I need MGTOW member help on next article

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

Do you have a brief message on how MGTOW saved your life? I need annonomous stories for the next article: here is the draft:

MGTOW SAVING LIVES ONE MAN AT A TIME

Me Tim Patten USA:
People have asked me why I’m so passionate about the men’s liberation movement. There are many reasons, but I suppose my critical lens was shaped early on. I watched as my personal hero, my father, slaved long hours and weekends to feed and clothe siblings, my mother and me. He toiled in rain, mud, ice and snow and never took a day off, even when he was suffering from work-related injuries. Unfortunately, that meant he never lived his own dreams; he suffered the exasperation and frustration of being enslaved as the family’s sole provider. I gifted my father and mother first-class tickets and lodging to anywhere in the world. They chose to visit me. When he passed away after decades of hard labor, his body battered and his face sun-dried like a raisin, I could see that his unempowered life had taken a big toll.

My dad was the catalyst for me to plan my escape from that fate in my early years. I’ve lived the life my father never had. I traveled the world, made good money, invested, built things and enjoyed pursuing my dreams. My life has been a carousel ride jampacked with freedom, love and success; I’ve learned many things, especially about those things that bring true happiness. Needless to say, having sufficient resources has allowed me to nourish my curiosity, embrace other cultures and meet amazing people. I wish all of you might experience such a fate.

John Doe from Australia:
When I was a teen I’ve been a serial monogamist, going from one relationship to another, leaving me poor, homeless, friendless, and with many bills accumulated along the way. In each relationship she would view my time and my money as hers to do with whatever she wanted. Fourteen years ago was the last one. I gave up on working for some vague notion of social responsibility, and started to focus on myself. Now I have a very well paying career that flies me around the world in business class. I have a great portfolio, a large house in an very nice area, a new car, and time for myself, my friends, and my hobbies. I do what I want, when I want, and with whom I want, and do not need to consult her and ask for permission. I wish I realized this long ago. I would be so much better off than I am now.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Tim as far as AVFM is concerned we are PIGTOWS. and elams married male staff are MGTOWs.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

So please………

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

I completely understand. There are 3 or 4 websites that post my stories based on eaches editorial needs. av4M is one, NCFM and Relating and an India site to me are the others. Mosr cool is the New Male Studies international journal is publishing my MGTOW article.

It is hard getting press for these stories, but I do my best.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

At 51 years old and fresh out of a divorce, I came to the realization that I have never been in a reciprocal relationship. By that I mean that I have never been with anyone that treated me as well as I treated them. And my reward for treating someone well was always either being lied to or cheated on. Most importantly, my energy was drained out of me.

Now I view relationships as an exchange of energy. People with positive energy have a place in my life, people with negative energy, or people that steal other people’s energy, are dismissed. My life is so much more positive and rewarding since making this decision. MGTOW gave me the understanding that my life is just that, MY LIFE. Not being responsible for someone else’s daily happiness gives me the freedom to focus on my own level of happiness and contentment. As a result I am a better father, better friend, and overall a better person.

Order the good wine

[RoyDalParticipant]

How did MGTOW save my life? It is too long ago to point to a single cause. For some reason, I have had a genuine fear of marriage since my pre-teen years. Whatever caused this fear, that is what is saved my life. I don’t know what the cause was, but it did work.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

Thank you TAX GUY… Can I give you a fictious country you hail from?

[Charles BSpectator 251]

The main reason I became MGTOW is because I searched for answers why the world is the way it is today. Before, in my blue pill years, I was anxious to become a PUA, get an expensive job to impress women and move out of my parents’ place.

Now, I’m still anxious to move out, however, I don’t have that pressure on me anymore to become a PUA. In fact, I don’t really care for sex anymore. I’d rather much use sex toys, my right hand, porn, and lube.

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

It is too long ago to point to a single cause.

Thank you Roydel –0 yours is like mine… I saw it young in family matters. MARRIAGE f~~~ed over my dad and uncles

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Tim Patten wrote:

Thank you TAX GUY… Can I give you a fictious country you hail from?

USA, unless you really want fiction. Then I would go with the Isle of Right.

Order the good wine

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

Isle of Right makes us sound more world wide

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

You.posted this thread twice

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Members help with next article??? Same as this one

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

I’m a young guy, 23 years old, and I’ve had a red pill type of mindset for a while because I grew up around examples of how marriage isn’t the wonderful experience it’s proponents claim it is. Growing up, I watched how my mom treated my dad (no respect and hypocrisy). My parents raised me in a church, where I get watch a bunch of tired and pathetic looking husbands follow their fat wives chit chat. When I spoke to these men about my hobbies, they would maybe get excited and you I could tell that they miss the freedom of being single, the time when they were actually able to live their lives and pursue their happiness. To top it all off, the sermons were often about how the man needs to do better. In my extended family, my uncle never married and he has always been one of the more interesting and happiest guys I know. Despite being single, he doesn’t fit the “loser” stereotype. He is a very hard worker, seems to have all the money he’d ever need, and gets to spend lots of time with his friends (those people the married guys aren’t allowed to have).

As I hit puberty, I held onto these experiences firmly and resisted the temptation to get involved with a girl. Being an introvert helped lower any chances I had with a girl, but I still had a few opportunities over my school years. When I graduated, I have to admit, I was a little confused. Before finding the MGTOW community, I didn’t really know what to think of myself. I never forgot my early memories, but the school system had me kind of confused. They put that “real man” garbage in my head and I started to doubt myself a little bit. “Why have I not chased women? Is there something wrong with me?” We are told that men are stupid horny beast that need a women (their “better half”) to civilize them. Eventually I found asexuality through AVEN, but it never seemed like a good enough fit for me. All I knew was that I wasn’t sleeping with men or women, so a lack of sexuality seemed like a logical answer. The only problem was that I still occasionally masturbated and had fantasies about being with a kind and attractive woman. My confusion might seem silly, but without going into detail, all I can say is that being a young guy, you have to listen to a lot of contradictory unsolicited advice saying who you SHOULD be and it can be confusing. Last summer, I finally found the manosphere and soon enough MGTOW. Things finally clicked. All the observations I made in the past made more sense; the pieces of the puzzle finally came together.

Maybe MGTOW hasn’t “saved” since I was skeptical of marriage early on, but it has definitely made it better. I don’t have to doubt myself about this anymore. You can be a heterosexual guy and not chase women. Being male doesn’t automatically mean we all act the same way and follow the same life path. We, the men going our own way, aren’t necessarily deficient in testosterone or whatever other BS we might be told. It’s a simple cost-benefit analysis and MGTOW is the only appropriate and non-violent decision a rational man can make. What our critics say is laughable. This isn’t about hate and no I am not afraid of “strong independent” women. I’ve got a life to live and I have decided not to go the way society tells me to go, the way of marriage. Going my own way is very enjoyable and I’m not willing to trade that for the supposedly wonderful experience of marriage. Some mgtow still do the dating thing, and that’s their choice, but I don’t include relationships in my life at all; I like to focus on my hobbies and enjoy the peace and quite.

I am from the USA and if you are interested in using my post and want more information, send me a private message.

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

Tiga

A great share for what I’m looking for. Your observations hit home!

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

Redpillman
I don’t know how to delete?

[BigDParticipant 3024]

Okay, here we go.

First, I do not believe MGTOW saved my life. I would say it saved my sanity. All my life I could see the hypocrisy that is woman, and I couldn’t understand why others couldn’t see it.

Even though I knew better, I thought there must have been something wrong with me. I kept trying to find “The One”. Every time I was just disappointed.

I really started to believe I was nuts. I kept trying to “find myself”. It got to the point where I was cutting myself off from the world. I was no longer pursuing my dreams or having any goals. I made myself nothing more than a zombie staggering through life.

After discovering I was just a MGHOW and giving name to what I was, the sky has been the limit. After finding out I am not alone has made me feel free. It has let me know that I am not crazy, but just brave enough to call a spade a spade.

I now have goals. I am now have dreams and are pursuing them now. I am no longer the zombie. I am a man.

Don't stick your dick into anyone you aren't willing to put up with for eighteen years and nine months.

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

NICE! Having dreams for yourself! I’m loving it

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Below is a snapshot of an anonymous email and there are 6 emails and testimonials like it during 2015. If it doesn’t directly save a “life”, there are plenty more examples of it saving futures and fortunes.

Detractors get easily hammered with that.
You won’t hear a word back from them.

5 minutes to speak with Elliot Roger and a MGHOW would have saved 5 more.

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TaxGuy wrote:

By that I mean that I have never been with anyone that treated me as well as I treated them.

Every man who ever kneeled with a ring can say the same.
His wife never kneeled down to give him a sandwich.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Tim PattenParticipant 660]

Keymaster

What I got is that 6 people message the site owner to let him know that 6 men claim MGTOW saved their life

Is that right?

Great facts for the story

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