I seen a dominatrix a while ago

[OldBillParticipant]

lee2222 wrote:

i regret doing it, i think ptsd sounds a bit extreme for seeing a dominatrix but i do think thats what i got

Hold it right there. You think you have PTSD? That is, no professional has actually diagnosed you with PTSD?

If you believe something is troubling you, you need to determine what it actually is first. You can’t guess and you can’t diagnose yourself.

Speak with a therapist. Even a single sessions can be helpful.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 1]

OldBill wrote:

Speak with a therapist. Even a single sessions can be helpful

Old Bill, I’m very sceptical when someone says that.

I don’t believe in getting therapy – and why would anyone in this gynocentrical society?

I know this wasn’t​ aimed at me, but if you know a therapist that can actually help men then you should specifically talk about someone that can help (send a private message as to to who can do that) otherwise your advice is counteractive and fairly pointless.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Old Bill, I’m very sceptical when someone says that.

You don’t quite understand what I was advising Lee to do.

I wanted him to go to a therapist to find out if he actually has a problem. My guess is that he doesn’t and that he’s self-diagnosed himself into a “tizzy”.

I don’t believe in getting therapy – and why would anyone in this gynocentrical society?

I do. I’ve been helped by therapy and, what’s more, I’ve helped men get therapy. That therapy was for combat related PTSD however and not because they ran out of participation trophies at the Junior Hopscotch Semi-Finals.

As with so many things, it depends on what you need therapy for and who you get it from.

Couples counseling and marriage therapy? Don’t waste your time.

Having trouble sleeping because of phantom mortar and rocket attacks? Have to park a certain way and watch a store or restaurant for 15 minutes before you go in? Let’s talk.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 1]

OldBill wrote:

I wanted him to go to a therapist to find out if he actually has a problem.

With respect, most therapists in the western hemisphere, have more issues then their clients.

You could be offering a solution, or you could be furthering a problem – you just don’t know.

Personally, I would never give such a recommendation without the confidence it will be helpful, and with that I’d have to know the therapist is tried, tested and trusted.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

With respect, most therapists in the western hemisphere, have more issues then their clients.

The operative word being “most”.

You could be offering a solution, or you could be furthering a problem – you just don’t know.

Once again, I’m telling him to find whether there is even a problem at all. I’m not telling him to begin a course of therapy.

Personally, I would never give such a recommendation without the confidence it will be helpful, and with that I’d have to know the therapist is tried, tested and trusted.

Personally, I don’t give a f~~~ what you would do.

In the past, however, I’ve helped men with actual problems get help from therapists I knew and trusted.

Whether Lee actually needs help or not is the question here and not whether a specific therapist can provide that help.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Anonymous 1]

OldBill wrote:

The operative word being “most”.

So you’re willing to roll the dice and let someone else take the hit?

OldBill wrote:

Once again, I’m telling him to find whether there is even a problem at all. I’m not telling him to begin a course of therapy

Hopefully by someone who’s qualified to make that assessment.

OldBill wrote:

Personally, I don’t give a f~~~ what you would do.

In the past, however, I’ve helped men with actual problems get help from therapists I knew and trusted

Then why aren’t you doing it now? You can swear at me if you want – you created a topic to correct you on this – don’t swear at me.

OldBill wrote:

Whether Lee actually needs help or not is the question here and not whether a specific therapist can provide that help

But you haven’t provided any specifics, which is exactly the point.

[Anonymous 1]

oldbill, I’m gonna step back and apologise. I’m trying to talk about things I don’t know much about.

I’m going to stop.

[OldBillParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Hopefully by someone who’s qualified to make that assessment.

Which has been my point from the first.

Lee thinks he has PTSD and that self-diagnosis is causing him problems. He needs to find out one way or the other.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[lee2222Participant 14]

i wont keep bumping the thread but i have seen a few therapists, 1 said i have ptsd the other didnt, the therapist who said i had ptsd was a lot nicer person and i believe them more than the other therapist

i get that someone whos been in the army may find it offensive if i have ptsd but it was kind of extreme sexual stuff and even though it was consenting i felt really unsteled by it

it does seem that way in the sense that ive found it hard to finction ever since it happened, from what ive read it could be just im obsessing about something too much but i find it hard not too is uppose

[lee2222Participant 14]

i guess i just hate it because the woman was a total bitch and i feel gutted that i let her dominate me, i guess i got to get over it but i find it hard

someone on my introduction thread recommened the rewind technique for ptsd, so im gonna give that a go asap and ill let people know i get on with it

even if its not ptsd its defeinetly anxiety so it shoudl help either way

[lee2222Participant 14]

also its made me feel more submissive as a person if that makes

obv no guy wants to be that way and im no different but its like put the feeling in me and its hard to get rid of

i promise thats my last post now for today i wont keep going on about it but thats kind of where i am at the moment

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

Just keep repeating this mantra:

Sticks and stones may break my bones,
But whips and chains excite me!

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[AttonParticipant]

You must have witnessed Hillary Clinton taking a s~~~ in Bill Clinton’s mouth to get this kind of ptsd. My advice to you is stay away from the Clinton’s and stay away from shockchan.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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