“I Have No Place To Go”…

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Those words have been repeatedly said to me and to my friends and family since I left my ex-girlfriend.

Three weeks now living in a hotel and I have not said a word to her since sending the eviction notice. But one of my friends recently told me she said that when conveying a request to stay another 30 days.

Finally it clicked: She is whining that she doesn’t have the next monkey branch lined up.

She has places to go (family and friends, or get an apt or hotel). But the wall has taken its toll and now the blue pill wallets are as dried up as her p ussy. And apparently the thought of not having a host to feed off of is unbearable to her.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[AutoliteParticipant]

CPT Obvious wrote:

She has places to go (family and friends, or get an apt or hotel).

Tell her to join the Army! Three squares and a cot guaranteed!

Seriously though, this is a realistic option here in Canada. The Canadian military is a real mess and they are screaming for people. There will keep you in until (CRA) aged 60 as long as you remain healthy.

And they will even induct you into the service if you’re over age 50 and can still meet the physical requirements. I’ve talked with guys who’ve seen it done! And I personally know one guy (a buddy of mine) who got back in after 25 years of initial service and he was at least about 45.

It’s insane how crazy things are right now but it’s option for those with really “nowhere to go”…

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

A Parasite can’t exist without a host.

MOST have had hosts throughout their life that have taken care of the trivial things like mortgages, food, insurances, health care, cars, etc. etc. etc.

NOW, it’s a scary thought that the lil HO has to actually become a responsible adult at the age of 40 something.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Autolite wrote:

Tell her to join the Army! Three squares and a cot guaranteed!

Haha. Sounds like more of option for me (ex US Army) than her. Maybe after I have done a 4 year stint, she will have moved out. More likely is that she will be banging whatever losers she can find and still living in my house.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Awakened wrote:

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trivial

things like mortgages, food, insurances, health care, cars, etc. etc.

It is amazing how a man can provide all the necessities of life and women consider them trivial—-and never enough.

Also mind boggling is how their one form of payment for the living arrangement decreases over time while their demands increase.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[AutoliteParticipant]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Haha. Sounds like more of option for me (ex US Army) than her.

On a very serious note you might consider looking into it. Just for your own peace of mind.

There was a media article that I read a couple of years ago saying that the Canadian military was courting Americans. Being an American ex-serviceman, the Canadian military would very most likely snap you up in a heart-beat…

(and you’d get to keep your Cpt Obvious beard. The Canadian Armed Forces allows everyone to wear beards now)

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

Better get the sheriff notified, you may need to have them get her off the property.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Better get the sheriff notified, you may need to have them get her off the property.

It’s on the agenda. After 30 days I go to court to get eviction order which I can have Sheriff’s office enforce.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22502]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Awakened wrote:

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trivial

things like mortgages, food, insurances, health care, cars, etc. etc.

It is amazing how a man can provide all the necessities of life and women consider them trivial—-and never enough.
Also mind boggling is how their one form of payment for the living arrangement decreases over time while their demands increase.

A guy spends time fixing appliances, fixing the house, replacing pipes, dealing with the contractors, keeping the cars running and gassed up. Gets no praise for any of it. The woman waters flowers and vacuums for 20 minutes then spends 30 minutes saying how hard it is, how tired she is, and how clean the house looks now.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

The woman waters flowers and vacuums for 20 minutes then spends 30 minutes saying how hard it is, how tired she is, and how clean the house looks now.

You are far too generous. I bought her a $300 iRobot. All she has to do is press one button to vacuum the house — and half the time too lazy to even do that. I have to clean out the filter every time because that is too complicated for her.

I work 9-10 hours a day with about an hour commute each way. Come home take out the trash and make dinner. Clean up then unload and load the dishwasher. She is “too busy” with her part-time job (about 6-8 hours/week) to do anything but sleep till 10am, text with friends, make a couple calls for work and then watch funny cat videos on YouTube and update FaceBook.

Then she waits till after I fall asleep so she can say “You were too tired for sex.” Or, even better, she decides we need to “communicate” which means her picking a fight about how I am not meeting her needs.

After all that and more tells me that “I am using her”….

For what? My personal torture device???

F U C K T H A T.

Never going back to plantation.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3753]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Never going back to plantation.

You better not.

[MonkParticipant 16975]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Finally it clicked: She is whining that she doesn’t have the next monkey branch lined up.

You got it.

It’s on the agenda. After 30 days I go to court to get eviction order which I can have Sheriff’s office enforce.

She will try every trick in the book. Don’t weaken at the last moment.

No mercy.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

I had a similar experience recently while jettisoning a parasite.
She and our friends were doing the old “throwing her out on the street” routine.
She can sell one of her purses or a pair of shoes to live on until she can support herself.

[HermitParticipant]

CPT Obvious wrote:

I work 9-10 hours a day with about an hour commute each way. Come home take out the trash and make dinner. Clean up then unload and load the dishwasher. She is “too busy” with her part-time job (about 6-8 hours/week) to do anything but sleep till 10am, text with friends, make a couple calls for work and then watch funny cat videos on YouTube and update FaceBook.

Ah, that brings back unpleasant memories. I worked, she didn’t. I paid all the bills. I went to the store and bought all the groceries. I cooked all the food and even put the dishes in the dishwasher. I did my own laundry. I even cleaned the parts of the house that I spent the most time in.

You’d think a woman would appreciate all that, right? I did all that and she was unhappy and kicked me out of the house. …….????????………

My son has finally found a house to buy and is moving out, leaving his mom all alone with her ugly little dog. Who will she blame for her problems now? Who will she bitch about, or too? She will soon be living in that big house all alone and I guarantee that when something goes wrong, it still won’t be her fault. She’ll blame someone who doesn’t even live there.

I’m so very glad I don’t live there anymore. I’m living alone free and happy and she’ll be living alone in her misery because she doesn’t know how to be happy.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Today marks 4 weeks in a hotel. Thanks to everyone who has posted comments, advice and encouragement.

The ex-GF walked into my lawyers office and made an emotional scene. She wants another month…maybe six weeks…maybe more in my house. A friend of me that she called to relay questions to me, she accused of “intimidating” her and making her feel “unsafe”.

Such bullsh it. I forwarded the email response from my friend to her showing he was bending over backwards to be nice and helpful. Told the office to call her back and tell her no.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[MonkParticipant 16975]

CPT Obvious wrote:

She wants another month…maybe six weeks…maybe more in my house.

Yeah, like forever.

A friend of me that she called to relay questions to me, she accused of “intimidating” her and making her feel “unsafe”.

“So fvck off”.

[StealthParticipant 5326]

A girl moved into her boss’s house across the street. She’s fairly attractive and simply needs a place to live. So that’s how it’s done, apparently. We’re all looking at her like, what is this homeless girl doing here? Talking to her, she’ll tell you how much she loves her beautiful new home. She’s been here like three weeks. They’re not married and he doesn’t even refer to her as his girlfriend… Initially the request/offer to stay was “for just a couple weeks, until she finds a place.” She’ll also tell you how Jesus brought her to her new situation, where she’s living in sin with her boss. Cops have been called already, I think by him, after a domestic dispute. Her handful of kids lives with an ex-husband, from what I hear.

Another girl I used to know moved just a few blocks away recently. Back when I knew her, she only saw her kids occasionally, while fighting to claim them as dependents on her tax return. She had been slumming it up for a while in a dive apartment and recently announced how she was moving up in the world as she and her new boyfriend were moving into their beautiful new house together. I asked her what she’s doing for work these days, which was followed by an awkward silence and vacuous stare.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[StealthParticipant 5326]

I know of a guy who repeated this same phrase, he had nowhere to go, when getting kicked out of his house and seeking the sympathy of my girlfriend at the time who was looking for a project boyfriend (apparently I wasn’t messed up enough for her). She conveyed that he had nowhere to go & she was saving him. I pointed out he could go anywhere. Anywhere he damn well pleased. According to her he had a decent job, so had options. Sounded like he was just being a loser. I picked the bones of his possessions when he got evicted. Later heard he lost his job.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

Stealth wrote:

Initially the request/offer to stay was “for just a couple weeks, until she finds a place.”

Sounds like she already found a place…

Stealth wrote:

Cops have been called already, I think by him, after a domestic dispute.

This is what just blows my mind. All she has to do is f uck him, help out a little with house, and keep the crazy in check. Do that and all her basics needs are met and more.

But she can’t f ucking even do that.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2725]

So the neighbor two doors down texted me. Apparently ex asked if she can live with them for a month, and if I was ok with that.

Told him it is his house — that’s his and wife’s decision. Not exactly thrilled having her living two doors down, but if it gets her out of my house I will take it.

However, sounds like it is time to invest in some security cameras.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

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