I paid off my wife’s student loans — then she filed for divorce after two years

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Just another article I saw that I thought you guys would be interested in.

https://www.market~~~ch.com/story/i-paid-off-my-wifes-student-loans-then-she-filed-for-divorce-after-two-years-of-marriage-2018-04-21

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

And the dude got played, have seen a few like that.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10909]

Him paying off her student debt is only part of the scheme that women are running on men. Thank God they lived in Texas and hd no kids. In most states she would have taken him to the cleaners.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

I know several men who are doing exactly this right now. They also make their own lunch every day, nothing prepared just snacks. These are well educated people too! It amazes me.

If I was paying her bills she had better be making me a gourmet lunch everyday. Then again maybe they can’t afford any lunch when pumpkin doesn’t have a job.

What gives these women the right to make such demands and have a do nothing attitude. This is gonna go south real quick if this country ever has another depression.

[Anonymous 43]

Did that. I paid off all her debts so we could get a house.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

It is all the matter of resource extraction. He possibly got fat for working 80 hours a week and have to come home to eat whatever he could find, this is why she filled a divorce, she deserves more, she deserves a man that is on the best shape of his life, is willing to keep a good body for her, has money, a good career, is over 6ft, has a nice house and car, like and want kids but doesn’t have any, has a good job but has a lot of free time, love to travel and love animals (but doesn’t want any).

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

Endless demands that won’t bring any men nothing but more demands, lurkers, be aware, you won’t get s~~~ by helping those c~~~s, they fill that you being responsible for their s~~~ is THEIR RIGHT, and you have to serve them. Refuse to be their slaves, REBEL !

They can’t be grateful or recognize your time or effort to help her.
Lurkers, whatever help she wants from you, CHARGE MONEY FOR IT, and sometimes, just avoid helping, because it will only bring you even more problems (like the classic reinstall windows bulls~~~, you will be responsible for everything that fails on that computer forever).
Every iteration is a transaction, she won’t even talk to you if she doesn’t want something from you, money, favors, validation, boost her ego, social status, etc…

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9543]

What a c~~~! She gets her biggest debt taken care of and still she splits! She obviously didn’t love him, otherwise she would of been better grateful than that. C~~~ of a C~~~!

Hopefully this ex husband doesn’t get suckered into marriage or relationships again and becomes MGTOW. He needs it.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[BigDParticipant 3024]

For the lurkers. Keep your debts separate. Never put a Credit Card in her name. If she wants a car, she gets it herself. If you want to buy a home make sure she pays for it. Put all your assets in a trust designed so when you die, get divorced, or become unable to care for yourself only you and your kids can touch it.

If your wife gives you a hard time about not being able to touch the trust, tell her it’s to protect the children’s future from blood sucking lawyers just in case you guys get sued. Of course that’s only part true. It’s so she can’t touch it if you ever get a divorce.

So lets say you make 100K a year and your wife makes 80K. Live like you make 80K. If at all possible have her paycheck pay for everything. After you pay your taxes and max out your 401K put the rest of your paycheck into the trust aforementioned. This way if you get a divorce she gets the house and other assets it will only be what she paid for. She may get your future earnings, but she won’t be able to touch your kid’s nest egg.

Again, talk to a lawyer and a CPA before making any large decisions, like getting married.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Well I hope the guy learned a lesson. You see with me I was lucky I never paid anything for a woman. Never got any pregnant either. I just had the old heart break thing and that was it. I imagine that is a lot easier to get over than when you know you’ve been played for your money or sperm.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The Moth Attracted to the Flame wrote:

I paid off my wife’s student loans — then she filed for divorce after two years

Briffault’s Law . . .

“Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit.”

Nice to you when she wants something.
She may even pretend to “love” you.
Until she gets what she wants, and then suddenly, you’re an insect.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

kbbroiler wrote:

Well I hope the guy learned a lesson. You see with me I was lucky I never paid anything for a woman.

I was once in the car with a girlfriend who I met when she was very young. She became a “girlfriend” a few years later. Originally, she was very aggressive actually, and made all the first moves…. including bringing food to my apartment and visiting late evenings. It started out as a fling.

Years later (in the car on the freeway) she was a long time “girlfriend” now. She quite casually threw out the comment that she once said to her girlfriends “one day, this is all going to pay off”.

“PAY OFF”.

The words just jumped out at me like a screaming red flag.
More like a screaming fire engine.

“PAY OFF”.

In that moment, I realized she had some grand architected master plan. Maybe to get married and divorced so it would “PAY OFF”. I had already decided I would NEVER “pay a woman off” or “pay her to go away”. To me, this is the most f~~~ed up thing in the world.

And I started planning my exit immediately.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Keymaster wrote:

“PAY OFF”.

Entitlement, because VJJ.

Even when you make it known ahead of time, that you will NEVER get married again, once can sense the “future wife” audition. That is one reason why I dumped the Vietnamese-American gf, and kept the other gf instead — I got the sense that she figured that she would simply try to change my mind by putting on a good “audition” for being a wife.

And I periodically drop red pills about how bad I think marriage is to the gf I kept, just so she doesn’t forget.

At some point, I expect the gf will give up on me and leave, when she realizes after several years I will never get married, and that she can take me at my word about never getting married again and never cohabitating again.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

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