"I just wanna get to know her" F~~~ing gag me.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Settle in bros, this might be a long one. I apologize if it seems I left something out, I don’t remember every minute detail about the conversation.

So I was out at a concert that my friend put on, it was his first as the headliner. After the show we headed out to the nearby Pizza Pizza. One of my friends(we’ll call him Pat) was telling us about a girl he was talking to recently who I guess he met a while ago but never really had a chance to spend time with and he said that he told her he just wanted to get to know her(obviously he’s hoping for something) and her response was simply “Aww” or something like that. He asked her if that was good or bad, did that mean he was still in the friendzone? I forget if he said she ever got back to him about it. At that point one of his female friends that was with us chimed in and said she was talking to the same girl and that girl(I don’t know her name or I forgot) was asking her about Pat, was he a good guy or an asshole because she apparently got burned by asshole guys in the past(surprise, surprise). She said to Pat that she told the girl he was a good guy(which he is). At this point I swear I was biting my tongue so hard I’ll probably have teeth marks in it for a week. I was thinking about red-pilling him but with 3 broads with us it didn’t seem like a good idea at the time. Anyway, just had to vent about it, when I see or hear about blue-pill bullcrap like that and I can’t say anything it’s just irritating. Especially when he is a good guy, I don’t want to see him go through that stuff. I don’t see him very often so it’s not like I’ll get another chance any time soon. Should I have said something anyway?

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

He asked her if that was good or bad, did that mean he was still in the friendzone?

When a man asks a woman for validation, he has lost. He should be the one deciding how things go. He is allowing her to set the scene/atmosphere. These are the types of guys who get easily drawn into the pussy. They are too worried about not getting pussy so they take extra extra precaution, by being super nice and treading super carefully.

We MGTOWs do not give a f~~~ what she thinks.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

She said to Pat that she told the girl he was a good guy(which he is).

That right there killed any chance of that dude getting access to her pussy. Also if she was into him she already would be at his place moving heaven and earth to screw his brains out so yes he is in the friend zone and he probably has no idea how to ever get out of it.

You can try to give him a few red pills or even direct him to this website but unless a guy is ready and willing to do it on his own you will never be able to force him to see your viewpoint. Blue pill men can only dig themselves out of the programming they are buried under.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Rhino wrote:

Blue pill men can only dig themselves out of the programming they are buried under.

Perfect. You can bring the horse to the water, but you can’t make it drink.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Believe me I WANTED to redpill him but as I said the circumstances weren’t right as we were with 3 chicks at the time, and I don’t often get a chance to see him.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[bstoffParticipant 4869]

If that girl told her that he was “bad news” she would have raped him that night.
Can I get an “amen”?

[Anonymous 11]

Amen!

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

he said that he told her he just wanted to get to know her

If he were red pill, he’d already know her and every single other one on the face of the Earth. They all work from the same script.

[Anonymous 12]

Amen!

[NomadicExpatParticipant 1785]

“Awwwww….” response?

As in, “Awwww…. isnt that sweet….?”

PERMA-FRIENDZONE

He has already lost the game, before even playing. Move along, move along….

Only way he’s getting access is if he’s licking her crotch while she cries about Chad leaving her in the dust.

Hes an emotional tampon, nothing more.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Amen to the king!

Yea the “Aww” response is an automatic DQ

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

ScarberianMGTOW wrote:

He asked her if that was good or bad, did that mean he was still in the friendzone?

When a man asks a woman for validation, he has lost. He should be the one deciding how things go. He is allowing her to set the scene/atmosphere. These are the types of guys who get easily drawn into the pussy. They are too worried about not getting pussy so they take extra extra precaution, by being super nice and treading super carefully.

We MGTOWs do not give a f~~~ what she thinks.

Correct! Go it alone! Trailblaze! Validate yourself! Now that’s WORK!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

“Aww”, f~~~ing “Aww” and he doesn’t know where he stands? We are failing to train our boys in basic communications with women.

If a woman likes you she will not keep her hands off you. I know this from experience but I was also told this on a match.com date by a woman.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Walk away, if she’s a unicorn she’ll follow you, then, if you have real character of spirit, you’ll keep walking even then! Trail blaze, always!

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[AttonParticipant]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Believe me I WANTED to redpill him but as I said the circumstances weren’t right as we were with 3 chicks at the time, and I don’t often get a chance to see him.

Sometimes even in-front of those bigots just red pill him no harm is done.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Aww

^Short form for “Aww I can see that you have high hopes for having sex with me and that you’re willing to do almost anything to achieve that. I am so going to put you through many proverbial obstacle courses, extract as much freebies from you as possible in the process, and you’re still not going to get a f~~~ at the end of the day.”

He f~~~ed up even more by asking you what her response might mean in the presence of a gal who knows her.

Calling him a good guy was confirmation that she (the gal he’s interested in) can easily get what she wants from him without putting out.

You should get him one on one with you and give him a Red Pill breakdown of what is going on ASAP.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[MonkParticipant 17019]

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

… and that girl(I don’t know her name or I forgot) was asking her about Pat, was he a good guy or an asshole because she apparently got burned by asshole guys in the past( …

Good guy: Has money, easily manipulated. Potential beta-slave.

Asshole: One who got away.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Doubt he would’ve listened to you. Sounds like he is a good guy who has gotten sucked in to a black hole that won’t even get him laid. I can’t add any additional comments from my fellow posters above.

Rhino nailed it below:

Rhino wrote:

That right there killed any chance of that dude getting access to her pussy. Also if she was into him she already would be at his place moving heaven and earth to screw his brains out so yes he is in the friend zone and he probably has no idea how to ever get out of it.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

bstoff wrote:

If that girl told her that he was “bad news” she would have raped him that night.
Can I get an “amen”?

A-f~~~in-men!

Trust me, guys, I already knew all of this stuff you’re saying. The sad part is he doesn’t. Next time I’m hanging out with him I’ll try and get him alone for a minute and school his blue-pill ass.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[QuietlyquietlyParticipant 728]

Akanbi wrote:

Aww
^Short form for “Aww I can see that you have high hopes for having sex with me and that you’re willing to do almost anything to achieve that. I am so going to put you through many proverbial obstacle courses, extract as much freebies from you as possible in the process, and you’re still not going to get a f~~~ at the end of the day.”

This. Is. Gold.

ScarberianMPTGL wrote:

Believe me I WANTED to redpill him but as I said the circumstances weren’t right as we were with 3 chicks at the time, and I don’t often get a chance to see him.

This is a good separate topic. Do you/should you school your friend in front of women? It sounds like you were afraid of the women’s responses, which, although I don’t like to say it, makes you still a bit blue pill on that front.

A better response would have been to USE those women to validate your red pill views. That way your friend wins by being schooled, and you win by showing the women that you don’t give a f~~~ for blue pill ways. They’ll all leave their bar stools soaking wet, for you.

Try it next time. It’s magic.

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Quietlyquietly wrote:

ScarberianMGTOW wrote:

Believe me I WANTED to redpill him but as I said the circumstances weren’t right as we were with 3 chicks at the time, and I don’t often get a chance to see him.

This is a good separate topic. Do you/should you school your friend in front of women? It sounds like you were afraid of the women’s responses, which, although I don’t like to say it, makes you still a bit blue pill on that front.

A better response would have been to USE those women to validate your red pill views. That way your friend wins by being schooled, and you win by showing the women that you don’t give a f~~~ for blue pill ways. They’ll all leave their bar stools soaking wet, for you.

Try it next time. It’s magic.

Welp, I never claimed to be one hundred percent red-pill yet. You’re right, I need to learn not to give a f~~~, however with them around it would be harder to get the message to sink in, and I haven’t yet learned how to turn that into my advantage. Plus, and this isn’t an excuse, we were all still on a high from my friend putting on his first show so I didn’t really want to bring down the mood. Maybe a mistake on my part? I’m still learning.

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

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