I was a slow learner…but

[Anonymous 0]

there is a happy ending. Hello brothers, this intro is long overdue.

There isn’t much to say that hasn’t been described before but I’ll try to keep it short. I’ve been reading here for a few weeks and I saw the Youtube video where they guy catches his wife cheating with a drone. That was exactly me 10 years ago except I used a keylogger on her computer. Same reaction, same rage at the realization that all that time was wasted and lives ruined. And for what? An old high school boyfriend that I never knew existed – all for temporarily rekindling those feelers and some c~~~.

Around 6-7 years ago I found a MGTOW forum wile searching for info on reasons why wives f~~~ around. I’ve looked for them again but haven’t been able to find that forum (not sure what happened?). I posted there once in awhile but mostly lurked, and my favorite posters were systems1082 and Spock’s Disciple. I read everything I could on the web about cheating wives’ motivations, mid-life crises, etc, but always came back to those old forums. The Red Pill was extremely bitter for me, especially since it was nothing like I was told to expect from women back in my younger days. It was then that things started making sense as I kept reading about these marriages that seemed to follow a pattern. I was 35 and at the top of my career, new construction house built in an upscale neighborhood, new SUV for her, and an old Honda for me to commute. I know now there was no coincidence and I’ve seen the same happen to my friends. In their mid 30’s or so they became ripe for the harvest.

I’ll post more later since I want to talk about the long term relationship I left about a month ago. The best part? No marriage, no divorce, no alimony or child support, and no common law marriage in my state. After she finally moved out I had the first entire weekend to myself in many years. I sat at the kitchen table just thinking about freedom and then I cooked up some mac n cheese on the stove. I ate it right out of the pot while looking out over my property – every bite was a f~~~ing banquet!

I’m in my mid 40’s now in good health and finally back to the salary level I was 10 years ago. I have a beautiful piece of property, paid off truck, and the VERY LAST child support payment hits the birth vessel’s account on the 20th of this month. Since I went back to my (naturally) frugal ways I’ll be able to retire one day.

Good to be part of something that’s bigger than any one of us – yet we still keep all our individual strengths. I hope more men find their way here to get the information they need to make better decisions with the big head. I look forward to learning from all of you.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Thanks for the nice intro.

You’re still doing LTRs? Don’t get trapped again.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[BoskParticipant 111]

Welcome Sir,

I was reading your post in my kitchen and laughing as it is also my first free day since 23 years.
They all f~~~ up around 35, poor princesses having too much money and time …

Not divorced but physically separated and still paying bills as previously but no difference with child support (less expensive I think…) and I keep my great standard of living. She even wanted me to go on f~~~ing her on occasions but I said no and it was not easy because she’s still awesome.

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Mitchell Gant, great intro.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

So, you’ve been reading MGTOW content for six or seven years, but only a month ago you were living with a woman? Apparently it didn’t sink in…

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 0]

You’re right, slow learner here. Better late than never and hopefully I can help others through my experiences and observation.

[Anonymous 1]

Hello, Can you link the forum you wrote about? the one that you found 6-7 years ago, thank you.

[Anonymous 0]

I can’t find it. Back when I was going through my divorce and started researching I came across articles like the one below. Also spent time at nomarriage.com and they eventually led me to that old forum. Another great poster was outcastsuperstar. The more I think about it it may have been before the term MGTOW was commonly used.
http://www.dumpyourwifenow.com/2007/02/08/ny-times-puts-lipstick-on-a-pig/

[Y_Participant 4591]

Nice. I think you have nailed it. Just keep going the way you are and remember the evil in females never sleeps. Seriously.

Welcome and enjoy the forums.

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