Her: Life is tough…Happiness is a farce for some.
Me: Naturally.
Her: What s your life like?
Me: Could you be more specific? 34 years are hard to cover in a few sentences 🙂
Her: How is your life? Is it filled with special someone s foe whom you have immense love? Or are you some one who have one night stands?
Her: Sorry, I got personal with you too early..
Me: It’s okay. I am kind of open about those things anyway. I have a special sub in my life, a small family and a small circle of close friends. I don’t do one night stands often. Too much effort for too little pleasure.
Her: Your family knows about your sub?
Me: Yes, as it happens my parents and my sister know about her.
Her: Wow, you are so lucky…
Me: I suppose. I don’t exactly require their approval since I don’t live under their roof anymore. It’s kind of trivial where my own happiness is concerned.
Her: That’s a point. From where I come from, it’s engrained to “do what’s right” with the fine print of “With the world, so dont be an outcast”. Life threw me some unpredictable curveb~~~~. I am trying to deal with it and hold myself up high.
Me: USA right? Yeah, your culture is odd like that. Super-conformist compared to what we Europeans are used to. We’re more or less taught to question everything and carve our own ways.
Her: No. I am from India, living over here…
Me: Oh allright, so you grew up in India and now live in the USA?
Her: Yes, that’s a part of my life.
Me: And would you consider yourself happier now?
Her: According to me, I guess. According to others, I should be scorned….
Me: For what?
Her: For how I find my happiness these days..
Me: And why is that? I for one am done pleasing the religious and cultural morons of this world. I’m done with political correctness as well. I can imagine life is hard when your parents are caught up in poverty or culturally opressed.
Her: I want to break free, yes. But it would complicate things so much that I would lose everything. It’s a vicious bond that is out to ruin only me and someone I love more than life itself. I am going through a divorce and have a three year old with me..
Me: That three year old needs you harder then you need your personal freedom. Isn’t that what you conciously gave up in exchange for parenthood?
Her: Parenthood needs two people, the man and woman. “man” here is my abusive, never home husband who neglected both of us. When i mustered the courage to live for myself and her, I am met with the cultural nonsense on how I should kill my individual self for the sake of my marriage and my daughter. That isnt right. It’s then, i found someone who secretly supported me but started to mean more. Taboo, forbidden..more like “I want to take and have what ever I get my hands on”
Me: At some point less then 4 years ago you decided that man should be the father of your children. It’s not my place to judge really.
Her: It was a horrendous mistake that I have to live with everyday…Something I want to fix now, but it’s hard to be alone and strong. I had this old-school thinking that bringing in a child would change him, I was horribly wrong..
Me: So you fell in love with someone, tried to change him and saw a high-stakes social experiment blow up in your face. It is exactly what I have come to expect of modern marriage. I’m an unapologetic MGTOW. Are you sure you want to discuss your marriage problems with me? The courts in your countries are gynocentric, feminist even, and will pick your side anyway. So it’s hard to sympathize for me unless I was a witness of the abuse.
Her: I dont want you to sympathize. I want someone to just listen to me. IF anyone found out that I even got close to another man, I would lose everything. The divorce is messy, he’s making it messy. I dont care what you think of the courts or whose side it would take. I am more worried about my child and me. There’s a difference.
Me: Allright. I’ll “listen”.
Her: That’s such a slap to my face…It’s like a favor..
Me: Because it is. You literally told me that you don’t care what I think. So I get to be your emotional tampon.
Her: Wow, guess that’s what I signed up for here…
Me: Has nothing to do with [WEBSITE]. You just picked a Red Pill guy while what you’d require is some Blue Pill feminist.
Her: Okay.
Me: Nothing personal. Consider my perspective. A 30+ single mom from some place I’ll never visit anyway wants me to listen to her divorce story while at the same time indicating she does not care about my opinion on the subject matter. Just wants me to “listen”.
Meanwhile, I pay 31% tax so the State can keep handing out wellfare, while the divorce courts are heavily biased towards women. 70% of all divorces are initiated by the woman and in most situation the man has to pay alimony.
Get my scepticism now? I’m too aware of your privileges to feel genuinely sorry for you.
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