I need a plan

[AllenParticipant 146]

I’m currently stuck in an area I’d rather not be: Californistan. I stay because I want continuous contact with my son. The pay is good, but the culture sucks big time. It is literally the capital of feminism and liberal ideology in this country.

Anyway, my plan is to scram from here shortly after my son graduates high school. I want to purchase a large plot of land with a nice cabin in the woods somewhere in Northern Pennsylvania – close to family, but not too close. The problem is, I don’t really know if my plan is tenable or not… I think I need to get some help to be sure I can do this.

So, does anyone know of a place or someone that can take a look at my situation from top to bottom, evaluate the reality, and tell me how I can get from here to where I want to be?

Woman - I picture a man, then take away reason and accountability. - Melvin Udall

[JVBParticipant]

Yes. You and a calculator. You can do it bro.

Peace is > piece.

[ghostParticipant]

Allen wrote:

I stay because I want continuous contact with my son.

You should never be far away from your son. Ever. Stay in California. Plus, California has a lot to offer. You have amazing weather, beautiful scenery, the ocean, excellent driving roads and a lot more. Focus on the positives, bro. Driving your Ferrari F12 is way more fun in California than it would be in Northern Pennsylvania.

I live in Texas, but I would much rather be in California.

Allen wrote:

my plan is to scram from here shortly after my son graduates high school.

Not a good plan in my opinion. Stay close to your son.

[MonkParticipant 16982]

As JVB says, the first stage is to see if it is financially viable.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

ghost wrote:

Allen wrote:

I stay because I want continuous contact with my son.

You should never be far away from your son. Ever. Stay in California. Plus, California has a lot to offer. You have amazing weather, beautiful scenery, the ocean, excellent driving roads and a lot more. Focus on the positives, bro. Driving your Ferrari F12 is way more fun in California than Northern Pennsylvania.

I live in Texas, but I would much rather be in California.

Allen wrote:

my plan is to scram from here shortly after my son graduates high school.

Not a good plan in my opinion. Stay close to your son.

California would be a great place to live if the black death visited and killed 95% of Californians.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[ghostParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

California would be a great place to live if the black death visited and killed 95% of Californians.

Maybe you should help fund the import of some of those radical Muslims you were talking about in the other thread? That should help clear out the feminists and liberal f~~~~~s.

Sharia law would straighten them out so fast, your head will spin. Believe me.

[AllenParticipant 146]

ghost wrote:

You should never be far away from your son. Ever.

I live in Texas, but I would much rather be in California.

I suppose I should add that he wants out of here, too. He plans to go with me, which makes sense since his mother plans to leave at some point, too.

I lived in Texas for a couple of years many moons ago… in San Antonio. Didn’t much care for it, but I loved Austin!

Woman - I picture a man, then take away reason and accountability. - Melvin Udall

[ghostParticipant]

Allen wrote:

I suppose I should add that he wants out of here, too. He plans to go with me, which makes sense since his mother plans to leave at some point, too.

I lived in Texas for a couple of years many moons ago… in San Antonio. Didn’t much care for it, but I loved Austin!

Now that makes more sense. If you take him with you, then Austin would be the best place in my opinion. San Antonio is a total dump. You definitely want to live somewhere in West Austin, where it’s nice and conservative. The roads are nice, good scenery, nice restaurants, etc. You can even get yourself a cool place near the river, with beautiful views of downtown and the Capitol.

You could have him apply to the University of Texas or a college in Austin. That would really help you both. I vacation in Austin with my family. We really enjoy it.

[Anonymous 43]

Route 80 eastbound, 2000 miles. When you get to Dubois, PA, reassess. Allegheny forest is nice country, I’m from around there. Beautiful country down near Pittsburgh. Western NY gets a f~~~ ton of snow.

Seriously though, who has a plan? I walked out of my house with a blue suit and $66. That was never the plan.

The plan? When you have enough drop dead money, and your son is done with school, leave everything behind, literally take nothing and go. Rebuild from the bottom up. You will discover what you really need in life, when you literally have nothing. When you buy things, it is all about utility, not following some trend. The house you buy does not have to fit a uhaul full of s~~~, rather the house fits you, and essentials.

Point the car East and go.

Keep your eyes open along the way, learn something about this country along the way.

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Stay Cali, by property in Pennsylvania and rent it out until you literally can’t take the s~~~ anymore, by then at least a chunk of the mortgage will be paid off and it’ll be all set up for you.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Allen wrote:

I’m currently stuck in an area I’d rather not be: Californistan. I stay because I want continuous contact with my son. The pay is good, but the culture sucks big time. It is literally the capital of feminism and liberal ideology in this country.

I’m in a similar spot man, just minus the kid. I’m stuck in a s~~~ty liberal New England state with a pretty awesome job, and I’d really love to go, but it just doesn’t make financial sense right now because its not exactly easy to find a job with the same wage I’m making now. My plan has just been to save and invest a large % of my income until I have enough of a nest egg that I’m not tied down by a job…then I can go anywhere I want.

Even if Cali sucks but your doing well financially, I wouldn’t go just for the sake of going, I’d make sure I’m pretty well set up before leaving if your current financial situation allows for that. Just my train of thought but to go from a region I don’t like with a high paying job to a region I might like more with a lower paying job…its just a wash. If I can wait til money isn’t as much of an object then that same move would be a complete win.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

@ Allen,

how old is your son? My son is about the be 18 ready to graduate and live his life. You never want to be far from his, but once he’s hit adulthood, it doesn’t matter where you are. You can just hop on a plane and see him.

The real question I think is, what type of lifestyle you want to lead once your boy is grown? Do you have a good relationship with him? Hopefully, you do. If that’s the case, your son will want to stay close to you where ever you go.

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[AllenParticipant 146]

SH3LLZ wrote:

how old is your son?

The real question I think is, what type of lifestyle you want to lead once your boy is grown? Do you have a good relationship with him?

He’s 14. I think we have an excellent relationship and, so far at least, it seems he wants to go where I go. I want to go where it’s quiet and away from the endless stream of people, noise, and never-ending push toward communism that I’ve lived with here for the past 25 years. It’s just too much and it’s worn me down to my last nerve sometimes. I get a little relief when we take our weekend treks to the National Forest, but it’s not enough. Retirement for me means peace and quiet. I tell him of these wishes and plans and he asks if he can come with me, so there’s definitely hope there.

Woman - I picture a man, then take away reason and accountability. - Melvin Udall

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