I rejected the bit

[IAmManParticipant 228]

Far too often I find Myself listening to more sexist crap somebody is spewing where men are inevitably the butt of the joke. I find it surreal that I seem to be the only one there that sees it as a problem. What’s disturbing is that it doesn’t appear to register with the men that it’s at their expense. Just normal business.

I wasnt always aware of this. I grew up in a conservative dysfunctional household and went to a dysfunctional private school and was taught by dysfunctional feminist teachers. They usually didn’t come right out with their views but they don’t have to. Women have a way of passively letting men know how worthlessness they are. I am a very driven man and ambitious to a fault. I am also very good looking and was snagged early by a girl who needed me to take care of her every need.

So I made the bad decision and listened to my blue piller dad to marry her. It was hell. I Did not realize that it was her at first but towards the end it was undeniable. For instance She once got passed out drunk at a very upscale party and I was the one to drag her out to my car while she puked on me. How thoughtful of her to make her partially disabled husband drag her sorry ass around like that. My back gave out at a young age and that didn’t help how she saw me. but I was the faithful white night and took care of her and the finances and enabled her to sleep all day long and write love letters to her significant other who was at war. When I came home some evenings and surprised her with a gift she would cry and say she was so sorry for something.. I already knew about the letters and never quite figured out what she was sorry about but had an idea. She decidedly had mental issues that she wouldn not address and would tell me on occasion she hated me. She eventually left one day to break up another family so she could have sex with the wife. On her way out she made sure to call the police and accuse me of everything she could make up in a phone call. Luckily she overplayed her hand and the police didn’t believe I was the next hitler. She eventually confessed to my attorney and her dad she was full of s~~~ and her dad in turn s~~~ bricks when he asked us to not sue for libel. I was devastated for years and she never looked back.

Since then I have dated a lot and have been in about 8 significant relationships. But now I am jaded and disinterested. Almost all the relationships were horrible. I have been falsely accused after my ex and once a girl attempted to frame me. She told me she could scream and cuss me out all she wanted to and I immediately told her the relationship was over… She was crushed and wanted revenge.

I simply cannot trust women today. I do not believe all are horrible witches but that almost all have been programmed, brainwashed really, to treat men badly. I see that all they want is to have me for selfish reasons and will do anything to get that. I have an old dog that is more entertaining to me than a woman even though she can’t speak a word.

Lately most of my new friends(I recently moved) have taken the bit and were hustled into marriage. Some of their wives hate me because they found out I’m not interested in marriage. Oh how that shocked them. One guy’s wife wanted me bad right before they got married, and she hates me the most now because I got as much distance from her as I could.

I’ve taken the red pill and have gone my own way. I’ve made an almost full recovery from my bad back and have taken up bodybuilding. I am running a startup business and it is starting to turn profit. I’ve never been more content in my life since rejecting the bit.

I want to say hello to the community and thanks for reading. Never before have I heard so many voices of reason in one place.

[David199Participant 47]

Welcome brother, a door has opened before you to make your future what you will!

Sit back have a beer and enjoy 🙂

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome, great intro!
It looks like you’ve de-programmed yourself with experience. It’s a painful way to learn but you’ll never forget now.
God help any man who doesn’t accept a woman when she decides to come onto him. That bitch will hate you forever now.

It’s good to see you’re already positive and making a new life knowing you don’t need a woman to “complete you” ~rolls eyes~
Enjoy your time here!

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

IAmMan – Welcome to where wisdom and knowledge are the norm. Thank you for sharing your story. It is wonderful to see you getting back on a track of your own choosing. Full steam ahead bro!

[Anonymous 42]

IAmMan wrote:

But now I am jaded and disinterested. Almost all the relationships were horrible.

I hear ya Man! To me it felt like a contaminating die flowed through my spirit from each woman, until the light of happiness no longer shined through. I became totally disinterested and went on a personal journey to find myself, figure out who I am, what I need, and to pursue those things with vengeance!

IAmMan wrote:

I do not believe all are horrible witches but that almost all have been programmed, brainwashed really, to treat men badly.

The facts speak for themselves; 70% female initiated divorce rate (we’re disposable), the destruction of family and society at large, the nanny police state, the list goes on and on! In the face of cold hard facts they don’t accept reality! They cannot acknowledge a single FACT! Brainwashed? No! remote control takeover form the monolithic hive! Altogether (collectively), they operate like a living lake of fire for all men! Especially given authority and control! Numerous droves of men numbering in the millions are giving up on them entirely! And still they continue to march on to destruction ignoring all the flames? What better thing to walk away from?

IAmMan wrote:

Some of their wives hate me because they found out I’m not interested in marriage. Oh how that shocked them. One guy’s wife wanted me bad right before they got married, and she hates me the most now because I got as much distance from her as I could.

I lived it more than once! Once they realize you wont be saddled one way, they automatically figure you can be saddled another way, their minds have been programmed to utilize a man anyway they can. They’ve created an environment where unconditional love has no place, and cannot stand. Everything about the modern monolithic mind of these women is all about setting conditions like a three ring circus all for control, they manipulate and subdue the spirit of man! Is that any place for a man to dwell? Gynocentric living hell?

Welcome to the herd!

[AttonParticipant]

I’ve taken the red pill and have gone my own way. I’ve made an almost full recovery from my bad back and have taken up bodybuilding. I am running a startup business and it is starting to turn profit. I’ve never been more content in my life since rejecting the bit.

The red pill is one hell of a drug the FDA should approve it. But I think we can say you are a success story. Welcome

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome IAmMan. Jump in. Look forward to your posts.

[IAmManParticipant 228]

Thank you for the warm welcome and glad to be here. Sometimes it’s hard to believe where I use to be and how I allowed others to treat me. I am a work in progress and looking forward to the adventure as a free man. Never thought I could feel like this. I feel blessed just to know the truth.

[RigParticipant 52]

Welcome.

Do you also have the feeling that man confidence and relationships come together? In reverse! When you are alone you build yourself day by day. But then, you are a “better hubby material”, so more girls are attracted to you. Then you get one and after some time you find yourself a wreck. Self esteem at ground level.

Ironic. Is like women find pleasure at taming men. It’s just more fun to tame a lion then a mouse. But a tamed man is no fun any more… neeext!

[IAmManParticipant 228]

Good question. I find for myself If I’m not secure in my identity (blue pilling) I feel bad about myself if I’m not in a relationship. When I embrace my identity as a man and appreciate the benefits that entails I feel unchained and dangerous. I feel Powerful.
I receive various responses when someone catches a whiff that I opperate on another ideological level then themselves. Manginas ridicule me as they think it is out of defeat that I’m single. White knights tell me I’m immoral for gratefully choosing the single life. Women either express vitriol or they attempt to woo me if they think they’re up for the challenge. They aren’t.

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

Welcome Brother!

I’m glad you have found this oasis. In my early 40’s a shift of outlook occurred, and MGTOW became the only logical choice. Incrementally, you will realize that MGTOW works best overall for you. Invest in yourself. Continue to work out, better your business, and yourself. You are going to do great things and in the process realize MGTOW is the solution for the risk averse man. Good luck moving forward!

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