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  • #311888
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    Anonymous
    16

    Ok my ex used me And dumped my ass.
    Four days ago i contacted her becouse of divorce stuff.
    She told ” in sorry for everything that happened And the suffering i caused”
    “You dont have to answer to this Mail. Everything is talked already”

    The thing is when we had a conversation after s~~~ went down, she didnt even said a word. I asked her something And she just stood there like a piece of wood.

    I dont even know What she is sorry about “she aint at all”

    I wanna ask her that. What are you sorry about?
    Why the f~~~ you married me?
    Why you made waste 14 years of my life?

    In having problems to sleep.

    And on top after turning down a 41 y old divorced single woman.
    Some unknowng bish from morroco 32 divorced is sending me wassaps, i dont know this women they just pop up out of thin air… Wtf?

    #311901
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    Won'tGetFooledAgain
    Won'tGetFooledAgain
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    she isn’t sorry in the slightest and she married you for the same reason all women get married, house, children and money.

    I suspect your wife got to a stage in her life where she thought “is this it for me” and decided she wanted one last ride on the carousel. She was bored and fully justified it to herself as all women are told they deserve to be happy and if they are not it is the man’s fault.

    She has been planning this for months, trust me she checked out of the marriage years ago. She got all excited about the carousel party she was about to join and couldn’t care less about what this is doing to you.

    The divorced 41 year old just sees you as a wallet, do not fall for it.

    For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

    #311905
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    Anonymous
    18

    Don’t ask her anything.

    Women use covert/deceptive communication. Especially when the bitch (sorry but she is an ex for a reason and likely riding few c~~~s so yea) says ‘You don’t have to answer to this mail’.

    C~~~ wants you to answer. But don’t.

    And for god sake don’t get drunk as long as you feel the need to ask her all these questions.

    We know you can get when drunk.

    Up top!

    #311908
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    Anonymous
    16

    Hahaha
    Thanks brothers.
    And yes she had it planned for Months.

    She checked out of marriage like one year after signing papers. Gave me the boot 6 years later.

    #311912
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    Blade
    blade
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    Woman are f~~~ing ice.My ex said sorry for attacking me with a knife and may i add for no reason just out of the blue.Set of ptsd really bad due to something from the past that she knew about.A year later she said sorry tears and f~~~ing all.Sorry from a woman is a load of s~~~ and it is a justification for them selves to feel good.C~~~ mode will return the next day or with in a week.SORRY MY F~~~ING ARSE.Dont beleave that s~~~.

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #311949
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    Anonymous
    43

    no further contact with this garbage. move on.

    sorry for yer loss buddy.

    she cant give you an answer, she just feels.

    #311971
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    Anonymous
    54

    A woman is incapable of a sincere apology.

    Do you think those..wasups will bring something good to your life?

    #311977
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    Go Your Own Way…

    Never lose sight of what brought you here.

    #312016
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    Anonymous
    16

    GMOW but bishes pooping up out of no where.
    Hilarius.

    #312057
    Freeman_K
    Freeman_K
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    Cut all contact. There is no way anyone can keep his mental frame if he gets betrayed after 14 years of marriage and is still in contact.

    Also, what do you want to hear from her ? As someone mentioned above, with females, disregard everything they say and only actions count. And her actions are transparent.

    The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

    #312108
    CombatRoll
    CombatRoll
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    Don’t give this bitch the satisfaction of asking her any questions. Even if it is eating you up inside act like you don’t give a s~~~.

    Be coy – if you have to communicate with her about D stuff, and she acts apologetic, just furrow your brow and half grin – like WTF.

    Just tell her you want to get the business handled b/c you are in a hurry and have somewhere to be.

    #312158
    Awakened
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    You know what to do. Move on. Actions/behaviors speak louder then words.

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #312208
    FrostByte
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    She told ” in sorry for everything that happened And the suffering i caused”
    “You dont have to answer to this Mail. Everything is talked already”

    The thing is when we had a conversation after s~~~ went down, she didnt even said a word. I asked her something And she just stood there like a piece of wood.

    I dont even know What she is sorry about “she aint at all”

    TFM did a piece on hypergamy backfiring. The woman tries to trade up and when it doesn’t work out she comes back all apologetic. He uses a recent case about a woman who tricked her husband in to a 1yr open marriage so she could go monkey-branching with a safety net. It seems relevant to your post and I will paste it here.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #312254
    K
    Hitman
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    Ghost her ass as much as possible.
    Record all texts and do NOT talk on the phone.

    #312275
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    Freeman_K
    Freeman_K
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    3524

    Interesting, just today i met this female that gave me an introductionary course to the female nature almost 20 years ago. Some 15 years ago she placed a bet that i will fail in life and monkey branced to c~~~ carousel, then i eliminated her from my universe. She is pinning now for f~~~ing 10 years to get to good terms again, lol.

    Just let some time pass man, but no contact, that is important. When i see her now i am laughing my ass off once she sees my back.

    The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

    #312304
    Narwhal
    narwhal
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    My ex did the same thing.

    First during the marriage, it was not uncommon for my ex and me to get into an argument, then for her to apologize about what started the argument. She would then blame me for the argument itself, even though she could have end it by admitting her fault to begin with.

    Second, once we were past the point of no return on the divorce, she gave me the big “I was a terrible wife”, “you were right” sobbing apology. Even then, it seemed liked total BS. It wasn’t about mending anything since she wanted the divorce, it was about clearing her conscience. It was about trying to smooth things over because she new I could make her life miserable if I wasn’t a cooperative resource.

    Ok. Then do it.

    #312796
    Joetech
    joetech
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    Put her in your past and keep her there. And if you ever date a broad that wants to friend your exes…dump her right away. Like Pat Benitar says…You’ve got to harden your heart…

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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