors, etc. were pitched.  These items can easily be replaced with one trip to WalMart.  I came across her Social Security card & birth certificate.  She was notified that she can pick them up between 2:00pm -4:00pm on Sunday.  They’re taped to the front door (Locks were changed), so there’s her window to get important s~~~.

Other personal belongings:

The law where I live states that I had to secure her s~~~ for 90 days.  Pictures, clothes, knick knacks etc. were stored in boxes in the garage.  These things can be picked up on my days off.  24 hour notice was required beforehand.  A certified letter was sent to her new residence with return receipt requested.  This protected my ass from any monetary damages.

 

She never retrieved her s~~~.  I donated her clothes to charity and wrote it off on my taxes.  All other stuff was thrown out.  Recently, almost eight months after the divorce was final……she contacted me wanting her stuff.  And yes, she threatened to sue me.  I simply told her to peruse AZ statutes regarding my acts and go right ahead and waste her money on  a lawyer.  Have fun with that, babe.

Crickets.

This is very important, gentlemen.  Know your rights and stay within the law and other legal boundaries.  Never act without knowing the consequences.  Don’t ever text.  A true bitch will find a way to use that against you.  Gonna have some beer and get p~~~ed off at her?  Put that phone away.  All decisions and communication should be done with a clear sober head.

Children involved?  Even more reasons to stay on your best behavior.  You can behave badly, (get drunk)…just don’t promulgate it.  Be careful what you say around mutual friends.  A lot of that s~~~ just feeds the fire.  Trust me, what you say will get back to her.  Consider “no contact” with her relatives.  I know it’s hard…….but blood is thicker than water.

My main focus here with this advice is:

Do not put yourselves in a position where you have to defend yourselves.  It’s like…..starting an “at bat” with an 0-2 count.

 

 

 

 

Whore Magnet

[wink dinkersonParticipant 37]

Maybe you should’ve put that .45 to good use.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

S~~~… I never saw things that bad before!

Brother, YOUR LIFE is at stake.

Eject that bitch and her stuff ASAP!

It is s~~~ like that that awakes the “Shepard Dog” (as said by Chris Kyle) in me. F~~~ man!

I would be in jail right now, for I would have beaten her to a pulp.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[endgameBlocked 26]

I would definitely record any evidence or interaction involved with her behavior. My opinion, women can’t handle being themselves around gentlemen they choose to leave. Especially when they leave for arbitrary female reasons.

[endgameBlocked 26]

YAZ, badazzBOSS. FugginCheersBroham.

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

Anonymous wrote:

Dude, you should have ejected this woman from your life a long time ago.

I am not sure what good this shaming comment does. We do not need to shame this man for past mistakes. We are here to give him good advice. All here to help each other, right?
Yes, we all should have ejected the crazy women from our lives long ago. May as well say the sun is yellow.
Otherwise, BadKan, very good advice, along with everyone else’s.

Jeremiah Johnson wrote:

Heed my warning brothers

We will do so, Jeremiah, and as well, you heed the advice of all in this thread, or you will in fact find yourself in jail. Call the Sheriff dept and ask how long before you can throw out the stuff. Send her the written notice with a deadline, press charges and get the police report, and then get all her stuff out of your house as soon as possible.

Jeremiah Johnson wrote:

I am going to just keep her stuff here safe until she is ready for it.

Search deep down, Jeremiah. What is your real motivation for this? You are allowing yourself to be manipulated and she knows it. Women are skilled at this. Just as we will heed your warning, consider heeding your own warning as well.

[VicParticipant 6]

Why would you keep her s~~~ after that?
There are plenty of free “lawyer advice” websites. You can also ask law students for advice but do Not include the whole story.
Just ask as if you’re the woman “How long do I have to keep my ex-husbands s~~~ after our divorce? And what is the fastest and safest way to get rid of it with no legal consequences”.
You’ll skip the whole SJW s~~~ if you keep the details. And get 10 times more actually useful replies, and legally applicable options, if you say that you’re the woman that’s suffering an abusive husband (Use the Patriarchy against them).

"There's nothing more dangerous than a man who wants to make the world a better place" - Banksy.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Mate, next time, only put her stuff outside of your home when she comes.
F~~~ being a gentleman when you are dealing with an animal. Ask her what she wants, while she waits outside of your home.
Dont lend her ANYTHING, dont allow her in your home, talk to her as to the pizza delivery man.

Tell her she has 3 days to pick her s~~~ up or you are putting it in storage at her name, and if she does not pay, its taken away by the storage.
If she asks you “how am I supposed to….” followed by something you will not even listen to, tell her I cared before, not anymore (make this point clear, its nice to let her know that she f~~~ed up and thats why you no longer care).

If you are unsure, ask a lawyer and (here is the best part) get a restraint order, or at least contact the Police to tell them you want her out of your life but she wont go away.
This way if she tries to bully you into court, you will have the upper hand.
This might seem excessive, but you are the one who knows her enough to make this choice.

[AngularParticipant 114]

Your first mistake was treating her like a normal person x’s are to be treated as sincere enemies and a x-fiance thats dangerous. because in her mind you toke away her weeding the thing she’s been dreaming about as a child. she will not hold herself responsible for why it was ruined. she will just blame you instead of taking any responsibility. and throw her stuff out f~~~ that bitch and install a camera and look up lawyers because women sometimes feel obligated to attack men without you responding. so pick her stuff and throw it out and likely if she does come she will destroy your stuff which is why a lawyer is needed. she will go to court saying some dumb s~~~ like i was angry so i destroyed his house. But honestly you got off easily and put a restraining order if you think you will need one.

[ironheartParticipant 942]

May be a bit late for this suggestion, but I would hand over her .38 to the local police department for “safe storage” and explain to them that she is no longer a resident at your home and that she is exhibiting violent behavior.

Tell her she can pick up the gun there (minus any ammo), and get the police to document the storage or surrender of the weapon and give your lawyer a copy. Then let her explain to the police why she should be allowed to have the .38 back. If the cops are worth their salt they will start an investigation into her behavior and possibly recommend charges, or they will disallow her from owning weapons with a black mark on her record to prevent her buying any more of them. You are within your rights to report a person as potentially dangerous to the public, and then let the police make any determination after that.

Otherwise rent one of those portable storage containers and put it at the end of your driveway with all her stuff in it. Give her a couple months or less to pick it up. Send multiple written notices via a lawyer. Then follow the lawyers advice and have it all moved or have it removed. Expect civil litigation at this point no matter what course you follow, so take the steps to cover your butt either way.

Given her violence, you should consider a temporary restraining order as well if the police take your side of the situation. They may even recommend that you do such.

Witnesses alone are not enough in a civil case. You need paper trails as well.

"Women have become so full of hatred that they are blind to reason and humanity. That which they practice will be the end of humanity, long before any war that men may fight.." "Women are predators by nature. Why else do you think they are so quick to gang up and go after a man they hate for showing any sign of weakness?"

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Agree with ironheart. Please don’t give the crazy lady a gun.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

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