I ignored a girl, and she was shocked.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

First time ever pulling such a brazen stunt like this.
The setting: Library
The girl: a former friend from 3 years ago, back in my undergrad/mangina/beta male days. I used to bend over backwards for her. She had a boyfriend yet got favors like free home cooked food etc. out of me, but she wouldn’t give me any respect.

I was a wuss at that time.

Today, I’m walking through the library, and she’s sitting at a table when she turns around and sees me. She smiles, waves, and says hi. I just let out a long sigh, walk right past her, and catch her mouth open and eyes widened staring at me through peripheral vision.

It felt good.
My friends, a few years ago, I would have stopped, said hi, asked her how her day was, encouraged her on her latest insecurity, comforted her about whatever doubts she had, and not cared at all that my schedule was delayed because of her.

Today felt great.

I have arrived.
Hail, MGTOW. Oneforfreedom is officially 100% red pill.

PS- In other news, there is this other girl who I used to be friends with prior to the summer. She’d keep calling me and bitching about her work, the other girl who was the waitress getting the large tips, etc. I stopped texting her and when she messages, I respond only to important messages with one-word answers. She’s now asking me if she has done anything to offend me.

Being MGTOW, I frankly don’t care what anyone thinks of me anymore.

Also, we should get a MGTOW anthem. I need to work out to that. Any songwriters/musicians here? I’m thinking something along the lines of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lTs6a0ORdQU

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

good for you young man, carry on…

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

“virtual fist bump”

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[Chuck WowParticipant 141]

[MIKETOWParticipant 757]

Dude, I wish I had b~~~~ the size of yours. Well done.

[NeutronParticipant 321]

Well done. Pick up your diploma on the way out the door.

None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

I remember when I did that back in middle school. What a great moment I had.

Good for you.

[HitmanParticipant]

well done ! they will fall in front of you if you keep with that style !.pussy aint worth s~~~ kid do YOUR thing and the bitches will follow YOU ! as it SHOULD be ! .

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

It is a proven documented fact- the more you reject the more they desire. And the older they get the more fake nice they become. AWALT – all of them.

[OldBillParticipant]

Good job, but next time do it without the sigh. The sigh gives them hope that you might still care.

Never ever care. The only person you should care about is yourself.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Thanks guys for the encouragement! I’m just trying to speculate what she must be thinking right now… “What the f~~~ happened to this guy? He used to WORSHIP ME!” or “Am I ugly now?!” muahahahahahaha. THE REVOLUTION IS ALIVE!

MIKETOW wrote:

Dude, I wish I had b~~~~ the size of yours. Well done.

You have the b~~~~- you just gotta put yourself in situations to prove to yourself that you have it. I believe you can! Trust me, after the first one, it becomes really easy.

I think what did it for me was this mind trick that someone on MGTOW forums suggested: every time you see a girl, picture your bank account’s cash in a flammable bag and her setting fire to it. I don’t give females any attention anymore, except for when I’m forced to work with them, during which I am so cold that they usually say they’ll finish the project without me, and I go home, put on the game, and enjoy.

When I’m walking down a hallway and a girl is coming from the other side, I don’t even look at her. I look beyond her. She means nothing to me. I used to pedestalize women. Not anymore. But when a guy is coming down, if he seems friendly, I just wave and give a polite hello.

OldBill wrote:

Good job, but next time do it without the sigh. The sigh gives them hope that you might still care.

Ouch- you are tough! I like it. Will do. Thanks for the tip!

[BDParticipant 1146]

Nice move!

The further you go down the rabbit hole, the easier this gets.

It’s about having self respect for yourself, and not allowing anyone into your life that is a negative force.

This will be fun entertainment for you until you start to self actualize and reach towards Mgtow Zen, when this simply becomes habit and you no longer have any satisfaction in how she feels about it, because you have now become indifferent.

When you are indifferent, you couldn’t care less about the negative people, you just know that they do not belong in your life. Hating people shows that you still care, never hate, strive to be indifferent.

Nice work, enjoy your path and celebrate your achievement.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

I have a slightly different tactic:
I don’t ignore them, I’m indifferent to them.
By ignoring/blocking them completely, the’ll get the impression that you are upset/angry with them.
They will see that as still having control over you and your emotions.
If I cross paths with a woman I know, I’ll acknowledge her with a slight head nod or smile, nothing more.
Same thing if I see her in a public group/gathering.
But I make no effort to approach her or initiate contact/conversation.
A small percentage of the time, she will then make “first contact”.
Of course, it’s never to ask “Nice to see you, how are you doing?”, rather “Why did you ignore me?”
I’ll respond with “Nice to see you too. I’m doing fine, thanks for asking.”, then walk away.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Well done.

She has a pussy, you don’t’ want it. Hence the expression on her face when the gears in her lizard brain locked up.

Fuck this planet.

[touchecooperParticipant 4]

I do it all the time, way to go young fella.

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