I need an advise on friendship with females in general

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

I have read different topics on this site about this issue, and I seem to agree with almost everything. But there’s this blue pill substance inside me that tries to stop me from having the red pills. I feel confused at the moment. That’s why I “seem to agree”

The situation is as follows:

I am making a transition from being a blue man mangina to a MGHOW. I had plenty of female “friends”. I have recognized that they mostly used me as a disposable utility and emotional tampon. So, I am trying to go away from it.

Then I decided to follow one advice where someone suggested to treat relationships with them as some business deals, basically, cost-benefit analysis. At the moment, I have just two “profitable” females around me – one lives in my favourite country and lets me sleep and eat at her house when I am there (I need to spend money just on tickets), the second one has the same some rare interests I have (don’t know anyone around me with the same interests). At the same time, I rarely talk with them about their life and issues.

I suppose, the problem is that since I can’t look at anything as I used to, I can’t really even talk to them without feeling sick in my stomach.

And I don’t know how to deal with those feelings. I know one of them my whole life, and it’s just that I never experienced having to look at someone in a completely different light. It’s like having someone, whom you considered to be a part of your family, this person didn’t really do anything bad to you, always was with you throughout all of your transitions and good and bad times, but you are still feeling betrayed.

I really feel confused. With all I learnt and got to know here, I am not sure what I am to them, how they look at me, why they are still around me, and what exactly I should do. At the same time, I can’t figure out what exactly I should do with the others – I have an idea to let it be as it is as long as I get something out of it (new connections, possible new clients and stuff).

P.S.
I just thought… Maybe there’s a reason why I feel betrayed. Because I have a suspicion, that I am still nothing in their eyes, and they didn’t really do anything significant to me, other than just being with me (even though sometimes it was difficult, I admit).

[Anonymous 11]

I dumped all of my female friends except for one. The rule is simple ask yourself the following question:

Is this a one sided relationship?

Yes = Drop her like a hot rock.
No = You have a real friend.

The same concept also applies to friendships with men. I recently evicted an old male friend I was letting be a roommate as it turned into a one sided relationship in his favor. I was being a nice guy trying to help him through a rough patch. Instead, I only enabled him to continue down his path of self-destruction. He even began to mock me to my face after he stopped paying rent so I booted him from my life and home. He respects me now.

[Anonymous 11]

Not a chick but a mangina so close enough. The mocking was the last straw. I got the last laugh though. I’m like an anaconda. I silently wait until the right moment to strike. Some idiots interpret that as a weakness until I crush the life out of them.

He’s basically a sorry piece of s~~~ and blew his final chance with me. Real friendship is a two way street.

[Anonymous 11]

That was a major part of the problem too. I warned him up front if he started back he was gone. It’s really sad for him, but I’m not letting him drag me down with him. I engineered it for a month before I dropped the bomb.

I feign weakness to draw out my enemies. In reality, I’m a tough son of a bitch.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

It’s just as bad or even worse, to have them as friends, it’s like having girlfriend with out sex, and them talking about other guys they f~~~ed around you. In my past “friendships” I got nothing out of it, except a headache and stress.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

GrotesqueRogue

Do these ‘friends’ date guys? If they do then you might just be looked on as a beta. If they don’t date guys then you’re either in the friend zone or they are unicorns …… and we know all about unicorns on here.

You have the knowledge of mgtow and the force is with you. Be wise, be a man and hold your frame.

Rise yourself above all around you. Work out, eat good, sleep well and go about your dreams …… YOUR DREAMS ok?

Now get the f~~~ on with it 😆

[Anonymous 9]

There is no male/female friendship that doesn’t lead to sex.

Unless she’s unattractive.

If that’s the case then yeah I can understand the friendship. All of my former close female friends are no longer in my life because we ended up f~~~ing.

 

 

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Treat them as any other man you don’t know very well. If the relationship benefits you materially, continue receiving those benefits. If they do something to you that you wouldn’t take off a man in the street, bail on them.

Just don’t give them any sort of special treatment or consideration just because they weren’t born with the right chromosome.

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

ILiveAgain

 

One of them 22, and I would say she is kind of a “herbivore-woman” – she never dated anyone, she is completely happy with her hobbies.
The second one is younger, has a boyfriend, but we never talk about it at all.
So yeah, kinda difficult to be a beta for them, I suppose, and. considering that unicorns are not real…

gllahone84

I am starting to realize this, I think.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

No, I totally get what you are saying and how you feel. You can no longer look at ANY female in the same light, now that you have been awakened to MGTOW. This is good though. Because now you can’t be fooled. You are no longer looking at women with blinders on.

Being awakened isn’t always pretty. Being awakened means that you have to finally come to terms with certain truths that you were unable to really see clearly before. It’s a tough pill to swallow, however it is for the best. Better to be a bit uneasy about ANY woman than to be content but ignorant.

 

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[RoyDalParticipant]

GrotesqueRogue wrote:

I suppose, the problem is that since I can’t look at anything as I used to, I can’t really even talk to them without feeling sick in my stomach.

I recommend avoiding anything that makes you sick! I am guessing you are at the “security and safety” level of Maslow’s hierarchy. I also recommend you work your way up to the top.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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