I Haven't Dated In Years

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

It’s been a long time since I’ve been on a date with a woman, and I don’t know when I’ll start dating again. The last woman I dated was a single mom. That only lasted for a few weeks. Since then, I’ve asked several women for their phone numbers and tried to go out with them, but they declined. So one day I just gave up. I’ve been feeling sad about this situation even though it could be something that’s beneficial. The advantage I have is: I don’t feel pressured to spend money on dates. Unfortunately, I miss getting physical with the ladies.

Nonetheless, I plan to continue on this path until I can get to a point where I am financially stable. Even if I wanted to date women, I can’t afford to show them a good time. In the past, I was always the desperate guy. I craved companionship and sex so much that I probably gave women a negative vibe. I feel like now is the time for me to build up my own self worth.

Although I miss the fun aspects of dating (and not the relations~~~ part), I’m going to take my time and get back to it when I feel comfortable with my own state of being.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Fuk dating your better off save your money do your thing nothing bad about it. What’s your favorite pass time invest in that think positive !

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

I think your expieriencing mental fatigue and… arguably, natural sexual desires-scratch the desire for intimicy part because with women there isnt any.

I beilieve everyone gets to a point where after being effected by daily stress, some self-inflicted, They mentally fatigue and in your case I think you’ve let whatevers causing you stress center around getting laid as a step to remedy your stress and beyond that a relationship with a women to be the final cure.

Do you feel lonely?

Generally stress might cause us to seek sexual interaction with a female but I think it creates a paradox because, frankly women are c~~~s.

Stress management and relaxation techniques might be helpful.Family or friends ?

Also , try to avoid thinking of yourself as a women would. If you dont have enough money to take a women on a date shes too expensive and why cant she take you. If the glove fits , slap her with it.

[Anonymous 1]

The best advice I can give you is be yourself and be brutally honest up front that way you will chase off the time wasters and gold diggers. Also avoid single mothers as they have a 70% failure rate and the way feminists have stuffed up the family courts you will be stuck with child support even if you don’t marry her.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

I’ve had two dates in 2 1/2 years.

One was set up by a friend, the woman was 10 years older than she said she was.

The other lied about more than half the things she told me.

I have no desire to waste time or money on a woman. You are looking for a unicorn. What are the odds of seeing a real unicorn? You are not missing anything.

[Anonymous 11]

I have not had a real date in a year and a half. I saw the bitch walking down the street the other day. All went well for about three weeks then she just flaked. I’m glad I was red pill at the time as I just ghosted on her.

I’m not counting the hookup with a slut before I went monk a year ago.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I’d say give up dating entirely. If you want contact with women, get a job managing an animal shelter that attracts silly young women and bang all of them.

All you have to be able to do is tell the story of all the horrible things that happen to abandoned dogs and your passion for rescuing them… really talk up the pain and sadness part and make the wide-eyed hippie chicks cry and then they’ll all want to f~~~ you as an affirmation of life.

You’ll never have to buy another dinner again in your life… just have some cheap beer in the fridge at your place so they can have a few sips to give themselves an excuse to fall on your dick.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Stargazer wrote:

You’ll never have to buy another dinner again in your life… just have some cheap beer in the fridge at your place so they can have a few sips to give themselves an excuse to fall on your dick.

Quote of the day…that was classic…I need to remember that. Does Coors Light count as cheap beer? That’s about all I drink. And I rarely offer one to any women, even for sex…but just in case…

[Mr.KraftParticipant 236]

You haven’t dated in years… So you are telling me by now you are a multi-millionaire with all the toys and lifestyle that you wanted? If you not, you are doing it wrong mate.

PS- try doing the opposite. Instead of being desperate towards physical aspect, just ignore women. Don’t look at them. Barely talk to them. Give them nothing. Soon, you won’t be able to beat them off with a shovel.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Dating means different things depending on whether you are an Alpha or a Beta.

Alpha = If you go out for a date sex is guaranteed. Most Alphas don’t actually need to even bother going out, they will be invited over to stay in and have sex. Zero money needs to be spent, infact the woman will often pay.

Beta = You are just seen as a potential wallet so you will have to wait until at least date three before you get sex. This is because she wants you to believe she is a good girl, even though she still has a couple of FWB who she regularly hooks up with. This will be relationship sex, not the sort of porn star sex she has with the Alphas.

You will be expected to constantly think up exciting (read expensive) things to do on your dates and always have to pay. Expect a lot of “Thank you for a lovely evening” pecks on the cheek in the carpark after your first dates before getting the “thank you but I felt there was no spark” texts when you get home as she decides you are not a big enough wallet.

Unless you are in the top 20% of men expect dating to be a painful and very expensive experience.

Mr.Kraft wrote:

PS- try doing the opposite. Instead of being desperate towards physical aspect, just ignore women. Don’t look at them. Barely talk to them. Give them nothing. Soon, you won’t be able to beat them off with a shovel.

There is some truth in this, when I was online dating I was plate spinning and didn’t really care about the women I was seeing as I knew I had others on the go. This is like Catnip to women, the ones I cancelled on at the last minute because I had a better offer or were just ignoring because I was chatting to other women were the ones who would not leave me alone. These were the women who would treat me like a king, bring me breakfast in bed the next day, wear any outfit I wanted them to, and would be happy to stay in and just f~~~ and would even pay for a takeaway.

This was not planned behavior on my part, I really didn’t care about any of them. These were the women that would chase me, I knew if I had ignored them for a while and then got a message from them out of the blue that they would do anything I wanted.

I promise you if you put them on a pedestal, message them all the time and are clingy they will not be interested in the slightest. Also don’t hide the other women, admit you are dating other women and if they don’t like it then they can leave. Trust me they will want you even more as nothing interests a woman more than if she thinks other women want you too.

It all boils down to confidence and not giving a s~~~ and they kind of go hand in hand. If you are confident enough to know that you can easily get other women then you won’t give a s~~~ and this is like the zen position of dating to be in. This is the attitude all Chads have, this is why they are beating them off with a s~~~ty stick.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Stargazer wrote:

really talk up the pain and sadness part and make the wide-eyed hippie chicks cry and then they’ll all want to f~~~ you as an affirmation of life.

This made me laugh! Thank you.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[CardinalParticipant 82]

Single moms can be some of the worst dates ever. There is just something off about them. Always on guard, and tense. Of course not ALL, but it is a very common thing. Some on the other hand (the real trampy kinds) are far more easier to deal with (for a few hours). Then the trashy side comes out which you do not want to even know of.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Your not missing much, women are duller then watching paint dry.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Faith+1Participant 866]

bigboy83 wrote:

Your not missing much, women are duller then watching paint dry.

At least paint has a purpose

[Mike-PoffwithPofParticipant 126]

Stargazer wrote:

…get a job managing an animal shelter that attracts silly young women and bang all of them.
..and make the wide-eyed hippie chicks cry and then they’ll all want to f~~~ you as an affirmation of life.
You’ll never have to buy another dinner again in your life… just have some cheap beer in the fridge at your place so they can have a few sips to give themselves an excuse to fall on your dick.

Well done. Had me laughing. Do they let old c~~~s like me work in these places? Mind you I went along to a cats protection centre recently and all the birds there had piano teeth and had more chins than a Chinese telephone directory.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

bigboy83 wrote:

Your not missing much, women are duller then watching paint dry.

I second the quote, you aren’t missing anything. Focus on meaningful things in your life, fun things, things you want, and women will become an afterthought.

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