I was just at a club, things are the same, but I see them differently

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Dear friends,
I have an experience Id like to share with you.
It will be a long one, but I hope you read it thru.

Disclaimer: I am 32, Had 2 GF, both broke my spirit, now single for about 10 years.

Ill keep it as short as possible:

I was celebrating with 1 male friend and 3 girl friends the discovery of the collision of two black holes (the dudes father is part of the team that discovered it) and the girls wanted to go to a club to dance.
I said no to that proposition many times before, this time, I decide to go with them.

One is the girlfriend of the dude (and a good friend of mine), one wants to get on with me and is a pain in the ass, the third I wanted to get something going but she stopped paying attention to me when I would not sleep with her on 3rd time she was in my home with me alone ( we were there, I just didn’t want to have sex with someone I knew so little about).

So, we get into this club, its packed. music is oriented for women, quality of sound sucks, drinks are expensive, you get the picture.

I spend some time pretending Im having fun, and the girl who is interested in me hard time, asks me if we should get something to drink.
while we are waiting in a LONG and wide crowd at the bar, a girl catches my attention. She is a carbon copy of the Blonde girl in Star Trek, Alice Eve.

She notices me and initiates talk (while the other girl is behind me).
It doesn’t go anywhere since I dont follow up with it.

After going back to the other two friends, we spend some time trying to dance (too packed for that), and this girl with her friend, get very close to us, and she starts breaking into our circle and dancing against me.

So much so, that I am grabbing her waist and dancing with her.
two of the girls look at both her and me with very severe looks.

You can guess who.
I think I am getting lucky, I think Im a badass, but my ego was about to take a big dip.

As soon as this girl gets back to her friend, all 3 girls of my group decide that this place is no longer nice, and they want to go somewhere else.

So I tell my friend, that they should go ahead, and Ill be right behind them (my idea of course is to get the number of this really nice chick).

As soon as I come back to her and her friend alone, she flat out ignores me.

Here is what I think happened (my point of view ofc):

It was a power struggle between the girls.
One wanted to prove she could take me away from my friends, the others wanted to prove that I would follow them.

I was not the object of desire of any of them, just a prize that they wanted to take away from each other.

I decided that I would do better going home and writing this, while my memory is fresh.

And while I did have 2 beers and 2 whiskeys, I could still see clearly what was going on.

My point is this: be careful, most of the time you are the prey and they are the hunter, dont let them fool you into thinking you are the one getting lucky.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Great observation.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Always stay Mr. cool or rather Mr. ice cold mgtow for what I know.

That’s exactly what I did the other day, when I was at some club (for chillin’ out and having some bevies), where I had been a few times before (but not all that often) obviously all by myself (I don’t need no so-called “social proof” at all).

So I spotted a woman who I vaguely know (met her briefly only a few times) and she is way older than me, has hit the wall alright. She spotted me first or so I made it look as if by completely ignoring her outright.

By the time she notices me and pinches me I say “hi” with a brief hug and she almost immediately goes like: “So, who are you looking for in here tonight…?” and I was bluntly responding: “Oh, I don’t look for anybody…” and needless to say I kept ignoring her for the remains of that night, total mgtow style.

That’s the way to go guys…

PS.: Happy 2nd international mgtow day, everybody; just returned from some bar visit, where I strategically and discretely ended up placing some flyers for our website in the bar area in the gents loo area and on my way home on some public transport. Great night out.

Oh and in about 16-17 hours I am going to treat myself for a solo dinner at a restaurant. I got my own reason to do that (work related jubilee) hence it surely has nothing to do with valentines day whatsoever, he he.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 5]

CatsPaw wrote:

It was a power struggle between the girls.

You nailed it.

The same mindset was pointed out in another recent topic

The sad loney woman rants

It was an article where women claimed/blamed men for their being single and childless, claiming it was their own female nobleness, not their hypergamous c~~~iness, that was the root cause of the problem

OldBill wrote:

It’s not children she covets, because she could have had children at any time she chose. Instead, it was having children with someone other women covet that was her real desire. Children weren’t the goal for her. The envy of other women was her goal and children were just a means to that end.

OldBill nailed it too.

[RoyDalParticipant]

CatsPaw wrote:

So, we get into this club, its packed. music is oriented for women, quality of sound sucks, drinks are expensive, you get the picture.

Yep.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Yep, what an astute observation. Just a medal, an inanimate object. And women complain about objectification. Psh. Anyway, this is yet another reason for MGTOW. I don’t have time for childish games like this, being led on. Just flat out ignore these skanks, that ought to shatter their fragile little egos.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

One of the reasons I refuse to go to night clubs is I refuse to actually pay others to manipulate me.

I find some normal bars to be okay. Go in and sit down, have a drink, and enjoy the quiet, along with the relaxing music. No looking for a date, just want to keep to myself. Quite the opposite of a night club.

[AttonParticipant]

Juveniles what more can be said.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10910]

You should see how the piranhas act when you wear a wedding ring. It’s about making another woman look bad.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Stupid c~~~s, fix their hair, put on makeup, get dress, go to the club, and ignore guys. All for their, girls night out, bulls~~~. And, yes that is what she was doing.

Next time, be in-different. You’ll wipe away the bulls~~~, quite, quickly.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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