I wish I had the potential to love a female

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

I see “happy” couples sometimes and even if it is a facade and generally s~~~ty, I sometimes wish I had just the POTENTIAL to love a female and have that…. But I know how the game goes and what it comes with. I killed that ability to love a while ago. I get sick of females too quick and have absolutely no patience to even try to entertain the thought of a relationship. I’m a cold hearted MF when it comes to this, but a warm person about everything else.

I read about red pillers relapsing on blue pills and wonder if this was their first step to that transition. Regardless, I doubt that will happen to me because it’s honestly hard for me to see females as actual humans instead of walking vaginas.

Thoughts?

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

This isnt a direct reaponse to your question (although I did include one at the bottom) but what you stated below is something that has occurred to me because I have a female family members I have to deal with. So keep in mind my response is in that context: female family member I would like to maintain a relationship with.

it’s honestly hard for me to see females as actual humans instead of walking vaginas.

When I have a female family member I obviously love, but get so p~~~ed at her behavior I dont even want to talk to her, this is what bothers me. Obviously I dont see her as a walking vagina and I do see her as human. Here is where it gets interesting:

Some RP guys act as though they simply accept the fact that women behave the way they do and dont let it bother them. Thats fine, but when it comes to a female adult who is my family member, I hold her fully responsible

for her behavior. She is an adult and a human, and has no excuse. They CHOOSE to act this way. I know a guy in real life and he commented he just doesnt expect anything more from them and that is all they are capable of. Bull s~~~. They could CHOOSE to act responsible and polite, but they dont. This is precisely what p~~~es me off. A seeming inability to be introspective or care about anyones feelings but their own. I hold them responsible for their actions. They can choose otherwise

Regarding an inability to love a woman: Ill admit Ive considered the same question. I dont think I have some innate inability to love a woman, more so that she herself will have to be lovable NOT just because shes some cute girl I want to kiss and f~~~. She will have to act and earn love.

Resident cynic.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

I hear you guys, and agree. Let’s say, just for the sake of argument, that there actually exist such a thing as unicorns and one -could- find one if prepared to spend several years looking and was lucky: it’s just too much work for too little reward at a too high risk, even in the extremely rare functioning relations~~~. This thing where I can come when I want and have free time besides work where I can do what I want without consulting or even telling another person, clean my home when I feel like it, and spend my money on what -I- want without having to hear about what they -really- should have been spent on.

Nah, giving all that up for companionship and some sex? Now THAT would be madness in its purest form!
Only possible exception I can think of would be if I stumbled over a nawalt that would be happy in meeting up every other weekend or so and didn’t pester me with phone calls or text messages every other day, but that is even less likely than winning €20000000 in the lottery so I don’t really think about it.

[Anonymous 18]

@blackpill

How you see women is a moot point.

How you see yourself and your worth is the key.

For theoretically it is possible for a man to fall below his own moral threshold and lose self-respect that all women then become relationship worthy. All women are then technically capable of improving and fulfilling that man’s life that he failed to in his own ways.

That’s why mgtow isn’t a philosophy for a man without aim and goals. At most it will be a fad with its shelf life.

Thats why it will never take hold among the masses. Most men don’t have enough self-respect.

None of it is directed as a personal attack.

So the potential to love a female is inverse to your potential to love yourself.

And we are not talking about jizz love.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

What would happen if there was no thing such as love?

What would you think of women then?

What women offer:

1. Love

2. Sex (vigina)

Now unfortunately one of the above is false. Love is just chemicals sloshing around your brain. As with all rushes …. the chemicals subside …. then what ya got?

So we are left with the simple fact of sex and vigina.

You want lasting love, respect & companionship …..

Buy a puppy ?

Said with love & compassion.

[DethklokParticipant 153]

A huge problem is people force things at the wrong time for the wrong reasons. Society tells you to have a partner, get married, work tons of hours, buy a house, have a child, etc etc. Why do we force things? Because we, or the partner wants to be equal or better to everyone else. Human nature is always wanting to keep up with society.

Never force anything. Never let anyone pressure you. Accept new changes in life when you are ready, and they are the right choices.

Women are especially difficult. With feminism telling them they deserved xyz, men & society giving them everything they want, other women bragging about what they have, and female hormones playing their part, just to name a few things, it adds unbearable stress. Although, there are some out there that are different. They aren’t always lookers either. They are very hard to find. Many of the “happily married” men will tell you that you are in a better position than they are.

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

I’ve learned at a young age that a woman’s love isn’t really real unless, as someone said earlier, buying a puppy/dog. That animal will love you past death!! I realized that they throw all these bulls~~~ emotions and suppose stuff that they will do and they never come through. Why then should I be jealous of those “happy” couples? Its a facade, all of it

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

This isnt a direct reaponse to your question (although I did include one at the bottom) but what you stated below is something that has occurred to me because I have a female family members I have to deal with. So keep in mind my response is in that context: female family member I would like to maintain a relationship with.

it’s honestly hard for me to see females as actual humans instead of walking vaginas.

When I have a female family member I obviously love, but get so p~~~ed at her behavior I dont even want to talk to her, this is what bothers me. Obviously I dont see her as a walking vagina and I do see her as human. Here is where it gets interesting:

Some RP guys act as though they simply accept the fact that women behave the way they do and dont let it bother them. Thats fine, but when it comes to a female adult who is my family member, I hold her fully responsible

for her behavior. She is an adult and a human, and has no excuse. They CHOOSE to act this way. I know a guy in real life and he commented he just doesnt expect anything more from them and that is all they are capable of. Bull s~~~. They could CHOOSE to act responsible and polite, but they dont. This is precisely what p~~~es me off. A seeming inability to be introspective or care about anyones feelings but their own. I hold them responsible for their actions. They can choose otherwise

Regarding an inability to love a woman: Ill admit Ive considered the same question. I dont think I have some innate inability to love a woman, more so that she herself will have to be lovable NOT just because shes some cute girl I want to kiss and f~~~. She will have to act and earn love.

that could be true about having to find a lovable woman… But it is also a two way street. Even if I found a lovable girl, I’m probably too closed off and emotionally unavailable to even consider her…. Which would make her want me even more from my experience though, so i guess it could happen.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Scandinavian wrote:

I hear you guys, and agree. Let’s say, just for the sake of argument, that there actually exist such a thing as unicorns and one -could- find one if prepared to spend several years looking and was lucky: it’s just too much work for too little reward at a too high risk, even in the extremely rare functioning relations~~~. This thing where I can come when I want and have free time besides work where I can do what I want without consulting or even telling another person, clean my home when I feel like it, and spend my money on what -I- want without having to hear about what they -really- should have been spent on.

Nah, giving all that up for companionship and some sex? Now THAT would be madness in its purest form!
Only possible exception I can think of would be if I stumbled over a nawalt that would be happy in meeting up every other weekend or so and didn’t pester me with phone calls or text messages every other day, but that is even less likely than winning €20000000 in the lottery so I don’t really think about it.

it really isn’t worth it. When I f~~~ a chick, I want her to leave ASAP and watch hulu by myself lol

[Anonymous 3]

BlackPill wrote:

that could be true about having to find a lovable woman… But it is also a two way street. Even if I found a lovable girl, I’m probably too closed off and emotionally unavailable to even consider her…. Which would make her want me even more from my experience though, so i guess it could happen.

The funny thing is though, if you do end up catching feelings for her, she would become turned off by it and begin to look out for other men.

Men have romantic love fantasies where the girl is loving and honorable. Women have rape fantasies where the guy is some sociopathic savage brute. The two are in no way compatible. So either you remain emotionally unavailable to “game” her into loving you, or you love her and she becomes disgusted by it. Either way, it’s crap lol.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Men have romantic love fantasies where the girl is loving and honorable. Women have rape fantasies where the guy is some sociopathic savage brute. The two are in no way compatible.

Those wise words cannot be repeated often enough.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Anonymous wrote:

@blackpill

How you see women is a moot point.

How you see yourself and your worth is the key.

For theoretically it is possible for a man to fall below his own moral threshold and lose self-respect that all women then become relationship worthy. All women are then technically capable of improving and fulfilling that man’s life that he failed to in his own ways.

That’s why mgtow isn’t a philosophy for a man without aim and goals. At most it will be a fad with its shelf life.

Thats why it will never take hold among the masses. Most men don’t have enough self-respect.

None of it is directed as a personal attack.

So the potential to love a female is inverse to your potential to love yourself.

And we are not talking about jizz love.

truth. Relationships require sacrifice and even maybe groveling at a females feet which I am way beyond.

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Want my wife?

maybe only for a night…are you offering?

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Anonymous wrote:

BlackPill wrote:

that could be true about having to find a lovable woman… But it is also a two way street. Even if I found a lovable girl, I’m probably too closed off and emotionally unavailable to even consider her…. Which would make her want me even more from my experience though, so i guess it could happen.

The funny thing is though, if you do end up catching feelings for her, she would become turned off by it and begin to look out for other men.

Men have romantic love fantasies where the girl is loving and honorable. Women have rape fantasies where the guy is some sociopathic savage brute. The two are in no way compatible. So either you remain emotionally unavailable to “game” her into loving you, or you love her and she becomes disgusted by it. Either way, it’s crap lol.

thats my point! It’s f~~~in madness! I have never been so attractive to females since I’ve gone mgtow and they won’t leave me alone… But I’m not doing it to be attractive. I genuinely want the majority of them to fuk the fuk right off

[OldBillParticipant]

You have the potential to love a woman, Blackpill. All that you lack is the stupidity necessary to put yourself in that situation.

There are no unicorns. There are no women worth loving. There are no women trustworthy enough to allow yourself to be that vulnerable towards them.

It’s not a moral failing on the part of women. It’s simply part of the way they think and that thinking is overwhelming abetted by our culture, our government, and our legal system. If our society applauded, rewarded, and excused heroin addiction in women as much as it currently applauds, rewards, and excuses c~~~-hopping, unfaithfulness, irresponsibility, and every other ill in women, we’d see women walking the streets with needles in their arms and dime bags in their purses.

By all means interact with women and have relationships with them, but only so so on your own terms.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 5]

Falling in love is an indulgence. It’s the ultimate ego masturbation.

[HitmanParticipant]

yo blackpill , what’s up bro ? i know your’e a young guy , have fun , but i gotta tell you imo , eventually there comes along a woman who will wipe your hard-drive clean , re-boot your brain ( for a while ) , the fireworks kick off in your head and you will ” be in love ” ..wisdom , knowledge , all fall to the wayside ..it runs it’s course , like a fever ..then….the let-down..yeah , AWALT …and you will remember .. it happens to the best of men …LEARNING from it is the KEY ! i guess i’m sayin to not overthink it ..unless you want to prevent it ..entirely different story then…

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

Hitman wrote:

yo blackpill , what’s up bro ? i know your’e a young guy , have fun , but i gotta tell you imo , eventually there comes along a woman who will wipe your hard-drive clean , re-boot your brain ( for a while ) , the fireworks kick off in your head and you will ” be in love ” ..wisdom , knowledge , all fall to the wayside ..it runs it’s course , like a fever ..then….the let-down..yeah , AWALT …and you will remember .. it happens to the best of men …LEARNING from it is the KEY ! i guess i’m sayin to not overthink it ..unless you want to prevent it ..entirely different story then…

that’s honestly a scary thought….

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