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Eric Lauder 1 year, 1 month ago.
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Hi, guys.
I’m used to say that I’m “divorced” because I feel so, but I’m actually separated.
Actually slightly different 🙁
Today my son (14 yo) quarreled with his mother because he (and his sister) want to go with me on a holiday: Seychelles and Madagascar (plus more a nice stop-over in Dubai) next christmas 2019.
The c~~~ don’t want to allow them.
My son actually managed to “convince” his mother to allow them to go in holiday with me, but about two hours later she came at my home asking me for a written declaration – she also said that she wants divorce.
OBIOUSVLY, the expensive holiday would be used against me, and the written declaration, to ask for more money.
At such point I had to stop my daughter (13 yo) trying to beat her mother: my daughter is an athlete and she’s already taller and much stronger than her mother, then I expelled the c~~~ (my ex-wife) from my home.
In the process my son, due he was frustrated, destroyed the keyboard of his computer, and I had to slightly beat my daughter (she said, later, that that was a lot of fun, since nobody dares to touch her: female, athlete, 5’9″ tall, stronger than the average adult man – but I’m stronger than the average adult man, too, since I still lift…)
Thoughts?
PS: okay, the “slightly” beating of my daughter involved using a shoe on her face, and my son said it was like a scene from Terminator 3 – I suppose this one
😀
However, no problem, now the girl is relaxed and chatting with her friend (it’s two hours!!!) at the mobile phone, she’s siding with me, the real problem is her mother.
What I should do? Suggestions?
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: okay, the “slightly” beating of my daughter involved using a shoe on her face, and my son said it was like a scene from Terminator 3 – I suppose this one
Not good bro .
Was there alcohol involved .
However, no problem, now the girl is relaxed and chatting with her friend (it’s two hours!!!) at the mobile phone, she’s siding with me, the real problem is her mother.
What I should do? Suggestions?
She tells a friend that friend tells another friend . A mother ends up hearing .
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Let the daughter do what she set out to do.
Stand aside.
Don’t be so controlling.
If I understand you correctly and your wife is out of the house, change the locks. If you have your son’s passport and you are still married, I would get some legal advice, but would think that her permission is not required. Get legal advice on how to best protect your ass-ets for the inevitable divorce. You may want to file first after the vacation.
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Hi Eric, I mainly lurk these days but I felt your pain and frustration.
Just wanted to say there is no solution, sometimes it’s a choice between the least worst suffering.
I believe you need to weigh up the costs and consequences, and you my friend are stuck between bad situations.
My thoughts are either try to negotiate with your wife if she’s reasonable, which would be very rare. Or bite the bullet and finalise the divorce, prepare and protect as much as you can.When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan
Was there alcohol involved .
No.
My daughter is 13!
She’s an athlete, terribly strong, I actually had to defend myself, and that’s not normal.
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If I understand you correctly and your wife is out of the house, change the locks. If you have your son’s passport and you are still married, I would get some legal advice, but would think that her permission is not required. Get legal advice on how to best protect your ass-ets for the inevitable divorce. You may want to file first after the vacation.
That’s not my style.
The c~~~ will attack, then I’ll destroy her: both the children are on my side, and the children are 14 and 13, their opinion have some weight in the court.After seeing the whole scene, my son said that he’s not going to sign a marriage contract. EVER. NEVER.
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Let the daughter do what she set out to do.
Stand aside.
Don’t be so controlling.I understand the venomous irony, and I even approve it, but she’s an animal, running 100 meters in less than 14″0 and lifting much more, there’s an actual chance that she’s going to kill her mother in such situation.
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I think you need a video camera set up. No bulls~~~. How the hell are you going to defend yourself against accusations, especially if it comes down to you being accused of abuse towards your daughter.
I’m not talking out of my ass. I have a very good camera system set up around my house and in the house and in this holiday season, bought even more. More for protection against burglars but, hey, you never know when bitches are involved.
You are describing a lot of drama that is not worth it. don’t you see that you’re very close to going to jail over all this. You say you lift. Well that can be used against you in court. A powerful man who lifts weights gets into altercation with his daughter and ex wife and the other lawyer will eat you for lunch.
So, your kids won’t go with you on vacation. So what? they’re still young. You can later spend time with them when they’re over 18. Don’t jeopardize your freedom like this
Again, buy a camera system. There are very easy to install and worth their weight in gold.
God bless peace and freedom.
Hi, guys.
I’m used to say that I’m “divorced” because I feel so, but I’m actually separated.
Actually slightly different 🙁
Today my son (14 yo) quarreled with his mother because he (and his sister) want to go with me on a holiday: Seychelles and Madagascar (plus more a nice stop-over in Dubai) next christmas 2019.
The c~~~ don’t want to allow them.
My son actually managed to “convince” his mother to allow them to go in holiday with me, but about two hours later she came at my home asking me for a written declaration – she also said that she wants divorce.
OBIOUSVLY, the expensive holiday would be used against me, and the written declaration, to ask for more money.
At such point I had to stop my daughter (13 yo) trying to beat her mother: my daughter is an athlete and she’s already taller and much stronger than her mother, then I expelled the c~~~ (my ex-wife) from my home.
In the process my son, due he was frustrated, destroyed the keyboard of his computer, and I had to slightly beat my daughter (she said, later, that that was a lot of fun, since nobody dares to touch her: female, athlete, 5’9″ tall, stronger than the average adult man – but I’m stronger than the average adult man, too, since I still lift…)
Thoughts?
PS: okay, the “slightly” beating of my daughter involved using a shoe on her face, and my son said it was like a scene from Terminator 3 – I suppose this one
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😀
However, no problem, now the girl is relaxed and chatting with her friend (it’s two hours!!!) at the mobile phone, she’s siding with me, the real problem is her mother.
What I should do? Suggestions?I think you already know what you need to do. And get a grip on the unnecessary phyiscalness because until its over it will be used against you.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
involved using a shoe
oh i get it . Its a cultral thing . We use thongs (wear on feet)
Runs 00:36
Haha just jokin .
Last xmas me and my father watched 2 of my teen daughters punch on in our lounge room .
The one that ended in hospital from mother and capo(this was after the mother gave her away for 6 months to a c~~~ aunty) . So when she was returned she was violent and i knew the time was comming . Shore enough she went the charge with a flying fist . Took her feet out and took her down . I am not as fit as i once was and got alot of s~~~ wrong . Doesn’t mean i can’t defend myself but i will go to the extremes to aviod it these days.
My advice on teenage kids biggest f~~~ing problem . SOCIAL MEDIA those f~~~in phones .
Because there daughters they think there are no consequences or not as bad will happen .
I always say this too . You could get in a fight your not looking for . If someone pulls a knife and stabs you . Or if you accidentally kill someone . When all that s~~~ can be avioded by walking bye .
Teenage girls are getting much more violent .
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Don’t beat your kid, asshole.
I think you need a video camera set up. No bulls~~~. How the hell are you going to defend yourself against accusations, especially if it comes down to you being accused of abuse towards your daughter.
Nope, my daughter said she had fun.
Problem being my ex-wife.Don’t beat your kid, asshole.
That’s not the issue at play, the “kid” is actually terrorizing her classroom and she also established a record both in javelin and hammer throwing.
The issue at play being my ex-wife.SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.
think you already know what you need to do. And get a grip on the unnecessary phyiscalness because until its over it will be used against you.
Nope, this isn’t the issue: I have both my son and my daughter sleeping here, right now.
My daughter was gonna seriously hurting her mother, and I stopped her, that’s not the issue.
The issue being the c~~~ (ex-wife) wanting more money.SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.
Anonymous1Brother, we (the peanut gallery) obviously don’t know much about your situation, but I hope you can see that there are folks here that want to help you.
My .02.
Forget how much of an athletic beast you think your daughter is.
She’s your child.
She’s a female.
Here’s how it would play out in court…
WIFE’S ATTORNEY: You have physically struck your daughter, haven’t you?
YOU: Yes, but…
WIFE’S ATTORNEY: You physically struck your daughter in the past few months, didn’t you?
YOU: Yes, but…
WIFE’S ATTORNEY: You physically struck your daughter with a shoe, to the face, didn’t you?
YOU: Yes, but…
JUDGE: I find EVEN MUCH MORE for the wife now…dude, you’re screwed EVEN MORE. 100% physical custody to the wife, visitation schedule that SHE likes…fattest child support allowable to her.Has there been a court proceeding to determine CUSTODY, VISITATION, and temporary CHILD SUPPORT?
In my case, the judge called my 2 teenage kids back to his chambers…he questioned them without anyone else present.
You don’t KNOW what will be asked of them. You don’t KNOW how they will answer.Why is your ex coming to your house? Her boundary should be the front porch.
The suggestions about cameras are to be taken seriously.No phone conversations with the ex. Email only. If you text, keep all of them…get a program that will let you print them.
Everything you say, everything you do, to you ex, to your kids, will be twisted and embellished and used against you.I understand the venomous irony, and I even approve it, but she’s an animal, running 100 meters in less than 14″0 and lifting much more, there’s an actual chance that she’s going to kill her mother in such situation.
Seriously.Stand aside you glorious bastard. They will settle it as should be done. Without the c~~~ courts.
Have at it, girls.
The issue at play being my ex-wife.
PS: okay, the “slightly” beating of my daughter involved using a shoe on her face,
What . Hitting your kid in the face with a shoe isn’t an issue ? Come on that is pretty f~~~ed .
Sounds like a toxic enviroment over greed and money . Bet this s~~~ goes down hill . Those kids will f~~~ off when there old enough . Hopefully they learn from this and don’t repeat .
Thats one thing i never gave a f~~~ about was money . My kids safety came first . I seen the damage done to my own kids especially the one that ended in hospital from mother and her piece of s~~~ capo .
My kids attest to this day will always say and know i never hit my kids .
They will remember and probably not in the way you hope as they get older .
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Anonymous3I would get legal advice. People forget the the law is different in every country.
As for spanking you kid, reframe it: you defended your wife, that your daughter was going to hit. You are the hero! Why worry?I would be worry about something else. I know you have used your name throughout the internet, and your wife probably knows it to. She can get a good collection of articles that would not sit well with a judge and feminist social workers.
For all this, get a lawyer, scare the s~~~ out of her, but solve it outside the court…
My 2 cents.
To play devil’s advocate. Those can be some very dangerous nations, not just in crime but the way their laws and customs are set up.
Also, she might be worried you might keep the kids out of the country which leaves her with no legal recourse.
Anonymous18I am not married, nor do I have any kids.
Being in situations that are emotionally charged has always made me act and say things I could do without.
Every family dynamics are different and by now everyone has settled in a mindset which can’t be changed without others plainly judging and labelling anyone who makes them reassess their impressions of the individual.
You can’t expect any effective advice from us other than some of us who have found themselves in similar situations …. But your wife is a woman and they are easy to see through. But you need a calm and collective demeanor.
Your kids and vacations take back seat. Your wife and yourself are the antagonists at this point to one another. Kids usually go for path of least resistance. Especially teenagers. You could likely be the bad guy in near future when your daughter starts dating and you stand in between her and some loser. Hypothetically speaking.
Set your ducks straight without the kids. Once you have a better idea … Introduce their needs in the picture. Forget about what they want. You need to get out and our wife wants a divorce. Solve that problem first.
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