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Girl from this thread: /forums/topic/what-it-really-means-to-gyow/
So because we kept running into each other near my neighbourhood, my thoughts were “Hey, free pussy on delivery, within walking distance. How cool is that?”
Well, it turned out too good to be true. She told me she has a boyfriend. This is usually a lie, and I’m going to assume that it IS a lie for argument’s sake. Not that I really care, she wasn’t even that attractive to me. It’s just the convenience aspect that got me curious.
But the point that I’m trying to make: it doesn’t matter to me anymore. Minutes after the event, my mind started to race with different thoughts. I’ve barely interacted with girls on this level since going MGTOW. So obviously, my reaction to this kind of thing is going to be varied. The voice in my head tried to attack me. Tell me I’m worthless, ugly, or any flaw it can come up with. But ultimately, the red pill did do its job, and I’m completely fine. Logic has overcome. I’m none of those nasty things.
I just find it interesting. When this kind of thing happened Pre-MGTOW, I’d go into a downward spiral which, at some point during the peak depression, led to suicidal thoughts. But not anymore. All that happened was she rejected my offer for sex. The only part of me that does feel regret, at least at first, was that I gave her an ego boost, which she definitely didn’t deserve. I just wanted what I thought was easy sex.
But that doesn’t matter either!!! Do you know why? Because what she is thinking is S~~~ to me. If she thinks that I’m down in my basement crying and feeling worthless, that’s good for her. Let her feel that way and take it in that context. If that’s what gives her her jollies, let her grow addicted to it, that way when I’m rich in 10 years, I can laugh in her face when she hits me up on facebook. And the fact that I kept swearing every four words when talking to her? So what if she didn’t like that? That’s how I talk and express myself, and I’m not going to change my behaviour because of who I’m talking to. I don’t do that for my parents, my boss, my grandma, and especially not for some f~~~ing girl I don’t know. The other thing? I didn’t bother to dress up that well. I’m taking my dog for a f~~~ing walk, not to impress everyone. I purposely chose clothes that would be comfortable. The biggest mistake a lot of guys make with these women is pretending they’re someone they aren’t, when all you gotta realize is you’re perfect how you are. That’s why women buy make up and are afraid to leave the house without it. They’re insecure, and they don’t want the world to know how f~~~ed up they really look http://akns-images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2014816/rs_1024x759-140916145217-1024-olivia-wilde-no-makeup.ls.91614_copy.jpg
Non MGTOWS: “Who are you kidding? You’re insecure yourself, that’s why you’re crying in this thread.”
Me: Hardly. I’m a MGTOW now, I don’t wait around for women to tell me how to feel about myself. That’s my own job.TL;DR She doesn’t like who I am? Her loss. She could have experienced eight orgasms in a row… now she NEVER will.
Brother, we need to stick together.
Good to see your mentally handling the rejection.
You aren’t the resource she’s looking to suck off right now.
Being that close might seem convenient but sometimes it is a negative. Sometimes the less they know the better
Peace brothers
Girl from this thread: /forums/topic/what-it-really-means-to-gyow/
So because we kept running into each other near my neighbourhood, my thoughts were “Hey, free pussy on delivery, within walking distance. How cool is that?”
Well, it turned out too good to be true. She told me she has a boyfriend. This is usually a lie, and I’m going to assume that it IS a lie for argument’s sake. Not that I really care, she wasn’t even that attractive to me. It’s just the convenience aspect that got me curious.
But the point that I’m trying to make: it doesn’t matter to me anymore. Minutes after the event, my mind started to race with different thoughts. I’ve barely interacted with girls on this level since going MGTOW. So obviously, my reaction to this kind of thing is going to be varied. The voice in my head tried to attack me. Tell me I’m worthless, ugly, or any flaw it can come up with. But ultimately, the red pill did do its job, and I’m completely fine. Logic has overcome. I’m none of those nasty things.
I just find it interesting. When this kind of thing happened Pre-MGTOW, I’d go into a downward spiral which, at some point during the peak depression, led to suicidal thoughts. But not anymore. All that happened was she rejected my offer for sex. The only part of me that does feel regret, at least at first, was that I gave her an ego boost, which she definitely didn’t deserve. I just wanted what I thought was easy sex.
But that doesn’t matter either!!! Do you know why? Because what she is thinking is S~~~ to me. If she thinks that I’m down in my basement crying and feeling worthless, that’s good for her. Let her feel that way and take it in that context. If that’s what gives her her jollies, let her grow addicted to it, that way when I’m rich in 10 years, I can laugh in her face when she hits me up on facebook. And the fact that I kept swearing every four words when talking to her? So what if she didn’t like that? That’s how I talk and express myself, and I’m not going to change my behaviour because of who I’m talking to. I don’t do that for my parents, my boss, my grandma, and especially not for some f~~~ing girl I don’t know. The other thing? I didn’t bother to dress up that well. I’m taking my dog for a f~~~ing walk, not to impress everyone. I purposely chose clothes that would be comfortable. The biggest mistake a lot of guys make with these women is pretending they’re someone they aren’t, when all you gotta realize is you’re perfect how you are. That’s why women buy make up and are afraid to leave the house without it. They’re insecure, and they don’t want the world to know how f~~~ed up they really look http://akns-images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2014816/rs_1024x759-140916145217-1024-olivia-wilde-no-makeup.ls.91614_copy.jpg
Non MGTOWS: “Who are you kidding? You’re insecure yourself, that’s why you’re crying in this thread.”
Me: Hardly. I’m a MGTOW now, I don’t wait around for women to tell me how to feel about myself. That’s my own job.TL;DR She doesn’t like who I am? Her loss. She could have experienced eight orgasms in a row… now she NEVER will.
All I can say is F~~~ YEAH brother! Way to go not to let it drag you down because of some woman rejecting you. My grandfather the manliness man I know of once told me “If some woman rejects you, does not know her place, or is stepping out of line with you.. slap her around or dump her to the curb. There are 50 more waiting in line for you.” . Now I do not suggest slapping her around (that’s how they did it back in the old country days) but I do suggest what you already have done and let it bother you as there is many more where she came from.
Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit
I always thought game is not over unless shes pregnant or has a kid. Boytoys and hubby’s didnt really matter, during my badboy years.
Rejected by a c~~~ is overrated.
Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.
Anonymous42Rejected beats infected!
You just avoided a problem!
Great to hear that you have the red pill mindset going strong!
Outstanding work brother!She told me she has a boyfriend.
I don’t know if you saw this recent “I have a boyfriend” thread, but definitely check it out. It’s funny too. But most importantly, it also explains why “I have a boyfriend” is not even a rejection.
I just find it interesting. When this kind of thing happened Pre-MGTOW, I’d go into a downward spiral which, at some point during the peak depression, led to suicidal thoughts.
I wish I could shake every young guy by the shoulders and force him to understand that WOMEN WANT you to be crushed and devastated by their stupid “rejection”. The whole world behaves like it’s such a f~~~ing tragedy and even the word “rejection” is bulls~~~.
Even in the movies (Like Top Gun) they equate rejection to “crashing and burning” like it’s the equivalent of going down in flames. Please. Everyone really needs to stop acting like that. Especially women.
You would only go into a “downward spiral” about it because you have already allowed her to mean something to you. You imagined it in your head.
QUOTE: “Hey, free pussy on delivery, within walking distance.”
You already let her mean something to you.But here’s a little secret women will never teach you….
You don’t even know her yet.
Therefore she doesn’t MEAN ANYTHING to you.
And since she doesn’t mean anything to you yet,
Her stupid “rejection” can’t possibly mean anything to you either.Congratulations. You’re instantly cured of all “rejection anxiety”.
Women need to think they are “rejecting” you because it falsely elevates her SMV. If you think of it as anything other than hilarious, you’re giving yourself away for no reason.
FIRST RULE OF SALES:
If you give someone a chance to say “NO”, they usually WILL.Which one is more likely to lead to a “rejection?
A: “Hey can I get your number and call you sometime?”
B: “You should give me your number.”One of them has a question mark. And one of them doesn’t. The one with the question mark is the one you want to avoid, because she is more likely to say no. You set her up for that.
STOP SAYING “I GOT REJECTED”. STOP THINKING IT.
If women had any REAL value to offer, they would actually add value instead of doing the only thing they know how to do. Waiting around for some schmuck to ask her out and then she “rejects” him. At least the dumb schmuck has something to offer someone else. She doesn’t have anything to offer so all she can do is “reject” offers of kindness, attention and generosity that come her way. And one day (much sooner than he thinks) those offers will dry up, and she won’t be in a position to reject jack diddly.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.You defeated the programming! Excellent brother!
I don’t know if I would say you got rejected; I think that’s the narrow view. If your Spidey Sense told you she was giving you vibe, then you should trust it. Young women are notorious for keeping lots of options close at hand, in case the primary Chad doesn’t work out for whatever reason. I expect that she really WAS putting you in her spank bank for later.
You just keep building your life up wisely and taking care of yourself, and although it may be hard to believe now, there will come a day when the same women will be all OVER your jock like a bum on a baloney sandwich. That very same girl that blew you off is at home right now, nervously counting the days left until her 25th birthday. And checking to see which of her friends is already married. And among her friends that are married, which ones have already had their first baby. Her mind is going like a heroin addict thinking about his next fix. No matter what she says, she is in a race for the finish line, one that ends with her special day and her first baby. And then when all of THAT goes straight to hell, some OTHER guy is on the hook servicing the debt for it. Not you.
Take it from me. Hell, in 10 years, you won’t even have to be NICE to women–they’ll be ferreting YOU out, everywhere you go. In line at the grocery store. At the gas pump. In line at the DMV. A lot of these same kinds of young women who used to tell me I needed to be nicer and learn how to salsa dance and do bafflingly stupid s~~~ like that are now cracking into each other trying to do things for ME. A man over 40, with his own money, child-free, and never been married is the 35 year old female’s unicorn.
And the ones that aren’t chasing me, I wouldn’t touch with a ten-foot pole anyway, because they’re smart enough to realize that they don’t have anything to trade, now that their SMV has plummeted like a hammer thrown down a well. And oh, how bitter they are. They’re the leathery apparitions that you see on the eHarmony commercials, wanting to be loved for who they really are.
"Higgins: Magnum, feed the lads, would you? There are steaks in the freezer. [Magnum makes an excited face] Very well, you can have one too."
Congratulations on dodging that bullet.
“Hey, free pussy on delivery, within walking distance. How cool is that?”
Not cool at all, actually.
When the crazy comes out, and the crazy always comes out, the last thing you want is for her to know where you live. Especially if it’s within easy walking distance.
But the point that I’m trying to make: it doesn’t matter to me anymore. Minutes after the event, my mind started to race with different thoughts. I’ve barely interacted with girls on this level since going MGTOW. So obviously, my reaction to this kind of thing is going to be varied. The voice in my head tried to attack me. Tell me I’m worthless, ugly, or any flaw it can come up with. But ultimately, the red pill did do its job, and I’m completely fine. Logic has overcome. I’m none of those nasty things.
Clearly you are upset, and it’s bothering you; otherwise, you wouldn’t have made this thread.
And that’s okay! Really, I’m not here to question your MGTOW or man credentials, because I have (and often am) been in the exact same situation as you, and I empathize super hard. You wanted to get to know this girl better, and the outcome was not what you wanted, so naturally you’ll be sad.
Best thing to do is to take Keymaster’s advice to heart: a woman’s rejection is as worthless as her approval. The worst thing to do is to take a woman’s rejection (or, even worse, women’s rejections) as evidence of your undesirability of a man.
Remember that women wouldn’t know what a good man was if he slapped her in the face with his c~~~. For proof, I adduce the myriad women that pimps, abusers, rapists, murders, thieves, and drug dealers are with, and the lack of women in the lives of men like Isaac Newton, Nikola Tesla, and Ludwig van Beethoven.
". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée
S~~~, I wish I knew about all of that all those times I got rejected, I’m just glad I stopped trying before it was too late. Now I don’t even bother talking to a woman unless I have to. Good on you, brother.
I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!
a woman’s rejection is as worthless as her approval. The worst thing to do is to take a woman’s rejection as evidence of your undesirability of a man.
The worst thing to do is to take a woman’s rejection (or, even worse, women’s rejections) as evidence of your undesirability of a man.
Remember that women wouldn’t know what a good man was if he slapped her in the face with his c~~~. For proof, I adduce the myriad women that pimps, abusers, rapists, murders, thieves, and drug dealers are with, and the lack of women in the lives of men like Isaac Newton, Nikola Tesla, and Ludwig van Beethoven.
^^^ This f~~~in’ guy. ^^^
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Why the heck do we even call it a rejection?
If you were ask a buddy to go see a movie and he declined, would we call it a rejection? No. Certainly not in the sense that we let it effect our self esteem in any way. It doesn’t even really matter what his reason is. In no way would we question our own value.
Yet, somehow, we elevate a woman we don’t even know to a some sort of status where she can possible reject us and tell us whether we have worth or not.
No. The fact that she chose not to get with you isn’t a reflection on you in any way.
Ok. Then do it.
Women have quite the racket going on, don’t they? They’ve somehow managed to make men tie their sense of manhood and self-worth to their ability to win their approval, and get access to their holy holes.
It’s absolutely baffling to me when feminists suggest that men are sexist, that they don’t value women as much as they deserve; men ascribe a ridiculous, overwhelming, disproportional value to what women say and do. This thread is proof of that.
". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée
Next time I get approached I’m saying “I have a girl friend”. Just to see how it pans out.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
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