I knew you were out there, just took some time to find you!

[OasisParticipant 2]

Hello all,

A year and a half ago I ended a 4-year relationship that, at one point, could have sailed on towards marriage.

People change.

Towards the end I felt that I was being emotionally abused. Also, she had lost the desire to better herself and seemed to only be interested in matrimony and bearing children. I was making advances at work, saving money, and in the market to purchase a home. The trap was set. I saw this and ended the relationship.

After giving myself some time off I searched around for another female companion, but I could never seem to pinpoint what I was looking for. I find that online dating is just a joke. Entertainment for women and a resource for men who interested in a quick bag-and-tag (not hating, just speaking my mind). What women say they want and what they go home with at the end of the night are two completely different things, but I’m guessing I’m preaching to the choir at this point.

I’m not currently searching for a companionship (except for dogs) at the moment and I’m becoming more and more OK with the idea that I may never find myself a female counterpart. I’ve stopped actively searching, although I won’t deny myself the opportunity to engage with a woman if one is presented to me. I’ve started focusing more on my hobbies. I participate in more activities now than I ever did when I was in a relationship. Looking back over the years I can’t believe how I let being in a relationship keep me from my hobbies! I save more money, I am no longer in debt, and I’m the only one I have to answer to!

The more and more I read, the more I find that I am not alone. You all have been out there this whole time! This gives me even more strength and conviction to continue being a MGTOW. I have not rejected women, nor do I intend to, but what I WILL do is carve out a new path for myself that focuses on freedom, adventure, and independence.

Thank you for this site!

I know now that my story is not unique, and I look forward to reading some of your own stories and experiences!

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

Welcome brother and make yourself at home.

[mackiavelicParticipant 226]

What women say they want and what they go home with at the end of the night are two completely different things, but I’m guessing I’m preaching to the choir at this point.

That you can be sure about.  welcome among us dude

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome to the land of free men! (My dog is a Doberman from a rescue group, by the way.)

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[OasisParticipant 2]

That’s excellent, RoyDal. Man’s best friend. Just a few more fences to put up and I’ll be able to start hitting up the shelter for a pal of my own!

 

Nice to meet you all!

[….Participant 305]

Welcome to another dog lover!  I wouldn’t trade my 2 boys for a harem  lol    It’s good to hear you’re going to a shelter…  @Roy Dal  My 2 dogs also come from a shelter …  way to go!

[RoyDalParticipant]

“If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they went.”
― Will Rogers

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[….Participant 305]

@ Roy Dal…second that…dogs really are mans best friend!

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

Welcome to mgtow  I trust this guy more than my X.  Enjoy the forum.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

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