Correct Soulman. I tangled with an insane gold digging whore who fooled me with her smiles and nice girl BS (wish I could post her name because this one is a vicious hunter who goes by a childish nickname SKYGYRL ). I had just graduated from pharmacy school, was single, no kids, nice condo, cars, etc. A friend of mine introduced me to pof one night out of pure boredom – total mistake. I never even logged onto pof to search. Then one day I got a message from her on pof, which I ignored. Then she kept sending messages for like 4 months (she found a good potential prey-item/meal and just wouldn’t give up -l0l) so I finally responded to her and went on a date (BIGGEST MISTAKE).
She seemed too good to be true but I ignored the red flags and fell for her. In about a month she was talking marriage and how I was the perfect guy for her. Slowly she started calling my exes and cussing them out for nothing, basically trying to run everyone away from me who might want me back someday – common tactic used by manipulators by the way. All the while she was buying me little gifts, sending me sweet cards in the mail, and gaining the trust of my family. Keep in mind that I am paying for everything ex.- restaurants, movies, gas , gifts, etc for her with my new 6 figure salary. Fast forward about 1 year and the monster finally emerged -OMG.
She liked to break up over the dumbest crap every 1-2 months. She actually wanted to break up one night because I didn’t want to watch the movie “The Lincoln Lawyer” after a 12 hour shift, huh? are you serious?. I realized I had made the mistake of being the nice guy with deep pockets. Long story short the manipulation stopped working on me and she became bored. I think she realized the hustle was over one day when we were at the mall. She was always hinting at these J-hoop diamond earrings she wanted and like a SIMP I was acting like I might surprise her with them one day. So we are standing there in the store (mind you we had just gotten back together after one of her frequent breakups / 2 week haitus she enjoyed so much) and she is looking at the earrings and says “Remember you said you would buy me these one day”. I look at her and smiled, acting like she was kidding and turned my attention to something else in the store. This whore then decides to buy them with her own money right then( but why not try to spend my cash first right). About 3 weeks later she finds another reason to break up- hmmmm I wonder why??? she realized I had wised up and her scam revealed. She was always (like twice per week guys) sticking her chest out and bragging about how she owned her own home and car ( you know like everybody else does in America??? l0l). I realized it was all she had to try and brag about- pitiful. House was so damn small you had to go outside to change your mind. I was always thinking to myself “I’m not moving into this shoebox with you? I make good money?
After I ceased all contact with her she kept texting me every month trying to see if she could still have me if she wanted. After about a year of that I finally said some real mean things to her via. text that made her finally leave me alone. She came off as the nicest girl but was a total bitter, manipulating gold digger with an agenda underneath. In retrospect I realize the only reason she contacted me on pof was -MONEY plain and simple. Smh. Just recently took the red pill with a full 8 oz of water.
RoyDal 4 years, 10 months ago.
My problem was a lot of them put up a facade of “I’m sweet and innocent” until the relationship trap was shut. Thankfully I never got welded in (AKA marriage). 
