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Ricardo (Shadow) 3 years, 8 months ago.
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I know that you all understand how it all is already but I don’t think that at least some of you guys think of it this way.
Of course, females hit a wall at age 35. Also, of course girls look for guys with income and guys look for girls for their looks. I even want to point out that a lot of you guys complain that there are lots of morbidly obese middle aged women with children who feel way more entitled than they are worth.
I realized that if you are at least pleasant looking to the point that you are maybe 10-20 pounds overweight, have a lot of money and are just 35-40 years old, you can avoid all the girls in your age group all together and start dating the 20 something year old females. Remember, you satisfy their want of having a guy with a lot of resources and it is not like if you are really bad looking either. Meanwhile, those girls that have a lot of baggage have nothing to really offer to their age group because they are not pleasant looking or have any resources(guys only care if the girls are pleasant looking really). Just because of this, they are only gonna be delusional because of their self entitlement. They can only find a guy if they lower their requirements, or at least work on their body, which is their only real worth, just like a man’s real worth is his resources.
So, what I am saying is that instead of giving up online dating altogether, maybe you can work on yourself and maybe just play around with girls much younger than you, because at least they are the ones who put effort on themselves, just as much as you put effort on yourself.. We all know that we are not really a philosophy that believes in marrying a girl also, and I am sure that there are lot of 20 year somethings year old girls who don’t really want to marry too, because they just want to party. So in the end, it would work both ways.
Can this way of thinking get some guys to give online dating sites another chance? What do you think?
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
only problem is…….
there are some girls in online dating that have the settings set so they won’t date anyone more than 10 yrs older than them.MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.
If you feel compelled to date, then by all means have at it. For me, almost all women would have nothing other than sex to offer me. I’d rather have one as a self sufficient, independent friend to share thoughts with. However, since this is reality rather than fantasy, I just assume for the sake of convenience that there aren’t any out there like that, and that they most likely just want to extract resources from me. This is why I don’t bother dating. I really don’t see that it’s worth it, they pretty much all seem the same, so I’d rather focus that time developing myself. I highly recommend you focus developing yourself and then you wouldn’t have to try for sex anyway. Likewise, stiff them. Don’t give them a penny. Don’t be the atm machine, brother.
I have met more than 1 woman that somehow or accidentally listed their age as 5 years younger than it really is.
For example this one told list her age as 45, She told me “she was really 50 but she looks like she is 35”.
Why did she make this mistake. If she had her age as 50 she wouldn’t show up in any searches.
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If you feel compelled to date, then by all means have at it. For me, almost all women would have nothing other than sex to offer me. I’d rather have one as a self sufficient, independent friend to share thoughts with. However, since this is reality rather than fantasy, I just assume for the sake of convenience that there aren’t any out there like that, and that they most likely just want to extract resources from me. This is why I don’t bother dating. I really don’t see that it’s worth it, they pretty much all seem the same, so I’d rather focus that time developing myself. I highly recommend you focus developing yourself and then you wouldn’t have to try for sex anyway. Likewise, stiff them. Don’t give them a penny. Don’t be the atm machine, brother.
Man, I know that you are right. But my advise only caters to the people who do just want to play around with girls. I am sure that those 20 something girls just want to play around and party too though, because they want to use their beauty before they are not competitive anymore in the dating world. Some people here say that they just want to pay money for prostitutes, but if they play their cards right, they can at least have companionship dating girls for much cheaper, which means that you get better value in the long run. But I know, you are right, especially if you see it your way.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
I have met more than 1 woman that somehow or accidentally listed their age as 5 years younger than it really is.
For example this one told list her age as 45, She told me “she was really 50 but she looks like she is 35”.
Why did she make this mistake. If she had her age as 50 she wouldn’t show up in any searches.
I think that this woman should join a cougar site instead of just wasting people’s time.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
Online dating is grueling and disappointing for the most part. IMHO it’s better to get out and fish in person if you really want to bag some tuna. If you can get a broad to talk to you in person you can probably talk her into the sack if you act arrogant and aloof.
Online broads are looking at a catalog. It’s a proven fact that having more choices makes it much less likely that you’ll be satisfied with what you get. They are loaded with drama and hangups, and the massive number of desperate dudes filling their inbox with dick pics just serves to make them think they are special and men are pathetic.
Chad Thunderc~~~ may be an asshole, but he’s not stupid when it comes to scoring on the old fish taco. If your Kung Fu has any merit you’ll probably do better in person. Show up at the bar after the White Knights already paid for all her drinks and nachos. Stand close and act like you don’t give a s~~~ and watch the legs spread."I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin
Online dating is more rigged in favor of the woman overall. It used to be where you could pop onto CL and go to casual encounters and find some sweet hook ups with random chicks, not anymore.
“If this experiment has shown anything, it’s that men online face extreme competition with other men in getting noticed by women, especially the very attractive women.”
– http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/The best bet is to try a cougar site or some kind of f~~~buddy site that isn’t a scam(10% of the sites not being a scam). Or just straight up hit up public places and game that way. Online dating is a waste of time if you trying to hookup.
Im just going cold turkey, if I come into contact with a bitch in real life who wants to suck my dick then I will do it. But if it is some controlled environment like dating site or match maker, f~~~ that! Im not putting in any effort anymore(25yrs old).
Theronius, you crack me up sir with your vulgar and brutal honesty. You give style to rude, crude, and lewd 🙂
Online dating is more rigged in favor of the woman overall. It used to be where you could pop onto CL and go to casual encounters and find some sweet hook ups with random chicks, not anymore.
“If this experiment has shown anything, it’s that men online face extreme competition with other men in getting noticed by women, especially the very attractive women.”
– http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/The best bet is to try a cougar site or some kind of f~~~buddy site that isn’t a scam(10% of the sites not being a scam). Or just straight up hit up public places and game that way. Online dating is a waste of time if you trying to hookup.
Im just going cold turkey, if I come into contact with a bitch in real life who wants to suck my dick then I will do it. But if it is some controlled environment like dating site or match maker, f~~~ that! Im not putting in any effort anymore(25yrs old).
Man, I know your right. But in my defense, I think that guys are more likely to spam messages to everyone in their range of girls then the girls spamming messages to their range of guys, which is why you see more girls getting more messages.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
Online dating is more rigged in favor of the woman overall. It used to be where you could pop onto CL and go to casual encounters and find some sweet hook ups with random chicks, not anymore.
“If this experiment has shown anything, it’s that men online face extreme competition with other men in getting noticed by women, especially the very attractive women.”
– http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/The best bet is to try a cougar site or some kind of f~~~buddy site that isn’t a scam(10% of the sites not being a scam). Or just straight up hit up public places and game that way. Online dating is a waste of time if you trying to hookup.
Im just going cold turkey, if I come into contact with a bitch in real life who wants to suck my dick then I will do it. But if it is some controlled environment like dating site or match maker, f~~~ that! Im not putting in any effort anymore(25yrs old).
You got a point, but to my defense, I think that there is more of a chance for a guy to spam messages to every girl in his range compared to a girl spamming messages to every guy to her range. I did see a video request of a guy on youtube who actually said he spammed like 500 messages to girls on a dating web site once.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
Theronius, you crack me up sir with your vulgar and brutal honesty. You give style to rude, crude, and lewd
yeah, we need more people like him in this world.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
Online broads are looking at a catalog. It’s a proven fact that having more choices makes it much less likely that you’ll be satisfied with what you get. They are loaded with drama and hangups, and the massive number of desperate dudes filling their inbox with dick pics just serves to make them think they are special and men are pathetic.
God damn, you couldn’t be any more on the ball.
It’s just such a fun topic! Hahaha!
"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin
It’s just such a fun topic! Hahaha!
The only reason why I shut my mouth now is because of the cold hard facts that shadow showed which disputed everything, not because of you. But like I said before, there should be more people like you being brutally honest and all. I just hope that you can also think of lessening the blow in making someone lose face because in the end, you will show that you have more class. But I guess that the way you do things does not make it possible.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
There are only two problems with online dating: the online part, and the dating part.
For the online part, consider this: the only reason why any woman resorts to online dating is because she cannot cut it in real life. This can be for any of a number of reasons. Perhaps there is something she feels she needs to hide from men before getting a commitment to provide her with some benefit. or perhaps her personality is so odious that she has already burned through all the men she knows in real life and has to cast her nets further afield. Rest assured, though, that there is some reason why she is seeking through a detached, third party medium like the internet, and that reason is never good. And it is never worth your time to find out what it is.
Now as to the dating part, I’ve already said it before: don’t date. Dating has absolutely nothing to do with having fun with women. Dating is just a ritual intended to ease you into a more serious relationship with marriage, and divorce, as the endgame. If you have wisely chosen to decline marriage, and divorce, then you have zero reason to date. So don’t date. You can do everything you enjoy doing, in the company of women or not. If there is a movie you want to go see, there is no reason not to see it in the company of a woman. The same goes for sports events, activities, hobbies, whatever. You can f~~~ them if you so choose, all without ever needing to date them. You pay your own way, and let them pay theirs. And truth to tell, if you insist that they pay their own way they are far more likely to f~~~ you instead of just f~~~ing you over.
So if you can come up with a version of “online dating” that doesn’t involve being online or dating, I’ll look into it. Until then, I think the laydeez would be better off browsing http://www.petsmart.com/cat/cat-36-catid-200000 instead of craigslist, because any man with half a brain isn’t going to be there.
There are only two problems with online dating: the online part, and the dating part.
For the online part, consider this: the only reason why any woman resorts to online dating is because she cannot cut it in real life. This can be for any of a number of reasons. Perhaps there is something she feels she needs to hide from men before getting a commitment to provide her with some benefit. or perhaps her personality is so odious that she has already burned through all the men she knows in real life and has to cast her nets further afield. Rest assured, though, that there is some reason why she is seeking through a detached, third party medium like the internet, and that reason is never good. And it is never worth your time to find out what it is.
Now as to the dating part, I’ve already said it before: don’t date. Dating has absolutely nothing to do with having fun with women. Dating is just a ritual intended to ease you into a more serious relationship with marriage, and divorce, as the endgame. If you have wisely chosen to decline marriage, and divorce, then you have zero reason to date. So don’t date. You can do everything you enjoy doing, in the company of women or not. If there is a movie you want to go see, there is no reason not to see it in the company of a woman. The same goes for sports events, activities, hobbies, whatever. You can f~~~ them if you so choose, all without ever needing to date them. You pay your own way, and let them pay theirs. And truth to tell, if you insist that they pay their own way they are far more likely to f~~~ you instead of just f~~~ing you over.
So if you can come up with a version of “online dating” that doesn’t involve being online or dating, I’ll look into it. Until then, I think the laydeez would be better off browsing http://www.petsmart.com/cat/cat-36-catid-200000 instead of craigslist, because any man with half a brain isn’t going to be there.
Such class.
"Question everything" - Albert Einstein
Such class.
You have no idea.
Well said, Sidecar
Anonymous11There are only two problems with online dating: the online part, and the dating part.
Sidecar, I would not change a word you wrote. You are brutally concise, sir!
If your Kung Fu has any merit you’ll probably do better in person.
All you have to do it show up at the right place and wait. It’s just like fishing except I’m the predator fish chasing the bait. Alcohol is the turbulent water confusing the bait fish. The predatory fish expends as little energy as possible lurking just beyond the turbulence then rushes in to bag an opportunity. You’ve still got to watch out for those fish hooks though.
I’d estimate real life is fifty times more effective for me than online for actual c~~~ contacts per unit time spent.
Online is only for trolling and profile bulls~~~ting experimentation as far as I’m concerned these days basically entertainment value only.
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