I live, I die, I live again.

[VicParticipant 6]

I meant a metaphoric death. When something you lived by turns right around and bites you…
It happened to me, I saw it happen to my friends and family, and it probably happened to you. Likely even more than once huh?

Anyway I’m a 22 year old male who was just introduced to MGTOW.
I was always considered introverted and antisocial because I never put social life ahead of my own self improvement.
While everyone was drinking beer I was running and while they were hanging out I stayed home to read the ending of yet another book (Don’t get me wrong – I enjoyed it).
But the main issue everyone had was the obvious “You should get a girlfriend”…
See I never hated the idea but I had really high standards – I expected her to put as much effort into self improvement as I do.
I had a couple of girl friends that somehow met my standards but we always ended up breaking up because I either “Never called” and “Didn’t pay enough attention” or “Didn’t love her enough”.
I never understood their issues though… I wasn’t the one who initiated the relationships. I never bothered to actually pick up a girl. I’m not saying that I never felt infatuation while looking at a hot redhead or something. I just never bothered because I knew that this will cost me my personal time and space which I value more than a nicely shaped woman.
But for my most recent GF I decided to change a little (A LOT). I tried to be the best partner I can… It turned out a total disaster and I’m still heart broken and lovesick.
I’m making it too long huh?
Well I guess when I found MGTOW I understood that I was sort of like that from the start and that it’s just for me.
So I’m going back to my old ways.

My name is Victor.
I’m Russian, 22 year old, and live in Israel.
Ex Anti-Terror special unit.
Currently studying medicine.

"There's nothing more dangerous than a man who wants to make the world a better place" - Banksy.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I’m glad you made it. Keep up living your life on your terms: It’s a good plan.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[JustfiguredthingsoutParticipant 23]

Welcome Victor….funny I always think of this as American western women issues…but hearing your story reminds me these crazy ass women are universal…you have come to the right place…..look into the archives tons of wisdom in there..

[VicParticipant 6]

RoyDal wrote:

Welcome! I’m glad you made it. Keep up living your life on your terms: It’s a good plan.

Will do.
I don’t plan on making the same mistake again.

Justfiguredthingsout wrote:

Welcome Victor….funny I always think of this as American western women issues…but hearing your story reminds me these crazy ass women are universal…you have come to the right place…..look into the archives tons of wisdom in there..

Well it’s probably because Israel is like US’s daughter country.
My generation is somewhat ok, while the new ones are a copy of everything western (Mainly US but some of EU as well).

Welcome

You sound like me..

Search my postings…

Stealthy Mgtow

I know this story can probably apply to somewhere around 20% of the male population.
Will do.

"There's nothing more dangerous than a man who wants to make the world a better place" - Banksy.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Vic wrote:

See I never hated the idea but I had really high standards – I expected her to put as much effort into self improvement as I do.
I had a couple of girl friends that somehow met my standards but we always ended up breaking up because I either “Never called” and “Didn’t pay enough attention” or “Didn’t love her enough”.

Welcome sir. You are in the right place. Advice to you as a fellow 22 year old guy who just graduated university and finishing a second degree: stop having standards for women. They are children. Very attractive children but children nonetheless. Once they get careers and money it only gets worse. There are many women that will meet your high standards in terms of being responsible and mature adults. However, this is a phase. They are waiting for a man to take care of them and give them a child so they can stop the ruse. Faking it till they make it. This is what makes them children.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Welcome Rocknrolla! This place will provide you with plenty of peace and reassurance that you were on the right path to begin with, you just happened to take the wrong turn at Albuquerque, as the wise Bugs Bunny would say. A lot of us here have taken that wrong turn, hell I took the wrong turn to the point of marriage, now I’m trying to navigate back to finding a path of my own again. I don’t think you were led to far from your old path, I doubt it’s grown over just yet, so get back on it and keep on keeping on. And when some mangy wild female creature asks if she can come a long, do what’s best, do what’s right, and put it down…357 magnum normally does the trick, or I guess there may be other options, you decide.

But we all walk our own own paths here, but they just run parallel of one another, and if you ever start to stray, just open this site back up, and take a red pill or two…it’ll get you back on track. Thanks for sharing and good luck with everything! Hope to see you on the front lines in the forums.

[Anonymous 29]

Vic wrote:

I decided to change a little (A LOT). I tried to be the best partner I can… It turned out a total disaster

While its almost impossible not to change, to some degree when getting into a relationship. Never ever change until she changes first and it agrees with your needs and not hers.
Welcome to MGTOW.

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