I need a brother.. My stories of false accusations..

[MulattoParticipant 26]

Honestly I cannot fathom how women could do such cruel things to men.. Putting the rest of their lives at risk based on their lies and brushing it off. It’s inhumane and beyond the capabilities of a human being. Women are demons and it saddens me that they get away with their lies.

I’m 17 years old, a junior in highschool & have recently taken up MGTOW. I’m not getting married nor having children, because I refuse to be with a woman who has a conditioned mentality based off of this faulty society and it’s disgusting standards and perspectives and injustices.

It all started in middle school, my 8th grade year.. My first false accusation. My ex girlfriend and I got into an argument over the phone one night, wasn’t serious, she had a boyfriend at the time so it probably had something to do with that because I still had feelings for her at that time. The next day I’m at class, an innocent man. The next thing I know I’m being called to an office and I see a cop in one chair and the 8th grade administrator in her usual spot. I receive the news that my angry ex girlfriend accused me of “sexual harassment” and the only reason I wasn’t being sent to jail right now, was because her mother refused to press charges.

I began to cry, I was frightened, scared and had no idea what I had done. I remembered that I had a text of her CONSENTING to doing sexual things with me in my phone. I told her “even though you have a boyfriend the sexual things have to stay okay?” and she said “okay” I tell them I have something I can show them in an attempt to prove my innocence and expose the lying demon that she is and they refuse to view my evidence. I suppose they were assuming it wasn’t important because charges weren’t being pressed against me. They brushed off the fact that I could have been arrested and labeled a sex offender because of this witch’s lies.. I feel tears coming to my eyes as I type this. The worst part is I remember this game she kept playing with me, while she had this boyfriend. Where she would “antagonate” me as she would say, by bending over in front of me and doing things in an attempt to turn me on. This was her way of having fun with me, and next thing I know she’s accusing me of sexually harassing her because she’s angry at me.

We sign a contract to not speak to each other anymore in class, I’m dismissed and arrive at lunch. I’m scared, shaking, just got done crying in bathroom. I’m frightened to touch a woman, I even tell my friend this. I refused to hug all the girls that liked to hug me at school all because of this. I was afraid and paranoid of what these women could use against me. I told people, it seemed like no one cared. My entire future was at stake here and no one batted an eye. I told my friend who I spoke to at lunch about this whose in all the same classes with me and her. I asked him questions regarding if I did anything and he confirmed for me saying no. He asked my ex why she did it, she claimed it was her mom that made her. I knew that was a f~~~ing lie and I feel he did too.

I followed the rules of the contract, not speaking to her, not even looking in her direction. But to my surprise.. Come one day in science class.. We are forced to work in the same group. I don’t look at her, I don’t speak to her. I’m telling jokes to my friends, I hear her laughing to my jokes and all of sudden I hear her speaking to me, looking directly at me. She broke the rules of the contract. I’m not a rude ass so I reply to her, I also forgave her and let her have conversations with me. But I was still scarred by this event. It hurts to know that no one cared, no one in that office room that day, not even the office of “justice” cared to view my evidence and hear my side of the story. They brushed it off, false accusation or not, they didn’t care.

It took me a while to become comfortable with having physical contact with women again, I didn’t want to shake hands with them, I didn’t want to hug them, nothing. But eventually I got over that part, the part I didn’t get over was my expose to our faulty justice system and how they by default take the side of these demon women. What’s even more sad is this isn’t the last of it, the year before my 8th grade year, my 7th grade year, I was 13 years old at the time. The night before my mothers friends daughter who was older than me, stayed the night at my house. Her mother, her sister and her brother all stayed. She agreed to sleep in the same bed with me that night after I had immaturely as a joke (I was 13) whipped out my dick in front of her. She smiled and laughed saying she wasn’t gonna look at it, it was a joke of course so I put it away. Regardless of this she agreed to sleep in the same bed with me.

Before we slept we were watching a movie, we got into a conversation and it some how ended up with her pulling up a ruler app on her phone and her coming over to me and measuring my erect penis. I figured by that action, that she was into me. If she wasn’t why would she do that?
So later that night I wake up with a raging hard on, I see her next to me and she’s awake. I begin to flirt with her by messing with her butt, she didn’t say a word, she didn’t leave, she didn’t get up, she didn’t move and she didn’t stop me. It ended up with me rubbing my dick on her butt, she still had her clothes on but she knew it was my penis. Again, she didn’t say a word, she didn’t leave, she didn’t get up, she didn’t move and she didn’t stop me. I remember reaching to pull her pants down, this time she grabbed her pants so I couldn’t pull them down, I stopped. Continued rubbing my dick on her butt and later on tried to pull down her pants again because come on she’s letting me rub my dick on her butt. She grabbed her pants so I couldn’t pull them down again so I stopped that time for good, she didn’t want that so I didn’t do it.

I instead reach for her hand, when I grabbed it there was no resistance, her arm was limp. I put it on my dick, she left it there for a while then moved it back over to the front of her. I’m thinking “okay.. maybe she’s shy and doesn’t know what to do.” I grab her arm again, it’s once again limp, no resistance and I put it back on my dick and gently assist her with grabbing it and moving her hand up and down. Once I start the motion she takes it over and does it herself, I let go, I put my arms behind my head and enjoy it. Later on while she’s doing that she says “I have some lotion in my purse we can use that” this was the first thing she’s said all night. I say “okay” and she gets up, grabs her lotion, puts it on her hand, grabs my dick and continues to give me a hand job.

My brother is on the top bunk sleeping and he lets out this loud fart and that’s when she says “okay I’m done” because he’s farted a few times throughout the night and I guess that made things awkward. I say “okay” I get up and leave the room to go to the bathroom to finish off myself. I come back to the room, I lay down and go to sleep. The next morning she’s in the chair on the other side of the room saying she felt like a “hoe.” I don’t think much of it and I tell her not to feel that way. We were childhood friends by the way. They left, we talked about it over messaging and were talking about how “at least we didn’t have sex” because we agreed in way that it wasn’t really something we should have done.

Later on that summer she ends up telling her mom that I forced her to do those things, her mother calls my mother and my mother ask me if I forced her. I’m like what the hell is going on and I tell her no, my mother even tells her mother that’s not something I would do. Like seriously how do you force someone to give you a f~~~ing hand job? Throughout that entire night she could have said no or left the room, got off the bed, made up some excuse to go to the bathroom or better yet she could of woken up her mother who was sleeping in the other room. But she didn’t, and here she is claiming I forced her. Eventually she admits to her mother it was mutual and all things were solved.

We even stayed Facebook friends and she commented on my post occasionally and such. Now something you guys have to know about me, I have OCD. My brain obsesses over things and I need definite evidence for stuff so I can feel okay. I make up irrational things in my head some times and even though I know it’s not true I still obsess over them. Years later, my sophomore year in high school, I lost my virginity. My OCD was messing with me saying I “wasn’t” a virgin and didn’t lose my virginity to my (now ex) because somehow that night when I was 13 and was rubbing my dick on that girls butt it must have somehow penetrated her through her clothes (which didn’t happen.) I knew it didn’t happen, but to put my mind at ease I felt the need to confirm it.

I message that girl telling her I recently lost my virginity and I told her my OCD was playing tricks on my mind and I was scared that I might have accidentally penetrated her that night when I was 13. I wanted a simple confirmation so my mind could rest. Instead, it turned into this girl telling me that I sexually assaulted her that night & that I forced her to give me a hand job. She claimed that the whole time I was moving her hand up and down. I’m on a walk with my friend while this happens and I’m like “what the hell?” when I see this message. I explain to him everything and he tells me she’s just trying to put me down and we came to the conclusion that she feels bad about what she did, so she’s trying to blame me for her actions by saying I sexually assaulted her. I ask why she didn’t say no, I ask her why she didn’t leave then if she didn’t want it, I ask why would she tell me she has lotion in her purse to assist with her giving me a hand job if she didn’t want to do that.

I remember putting BOTH of my hands behind my head while SHE was giving me a hand job. When she said she was done, I got up and went to the bathroom to finish off. I didn’t force her to do anything and she was claiming that I couldn’t “remember” correctly because I have “OCD.” When I do remember everything but my OCD likes to mess with my head and make me think that I might have “missed” something that could have resulted in what I’m obsessing over. The conversation ended with me being empathetic and saying I didn’t mean to make her feel that way and that I wasn’t trying to do anything like that and telling her that if I didn’t care I wouldn’t still be talking to her about this. She didn’t respond to that message, so I blocked her. Instead of obsessing about what I was obsessing about prior to that conversation, I was now obsessing about how I felt like a sexual assaulter even though I didn’t force her to do anything and I was depressed.

That’s not even the last story, there’s another one but that’s long too and I feel like I should stop here. I’ve already posted the last story on Reddit and heard what I needed to hear there from the guys so I wasn’t obsessing over feeling like some kind of sexual assaulter, they told me to be more careful because women pull bulls~~~ like that. But what led me to ultimately joining MGTOW was by realizing how society has trained women to think in a way that they are better than us, society tells us to “open a door” for a woman but not a man. Society tell us to not a hit a woman even if she hits us first. Society basically is telling us to value a woman more than we value ourselves and other men. Why can’t we be told to view everyone as a person and value everyone the same? I’m also tired of the treatment women give us. How they make us feel like we’re “wrong” or “bad” for a being a natural man. Seeing brothers going to jail for false accusation’s and these women getting off free even though it was proven that she was lying and accused that man falsely. It’s wrong and everyday it’s being overlooked as something that isn’t important. But the moment something happens to a woman.. All hell breaks loose.

I’m scared to tell people these stories sometimes because I feel like they won’t believe me simply because of the fact that I am a man. It’s even scarier that women can say someone did something to them and they will be believed simply because they are a woman. I also hate how our society functions right now. “Men do this, men do that” “Men have to go approach and deal with rejection like they don’t get their feelings hurt.” Once a woman told me her biggest fear was rejection, which was why she was scared to talk to this one guy. I told her “approach the man you like. Men have to deal with rejection all the time.” There’s men out there whose biggest fear is rejection, too. But they are forced to approach women in our society or else they face a lifetime of loneliness. It’s not fair that men have to endure this, but not women. What p~~~es me off more is women get angry or treat a man bad because he approaches her, but it’s YOU who are making us do the approaching. Maybe if it were WOMEN doing the approaching, they wouldn’t have to scream “sexual harassment!” because men would know that if a woman likes them, she will approach them. But we DON’T know and WON’T know EVER unless we make an attempt to approach. If women have a f~~~ing problem with that, then tell us what you f~~~ing want instead of being a hard to read subliminal bitch who assumes every man has the super power to read minds.

To me, women are selfish, cruel, lying, ungrateful, unappreciative, succubus.  I am so glad I haven’t gotten any woman pregnant. I would kill myself if I had to endure a life time of suffering and imprisonment with one of those succubus. I refuse to get married and refuse to have a child, if society won’t change then dammit I WILL.

 

To hell with those lying evil bitches, I want justice for my falsely accused brothers!! <b>US MEN NEED JUSTICE</b>. These evil succubus will do anything to get what they want, even ruin a mans life and that is just sad. Brothers please be safe..

Please share your stories of false accusations below, it’s good to know we aren’t alone with things like this.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Damn. You’ve been through some s~~~ty situations. I suppose this is good in a way- you got a wake-up call early in life, before you invested countless amounts of money and precious time in women. Many men are not that lucky. The way I see it, most men are unlucky- they are blue-pillers and most are stuck being resource centers for women for their lives. A smaller but steadily growing minority are red-pillers (they are lucky to have recognized what’s going on)…but even among these guys, most of them are married or have been married and burned in a divorce. You are in the minority of the minority…you have been lucky enough to be a red-piller AND evade the marriage trap. So I think you should be celebrating.

I posted my story in the following link: /forums/topic/the-time-i-was-falsely-accused-of-sexual-harassment/

It’s not nearly as serious as yours, but yeah it happened to me in 8th grade…so it was scary at the time.

They say that success is the best revenge. 12 years from now, when you’re at your HS reunion, you will taste the sweet sweet taste of revenge when you show how hard you worked and how successful you are at life. Just focus on that and keep moving on. Take AP credits if you want to eventually go to college- it’ll help you graduate early. Take Honors classes to challenge yourself. Study hard. Be involved in sports or extracurriculars outside of school.

Also, in the future, keep maintaining text messages and save evidence like you did before.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

You have learned your lesson the hard way about women. I can’t imagine what it’s like to have your feelings betrayed by someone who only serves to toy with you then ruin you once their done playing with you. This is how women. Do not hate them. Simply avoid them.

I have never had a sexual harassment charge against me. Do you know why? I live a life of self discipline and focus that prevents women from using me. In my everyday life I don’t give them attention.  I don’t text them and I don’t touch them. I work on projects and engage in hobbies that require little to no interaction with women. At work im on a hi bye basis with women. Im not sexist or paranoid. Im just wise and cautious. I encourage you to do the same. It’s wierd at first but ive developed a more disciplined sex drive and have more confidence in what I do knowing people can’t use my sex against me.

You sound like a pretty sincere guy who wants to trust people you feel connected with. 99 percent of the time you can’t do this with women. Giving them 100 percent of your trust will set men up for failure.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[MulattoParticipant 26]

Thank you so much for your replies brothers and for the insight and advice.. I will be reading your story Oneforfreedom, by the way I do indeed take AP & all Honor’s classes, I have been since I started Highschool. I also plan to go to college and become a programmer. I don’t do any extra-curricular activities because I like to spend my time on my own projects such as programming or learning languages or practicing a skill or perfecting an instrument. But I will look at doing so if any interest me enough when school starts again.

Thanks again, your responses really mean’s a lot to me. Not everyone cares enough to read all of that and it’s good to know there are people out there that do.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

That’s amazing; programming/CS is hot right now. You’re going to do very well for yourself!

[NinjaParticipant 39]

Damn, my friend, you’ve already been through hell, those high school incidents are killer it can’t get any worse than it already has now…well…if you still continued down the path and got a girl pregnant. But you aren’t going to so I applaud you for your decision to go your own way.

Oneforfreedom wrote:

That’s amazing; programming/CS is hot right now. You’re going to do very well for yourself!

I second this, being a programmer myself this area of the industry is in demand right now, it takes a lot of hard work succeed in this field. I advise you to work on your coding projects early, don’t wait for college. And if you do decide to enroll in higher education, you will barely see any women in computer sciences, I know I didn’t…

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

Damn I’m a Junior in high school and I don’t bother with girls. Good thing I go to a trade school where 95% of my trade is male.

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

I’m here if you  want my opinion on it  since I’m around the same age, etc

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Wow. Just f~~~ing wow. I can’t even begin to comprehend the evil that has to run through someones mind to do that s~~~ to someone. To almost ruin their life over a whim. Actually, I can. It’s all due to the fact that women aren’t held accountable for their actions, thus, no responsibility to begin with.

I’m so glad you’re ok though.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

I’ve been falsely accused before, thanks to irrational women behavior in my teen years.

For a few weeks, in what I think was my first year of high school, I liked this one attractive girl. All I had the courage to do, however, was say hi to her as I passed by her locker every day for homeroom. “Hello” and “good morning”, and that was it. I was too shy to say anything else. She was in three of my classes. Just a nod and a smile was sent to her and that was it.

6 or 7 weeks later, I’m summoned to the principal’s office. The principal and the VP are both there. They told me that this girl went bitching to them that I was “stalking” her and that she was “scared”. I was stunned almost to the point of tears. I had done nothing wrong. I remembered gripping my hair in my fist with frustration as I wondered how saying hello to a girl could be considered the act of a stalker.

The school administration knew me enough to know that I’m not a creep or a gangster. I was one of those bookworm nerds, scarcely seen without a book under my arm or in my hand. Hell, I preferred the library over recess in elementary school. The VP reassured me that I wasn’t in trouble, but I was advised to keep my distance just in case.

Damn straight I would! Shock turned to infuriating anger and bitterness. How dare this bitch turn me in for stalking when I just said hi to her and was too goddamned shy to even start a conversation?! I avoided her like hell for weeks. The only girl at school I dared to talk to was my younger sister, who skipped a couple of grades and ended up into my grade. I told her what happened because we were in class together when I had been called to the office. My sister was p~~~ed and said, “that’s bulls~~~. You’re completely harmless.”

Within a few weeks, this same damn girl who ratted on me had the nerve to approach me and ask, “are you mad at me?” F~~~ing attention whore. I guess she realized that she liked my usual morning greeting after all because it made her feel respected and liked.

I blew up at her and said I’m not in a mood to hear her crap after she made such a bulls~~~ accusation about me in the first place when I was nothing but nice to her. She tried to apologize and said that she overreacted.

“I would have accepted your apology if you said you were sorry several weeks ago.” I said. I then said that she made me sick and something like how she better get the hell out of my face or I’d tell the VP that SHE is stalking and scaring me. I remembered calling her a “stupid bitch” as I stormed away from her. I also remembered that she was crying when I walked away. We never talked again.

This incident helped cement the realization that MOST girls are dumb bitches who will gladly tell lies to destroy another guy’s reputation and standing in society. 6 years later, a cheating fiancee made me go MGTOW with the realization that ALL women may not be like that, but they are ALL capable of changing for the worse if it suits them. I had been MGTOW for 4 years by the time I discovered the online sensation of MGTOW in 2009, and it’s been a pleasant 6 years ever since.

[RennieParticipant]

mgtow_85 wrote:

She tried to apologize and said that she overreacted

Overreacted is an understatement.

mgtow_85 wrote:

This incident helped cement the realization that MOST girls are dumb bitches who will gladly tell lies to destroy another guy’s reputation and standing in society.

Yup, I didn’t have any incidents with false sexual accusations in high school, but I did have to endure alot of malicious gossip and slander, spread by these piece of trash girls and other seriously messed up people. I survived though because I am tough mentally and turning my back on the whole system was easy since I had already been doing my own thing for several years.

mgtow_85 wrote:

I had been MGTOW for 4 years by the time I discovered the online sensation of MGTOW in 2009, and it’s been a pleasant 6 years ever since.

Since discovering MGTOW my life has also become much more peaceful and happy as well. Never going back either.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Honestly I cannot fathom how women could do such cruel things to men…

Once upon a time long ago, I asked that very question to an older and wiser male friend. The answer is: “It’s because they can.”

Think of it this way. A rattlesnake will bite you, because that is its nature and because it can.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Lazarus LongParticipant 365]

I agree with RoyDal it is their nature. The other piece is that they do not view men as the same species as they are. Men are considered nothing more than draft animals, so to them its okay to destroy a mans life he means less than a f~~~ing cat to them.

OP I was reading your story and the thing that kept coming into my mind was that you need to realize (and you may have by now) that women refuse to take responsibility and they believe it is not only acceptable to blame a man but nearly a requirement otherwise they cannot retain victim status. The accusations turn them into a victim and absolve them of any wrong doing in their mind. That is how the hive works once a man takes the blame the women is absolved to the rest of the hive and can then go do whatever else they want and then blame another man or even the same man for future actions, anything so long as the victim status keeps them from the consequences of their actions.

Unfortunately men, as a group, are at least partly to blame for this since men put women on a pedestal and allowed them to reign over them. It was incredibly ingrained but you young MGTOW and others like you are actually giving me hope that the cycle can be broken. Unfortunately this will require much work and education of our children to make this more than just an anomaly in the scheme of time.

Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

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