I thought I was alone.

[TheMuleParticipant 29]

I stumbled across a YouTube clip regarding this topic and as I watched it I was wondering what MGTOW stood for.  I had never heard that term before in my life, until now.

After I finished watching the first clip I viewed a second, a third…and I found myself watching almost 2 hours of clips about the topic.  I feel that I have finally found some people of a like mind that might understand what I have ranted about in the past.  I have been told that I just don’t know what I am talking about…women aren’t that bad,…feminism isn’t out of control, etc.  I’ve heard many excuses over the years as to how ‘not’ finding a woman to develop a relationship with was my fault.  I was thinking I was an anomaly in society.

Here is my story,

I was in Secondary School (high school) when I met a girl I developed a, what I thought was, deep relationship with.  We would go to movies, I would pay for them.  We would do our homework together.  I would drop almost anything I was doing at the time to help her out with whatever she might have needed.  People actually referred to us, to me at least, as a couple because we spent so much time together.  About 6 months out of school, we both went to a party with some friends and after everyone was thoroughly plastered, and she was a flirty type of girl, her and my best friend disappeared for a while.  I lost track of them until the next day when she came over to my apartment with tears in her eyes and bruises on her body.  She told me the story of how rough my friend got and I got so mad I found him and broke is nose.  Needless to say…that friendship was over.

For a few months after that I comforted her and consoled her whenever she needed it, as a good friend should do.  I asked her out after a little while, to which she said she just isn’t ready.  New Years was coming around and I invited her to spend it with me at a party that my family usually throws.  We had plenty of liquor and a big bonfire and the sort.  Good times, usually.  She was her usual flirty self and my brother started spending a lot of attention to her.  They ended up disappearing and so I went searching for them.  I found them in a bedroom together going at it.  I spent years avoiding family after that.

Eventually I ran into her again in a store and we started talking…she had met some guy, had a couple kids and he dropped her like a bad habit.  Then she asked if I ever wanted to get together some time and have drinks.  I kept thinking…’You have got to be f’in kidding me!’  Every relationship I have ever tried to have has turned out in a similar way.  I have given up trying to find a woman that can be faithful or truthful.  I hope that women realize they have screwed things up and start to come clean about their mistakes.

Good to find you all,

TheMule

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hi Mule.

Enjoyed you intro. Happy you found your way here. No, you’re not an anomaly. Not by a long shot. Every second MGTOW says something almost identical. We are men you never met, and that’s how you know its’ not in your imagination. It can be almost jaw dropping a realization as if a magician asked you to think of a word…. and then he pulled the word out of a sealed envelope to show you it was written and stamped long ago.

They sure do work hard to make you think “I just don’t know what I am talking about…women aren’t that bad,…feminism isn’t out of control, etc” don’t they.

Admitting you’re exactly right is their greatest fear.
They can’t AFFORD for you to know.

TheMule wrote:

Eventually I ran into her again in a store and we started talking…she had met some guy, had a couple kids and he dropped her like a bad habit.  Then she asked if I ever wanted to get together some time and have drinks.  I kept thinking…’You have got to be f’in kidding me!’  Every relationship I have ever tried to have has turned out in a similar way.

Oh yes. I just posted an actual snapshot of an email a while back from a girl I knew 15 years ago. She never let on she was interested, but she once came out and said “OK I’ll go to a movie with you, but no funny business”. I LOVED that, because I knew what was coming. Now 15 years later after 6 years of zero communications, the same chick signed her emails “XXX”, “I love you“… and “i trust you’re still as handsome as ever” and other s~~~ she NEVER said to me in person… even though she had plenty of opportunity. Are you f~~~ing kidding me is right.

I gave her the classic MGTOW response. Go away.
There goes the entire theory that MGTOW are men without options.
It’s time for women to admit “the options” are not all that.

Welcome to MGTOW. And enjoy!… when your phone starts ringing off the hook with calls from every woman you were ever remotely nice to. After 20 years, I got a text from a chick I hadn’t seen since the 10th grade. “OMG!! We should totally get together! Are you seeing anyone?”. Unbelievable.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

I hope that women realize they have screwed things up and start to come clean about their mistakes.

You can hope but don’t place money on it. Welcome Aboard

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[TheMuleParticipant 29]

I think the worst thing about feminism itself…is the power women have to just throw out trump up charges and accusations at any given man, just because they don’t like the way they look at them.

I love the female form, its beautiful.  An appreciative look or glance does not mean that I want to rape them.  I actually go out of my way to avoid women at work now to because I have been accused at, and then fired from, jobs that I was really good at and enjoyed.  Just because a female felt that I shouldn’t be around her anymore.  They get the full benefit of the doubt and men are treated like scum on the bottom of a pond.

Completely pathetic how they have all the power in society to do these things.  I just saw the rant from Alexandra Blue on YouTube…apparently she has never considered the fact that women abuse the rights they fought for.  They should have the right to vote, they should have the right to work in whatever job they want to work in, for equal pay.  They shouldn’t be abusing the rights for revenge or vendettas against random men they come across.

That’s another complete (and I don’t know if I am allowed to say this, everyone else seems to) bulls~~~ situation that feminists seem to ignore because it fits their agenda.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

TheMule wrote:

I think the worst thing about feminism itself…is the power women have to just throw out trump up charges and accusations at any given man, just because they don’t like the way they look at them.

That’s not “power”. That’s WEAKNESS.

I have “the power” to hit any woman back who hits me first. But that’s not power either. That would be a moment of weakness. It takes much more strength to NOT hit her back. Women understand nothing about “strength” or “power”. Power is when we have every justification or ability to do something, and we don’t.

“I could… but I won’t”.

The strongest nations on Earth don’t need to fire a single nuke. Because they don’t need to.
To a woman, strength and power is “I CAN!!! AND I WILL!!! YOU BASTARD!!!!”

But that’s not power or strength. That’s weakness. That’s an open admission of inferiority.
This is the equivalent of a toddler playing with a loaded gun. Horrifying.

Women who use this kind of “power” are f~~~ing coward scum.

/video/false-rape-thwarted-by-police-camera/

That’s a woman thinking she has “power” to destroy a working law officer’s life and reputation.
Just pay the f~~~ing fine, you little insect. And don’t drive without a f~~~ing license. Child.

This is what a western female thinks being a “strong woman” is all about.

I could. But I WON’T. That’s how you “win” and really p~~~ her off.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

Welcome to the reality of it all Mule, we are your brethren. Some of us took a lot longer, and got burned far worse than you have to get here. I’m glad we don’t have to feel alone anymore. It sucks thinking that you’re the only broken person in an alleged perfect world. Truth is we’re the ones that are right and everyone else is wrong. Once you realize this your explore your options and choose a course of action. You need help figuring it out, just ask….

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[KeymasterKeymaster]

That’s another complete (and I don’t know if I am allowed to say this, everyone else seems to) bulls~~~ situation that feminists seem to ignore because it fits their agenda.

This isn’t like the rest of the world. You’re “allowed” to SAY whatever you want. How awesome is that.
Anyone has a problem with that, needs to know the difference between THOUGHTS, OPINIONS and ACTIONS.

Believing you’re not “allowed” to say something is what feminists (and the rest of the world) will tell you.

This year I didn’t visit family for Christmas. I told my mom “Christmas is for kids”.
She said “DONT SAY THAT!!!!”.

Don’t SAY that. She’s telling a grown man he can’t SAY something. She had to have it explained that I will SAY whatever I want. It’s just another woman telling a man what he can’t say. If a man’s not careful, he will listen to that s~~~. Here’s hoping you enjoy MGTOW and you give yourself the gift of being able to say ANYTHING you want.

…. except an endorsement or violence. Because we are not Jezebel.
Endorsing violence is for feminists.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Jousting SticksParticipant 4]

Hi Mule and welcome. There is one trait that most men have that they don’t. They know it and they prey on it. They are able to manipulate us because of it, if you let them. It is loyalty. Here she is now seeing you as a meal ticket when in the past she has done everything to you to show you that she doesn’t really care about you at all. She is searching for that trace of loyalty  (or duty to a friend) that you may have to and for her. That is her hook. It is not abouther power, it’s about your self respect. Well Done.

[Jousting SticksParticipant 4]

Hi Mule and welcome. There is one trait that most men have that they don’t. They know it and they prey on it. They are able to manipulate us because of it, if you let them. It is loyalty. Here she is now seeing you as a meal ticket when in the past she has done everything to you to show you that she doesn’t really care about you at all. She is searching for that trace of loyalty  (or duty to a friend) that you may have to and for her. That is her hook. It is not about her power, it’s about your self respect. Well Done.

[…Spectator 1165]

so guys thinking about getting married now…run before it is too late.

 

 

 

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

Welcome Mule,

I was in your same boat. I gave up after getting used three times in three different ways. For about 5 years after I questioned myself, I felt shame, I felt all of the pressures of society telling me I was wrong, I was broken. During that time I could have used an organized MGTOW forum or something to show me I wasn’t alone. Then I stopped caring about that even. Three months ago I discovered MGTOW and have joined the community in earnest. I will be honest, learning of MGTOW was a relief to me, it gave me some validation because now I see it wasn’t just me.

[RennieParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Hi Mule. Enjoyed you intro. Happy you found your way here. No, you’re not an anomaly. Not by a long shot. Every second MGTOW says something almost identical. We are men you never met, and that’s how you know its’ not in your imagination. It can be almost jaw dropping a realization as if a magician asked you to think of a word…. and then he pulled the word out of a sealed envelope to show you it was written and stamped long ago. They sure do work hard to make you think “I just don’t know what I am talking about…women aren’t that bad,…feminism isn’t out of control, etc” don’t they. Admitting you’re exactly right is their greatest fear. They can’t AFFORD for you to know.

<div class=”d4p-bbt-quote-title”>TheMule wrote:</div>
Eventually I ran into her again in a store and we started talking…she had met some guy, had a couple kids and he dropped her like a bad habit. Then she asked if I ever wanted to get together some time and have drinks. I kept thinking…’You have got to be f’in kidding me!’ Every relationship I have ever tried to have has turned out in a similar way.

Oh yes. I just posted an actual snapshot of an email a while back from a girl I knew 15 years ago. She never let on she was interested, but she once came out and said “OK I’ll go to a movie with you, but no funny business”. I LOVED that, because I knew what was coming. Now 15 years later after 6 years of zero communications, the same chick signed her emails “XXX”, “I love you“… and “i trust you’re still as handsome as ever” and other s~~~ she NEVER said to me in person… even though she had plenty of opportunity. Are you f~~~ing kidding me is right. I gave her the classic MGTOW response. Go away. There goes the entire theory that MGTOW are men without options. It’s time for women to admit “the options” are not all that. Welcome to MGTOW. And enjoy!… when your phone starts ringing off the hook with calls from every woman you were ever remotely nice to. After 20 years, I got a text from a chick I hadn’t seen since the 10th grade. “OMG!! We should totally get together! Are you seeing anyone?”. Unbelievable.

I’m somewhat worried that will happen to me someday as well, but I have prepared my defenses against it. 🙂

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