I still have your birthday card if you want it.

[ArmstrongParticipant 10]

Basically, it started as friends with benefits. From the get go it was clear that i did not want anything serious. Even though we never made it official we have been having casual sex for the past year and so far has spoiled me with cloth, shoes, glasses and i can go on…. keep in mind i don’t do the same for her. The month of February was my birthday month and from the looks of it she had purchased the present before i ended the “relationship”. Ironically, last month February was when I found MGTOW (Best present) and decided to take the red pill, with that being said i ended all communication with her and with booty calls as well. On the other hand, I’ve been focused on my business and myself like never before. Anyways, it was hard for me to make this decision because many would tell me she was a keeper and fine looking. However, in my mind there is no NOWALT. I Have not text or called her since we parted our own ways in good terms (About 1 month and a half now) but she text me yesterday and i have not replied as of yet. Any advice is welcomed even though i think i know the answer.

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

Welcome to your new found freedom brother. You really know the answer to that question already. Ignore all text/communication from her.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

you must have a real high SMV for her to jump through the hoops like that.
Could you just tell her – from now on – no presents – and continue with the casual sex thing?
but yeah – she’s trying to trap you

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[BigDParticipant 3024]

I’d walk away if I were you. She ain’t helping you pay your bills and there is nothing she can get you that you can’t buy yourself, even her vagina.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Armstrong wrote:

hard for me to make this decision

Best news is you don’t need to “make a decision” (when it comes to women) and you can take each day as it comes.

SHE does.

You can’t make a decision even if you want to – just like you can’t stay married to her if you wanted to – because she can end it with a change of her mind and on a flippant whim… and she will expect you to accept that.

Man thinks “I need to make a decision and stick to it” and he pressures himself to do that. Woman thinks “I FEEL like I could be with you forever……. right now”. And the next day she’s getting banged by your best friend for no apparent reason.

Women expect men to make a decision and men think we have to. But she won’t. So why would you? You could decide to be with her – and be 100% solid on it. Tomorrow she could just as easily text you and say “It’s not you it’s me”.

Women are temporary pleasures at best. Their decision to stick around is as random as a dice roll. You don’t need to make a decision. It’s probably better if you don’t.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

The word NO is equivalent to the word resolve. When you’re resolute in your decision, wavering and waffling is not going to happen. No means NO, anything else is a practice in being a yes-man, or should I say a yes-ma’am! Aim to kill, and squeeze the trigger…

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Forget the red pill OP, forget the manosphere, forget everything you’ve read, and just ask yourself one question:

Do YOU enjoy spending time with her?

If so, then to dump her because a bunch of internet guys are screaming “AWALT!!!” seems, at best, a little premature, at worst, dogmatic.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[UntamedParticipant]

Armstrong wrote:

From the get go it was clear that i did not want anything serious.

If you say it was clear then I don’t see what the problem is, from your point of view at least. You were honest about it and she heard it from your mouth. Now whether she understood it or believed it isn’t your problem.
You made the decision to end the casual f~~~s. You’re a free man as well as she’s a free woman and you don’t owe her anything, not even an explantation or a call back. It’s up to you to see if you want to text or call her but I advise you to stick to what you are most comfortable with. Think about YOURSELF because you can bet your ass she’ll think about herself first.
Her buying all that crap for you is a way to guilt trip you into keeping up with your horizontal appointments until you become so guilt-ridden that you won’t give yourself the choice to throw her in the garbage.
Get in tune with what you really want and go for it without doubting yourself. Self-doubt will leave you paralyzed and vulnerable to the suggestions of someone who doesn’t have you best interest at heart.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[OldBillParticipant]

She wants you back in her rotation. Nothing more.

Despite all the gifts and sex, you broke it off with her for good reasons. You now need to remember what those reasons were. They were good reasons then and they are good reasons now.

Because you two ended things on good terms, it wouldn’t hurt to show her some courtesy. Text her back, thank her for her note, tell her you have moved on, and wish her well with her life. Let her know in terms which cannot be misconstrued that you are done with her.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Just go your own way. If she comes and jumps on your dick … fine … just keep going your own way.

Protect your sperm though because she may be ..

Tick tick tick ticking.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Make sure your relationship doesn’t become “friends with consequences”.

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