I have been a secret MGTOW for years

[StereotypeParticipant 33]

Greetings gents,

I’m a new member of the MGTOW community, having just found out about MGTOW through Sandman’s videos on YouTube. After watching a large number of his videos, and finding everything to agree with, I couldn’t help but join the community. I have lived the MGTOW principles for a very long time.

Deciding as a child never to marry, nor have kids, I suffered ostracism all through junior high, high school and colleg0=. I virtually never had dates. I was MGTOW even then, and didn’t know it.

I’m 58, and just got out of a 23 year relationship. I was the one who ended it. We were never married, nor did we have kids. We always lived in two separate houses, and visited each other weekly, usually for a couple of days. Then, we’d go back to our own places. We never mingled our money. While she’s a lovely lady, I could no longer abide a romantic relationship.

Since freeing myself, I’ve been able to do so much more in life! Rather than service my ex’s endless needs, I volunteer at the local animal shelter, cleaning cages and socializing the animals. (I could have used these skills earlier. 🙂 ) Also, I am a volunteer baker for a group which provides free birthday cakes for socially and financially disadvantaged children and seniors. Volunteer bakers bake, decorate, and deliver birthday cakes and cupcakes, for free, to Head Start schools, Special Ed classes and senior facilities. It’s exceeding fulfilling.

I worked at a bakery while putting myself through college, so have a good knowledge of cakes, pastries and breads.

I’m retired now, and have been since the age of 50. With no wife and kids as anchor weights during my productive years, I was able to save every other paycheck the whole time I was employed. Through investments and careful spending practices, I exited the work force with my house and car paid off, and no debt.

I worked as a computer engineer in Silicon Valley for 20 years.

I have had one major relationship in my life, though there have been a few girlfriends along the way. The major relationship was with a woman 16 years my senior, and lasted 23 years. Even with the ‘ideal’ arrangement of separate houses, limited time together, no marriage, no money mingling and no children, I was still dealing with a woman, and her endless, endless needs, constant health complaints, and inability to do for herself. I ended the relationship, and am back on my own now, as I was before meeting her.

As much as I thought I needed access to the Golden Vagina, I am fine with a decent porno clip. I have even thought of call girls, or finding a friend with benefits. However, the thought of dealing with a woman, even for just sex, sounds repugnant now. I’d rather take matters into my own hands, and be done with it at zero cost, both emotionally and financially.

I am only too happy to have found this community! Looking forward to interacting with everyone here, and listening to your stories and triumphs.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome! Using your time to fulfill your own needs, help others as you see fit and save your money over the years clearly has paid off. Congrats and glad you’ve found us.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Alright welcome in here Stereotype. Have a good time on the forum. I’m sure you will.
Actually that’s really interesting that you are/used to be a baker.

In time you might well find out why…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 42]

You’re gonna like the cake we’re baking! Even more fun is watching the ones we baked it for when they actually have to eat it…

They can have our cake and eat it too!

Yummy!

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome pal
enjoy the path to freedom
cheers

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Wise up men of all ages, and learn from this man’s example!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Welcome Stereotype. Wow, your story is inspiring – a 23-year relationship and you gout out CLEAN! You are a role model for young men about how it should be done – no cohabitation and no kids! Glad you got out alive bloke

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