I have a good friend of mine from work, (lets name him Sean 32M) we’ve been good friends for years now. Sean was married to a friend of my sister’s friend (lets name here Lucy 27F). Prior to everything happening they had been together for 6 years and married for a year and a half. Sean worked his ass off to provide for his then wife; doing things such as letting working at a crappy job for years just provide for her when she didn’t have a job, helping pay her car note and even buying (actually renting) just so they wouldn’t have to live in his crappy apartment anymore.
About a month into living in the new house Lucy decides she want to go to a local seminary school. Now the school she choose happens to be fairly liberal and is such with the student body (which is kinda ironic seeing that it’s in the middle of the bible belt). About another month in to taking classes there, she has all these new friends that she hangs out with a lot which happen all sorts of feminist, free-love hippie types. Quickly, I started seeing Lucy go through various personal changes as a result of running with that crowd (different wardrobe, a new snot-green hair color, kept her hair much shorter). As a result many of her family, old friends (sister included) and Sean, felt like they don’t know who she is anymore.
Now things really came to a boiling point when Sean told me that Lucy wanted to be Polyamorous something that she has NEVER expressed interest in before in all their years of dating but now all of the sudden expresses a deep interest in. Sean told me he reluctantly agreed because he just want wanted to make her happy (BIG MISTAKE). Within a few weeks Lucy had a date which from what I heard consisted of Lucy going out to dinner, and the going back to the other guys place to watch a movie to which they fell asleep during the movie (Im calling BS they Probably F**ked). That really upset Sean and caused a huge argument between the two. Later on that week Sean calls me sobbing that while he was at work Lucy took her things, the dog, Closed the joint account, and was staying with friends. He tried to talk to her but got a complete silent treatment from her. After trying to her some more he got a text from one of her new “friends” saying which told him to stop texting and gave him a number to a hotline. Later that week my sister said that Lucy said that Sean displayed a lot of red flags and was thinking about leaving him (again I call BS on the red flags). The last I heard the two of them sat down and Lucy said that she wanted a relationship without boundaries or rules to which Sean couldn’t agree too and they will be divorcing.
My take on all this: it amazes me that she is really going to let her friends convince her that Riding the CC is worth more than saving her marriage. She had a loving husband that provided for her for years and a home to go to but is going to give that up. Is that what SJW’s are doing now? Ruining marriages? Guess what sweetie? You’re going to wake up one day and realize that your approaching the wall and that you might’ve made a mistake and wish to go back to that husband you had. There might not be anything to go back to because While you’re out CC riding, your ex-husband’s going to get introduced to a thing called MGTOW…………
Guardian-1 2 years ago.
