I miss the times when all my friends were single.

[wolf94Participant 14]

When could really have fun at bars, clubs, concerts, drink all night, try our luck with drunk hoes and ocasionally bone one. I also miss the times when we could go to the seaside and all share the same room or tent, without them being constrained by their roasties. I goddamn hate those f~~~ing roasties, I wish I could break them up so we could be the old we, but that doesn’t seem like happening…

I always thought that once we start working we will have even more fun, go to cooler parties, do coke and other stuff, etc. We still hang out once a week, but I feel that they are getting less and less exciting because of their relationships. They also complain about them a lot.

[Anonymous 42]

wolf94 wrote:

I always thought that once we start working we will have even more fun, go to cooler parties, do coke and other stuff, etc. We still hang out once a week, but I feel that they are getting less and less exciting because of their relationships.

Bro, Coke and partying is an endless tease that never satisfies, try doing totally different things that winners do for excitement and pleasure, there’s a whole world of better things than partying and the temporary pleasures of a women.

Stop looking backward with lust and start looking forward with ZEAL! You’re in a single seat sportster, start driving like one! You’re MISSING ALL THE FUN!

[Anonymous 11]

You ought to see how the booze hounds and coke heads look at age 50. That is, if they make it that long.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

It’s easier to get into a relationship than out of one. So you are right about things not changing soon for your friends, even if they are unhappy.
Don’t wait for them. Plan your own good times. You could even report back to them though I reckon they will admire your lifestyle from afar rather than using it as the inspiration to go MGTOW themselves.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

What friends?

They wold throw in under a buss becouse they master pussy told them.

They where never your friends, otherwise they wold still be around.

Those are party buddy’s, not friends.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

I’m sure they miss the time when they were single too. If not, they will soon.

The majority of my friends are married and miserable. The old times will never return though. If they leave their belugas they’ll be saddled with debt and forced to work even more.

Just realize this is how victory is. Sometimes you win alone.

[Anonymous 0]

Trapper wrote:

Just realize this is how victory is. Sometimes you win alone.

Well said!

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Trapper wrote:

Just realize this is how victory is. Sometimes you win alone.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 38]

You’ve got to step off the hedonistic treadmill eventually. Rather sooner than later.
It’s nice to reminisce, but don’t wallow in the past. Embrace the new life that comes from leaving old destructive habits behind.

[Anonymous 14]

With you on all of that OP except WTF are Roasties??? lol No, really, what are they?

The best days of any dog’s life are when he is young, able bodied, and has his pack around him, no different for men. I miss the great years I had from, s~~~, 12 to 22 or so, back before all my old friends went their separate ways. At least half of the dreams I still have I am in that age range somehow reliving it all in various ways in my sleep night after night.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

That’s a tough one. My son is 27 and doesn’t wants to marry. Watching me get raped cured him of that. All his buddies are making babies and being miserable, so his social circle is dwindling. Many of those guys will divorce and if you can stay in touch without p~~~ing off his lil woman enough to alienate you. There is high chance they will return.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Yea, I miss my teenage years too. Now, they are all a distant memory. All are married or divorced (working 18 jobs) to support the ex and current c~~~ (or side c~~~).

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

The number of “best friends” I had who told me that we’re “brothers/best friends forever” and then never talk to me again after their wedding could fill a f~~~ing GREYHOUND bus.

They didn’t want me as a friend. Just as an excuse to hang out or talk to someone until the wedding night, when their first-time sex as a married couple reels them in and they’re willing to do whatever it takes for their wife to give them another session.

The wife makes her demands. “You can’t hang out with your single friends anymore. We’re a respectable married couple and we should only hang out with OTHER couples.”
And that’s why I never see or hear from them again.
ONE so-called “friend” approached me a month after his wedding. He said his wife doesn’t want him to keep his single friends anymore. He couldn’t even look me in the eye, the f~~~ing little s~~~.
I said, “Let me guess. She’s making YOU get rid of all YOUR friends while she continues to keep hers AND to make more!”
He didn’t say a single word. Just kept staring at the ground.

“Get the f~~~ out of my face,” I said. “You make me SICK. Four weeks married, and you’re letting her decide your entire life for you. A REAL man doesn’t cave in to ultimatums from wives about who their friends should be. ESPECIALLY when those friends have been around longer than the wife.”

He never said a word. Just turned around and walked away still staring at the ground.

6 years later, he got divorced from that same bitch. Three days later, he’s announcing his engagement to ANOTHER catch who drifted his way. Insisting that SHE is the ONE, even though he said those same words six years earlier about his FIRST mistake.
I’m friends with some of his family members because we were all pretty close in our church. That’s how I know the story.

About a year ago, one married couple that I know in my neighborhood would be inviting me to dinner on occasion at their house. I’ve known the guy for two years. He’d fix my laptop whenever it broke down and gave it a new operating system before it broke down for the last time nine months ago and I just decided to spring for a new one.
He invited me to dinner almost eight months ago. Then just a day before the dinner, he texts me to say that the invite is cancelled because he and his wife are starting to fight. Apparently, she doesn’t want me dining with them anymore because she thinks I’m weird for focusing on my job instead of focusing on finding a girlfriend/wife, and she doesn’t need that “kind of influence”. He said, “I’ll text you in a day or two and see if you and I can try to hang out together somewhere else.”

I never saw or heard from him ever again.
And it’s gotta be REALLY hard for that to happen. We live three houses away from each other, AND go to the same church.

I don’t bother making friends anymore. It’s a waste of time because if they’re single, they’ll eventually get married and you’ll never see them again. If they ARE married, well, the wife will have her way soon enough because she gets to have full control in who his friends are, and then you’ll never see them again.

[CurmudgeonParticipant 64]

Carnage wrote:

Those are party buddy’s, not friends.

Wolf 94: Party buds are different from loyal friends. I have many party memories from years ago too…cherish them. Develop your skills/hobbies and your mental/spiritual life. You won’t regret it. Peace

No Bills No Boss No Bitch

[AttonParticipant]

Just wait for the divorces.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

It was fun back in the day. But Im glad its over and Im glad I never had a one night stand.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[ghostParticipant]

Kaido wrote:

It was fun back in the day. But Im glad its over and Im glad I never had a one night stand.

It is now the future of Kaido. It is about you now.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3753]

I sometimes hear people say they miss being young, etc.

Personally, I would never go back. My life rules now ! And it’s getting better all the time.

I see what you’re saying though, it is sad to see friends disappear just because of their relations~~~s with manipulative c~~~s.

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