I have become mentally numb.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Thanks MGTOW moderators for making me a member here, also hi to other members.

Iam a happy person when compared to the pain so many members have gone through. I dont have anything new just the same old s~~~.

I am from south asia, the countries around here are culturally and traditionally good for marriage and raising a family. But after globalisation technologically many good things happened, like we got cars with airbags,latest medical equipment etc,but marraige and family took a big hit , it is resembling the things in west and are even going worse due to the clash of traditional values and modernism.

Women here nowadays get educated in western values like feminism etc and are becoming more like the AWALTs but the tragic part is these womens mothers are NAWALTs.

My problem= Here there are two ways a guy gets married, either through a relationship or arranged marriages

Iam being forced to get married as it is the norm in such countries. I have my set of bitter experiences both mine and friends, which i will share later.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2738]

Welcome to MGTOW. Thank you for the introduction, it is nice to meet you.

Being forced into marriage is like being sold into slavery.

Hopefully you can find a way to reject this tradition. This is the place to share your experiences. Look forward to hearing more.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! Here’s hoping you find a way to dodge the marriage option without cutting yourself off from your family.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

CPT Obvious wrote:

Being forced into marriage is like being sold into slavery.

¡¡¡¡^^^^^^^^^^^!!!!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello Globemaster,

For the past twenty years, I have been fortunate to enjoy knowing South Asian peoples and their superb cultures. My new job made me familiar with the forests of South India and Sri Lanka.

My last great “Unicorn” hunt and remnants of NAWALT ended with South Asian women. For too many Western men, Asian woman have some charming qualities which get us trapped into “Relations~~~s” with them. Their version of femininity does an excellent job of concealing their voracious appetites which destroys men.

The great intelligence and sense of humor of South Asians are among the many good qualities which appeals to Western men. It was fun laughing along with South Asian woman as I made fun of their passion for “Bangles,” fine fabrics, and shoes. Being able to laugh at one’s self is a good thing. Alas, even though these gals were aware of their obsessions, it never stopped them from indulging themselves.

It is interesting that all my “relations~~~s” with women from all over the world made me more obsessive/ compulsive than I am as MGTOW.

I gained too much weight when I was involved with South Asian women. In my defense, the spicy food is wonderful.

I called my South Asian women, my “Jaggery,” and they had the same effect on me as a Toddy (Kallu) which is a fabulous homemade alcoholic drink.

Here is a fundamental law:
All women are biologically hard wired to take care of themselves.

This law is the basis for a “Woman’s Narcissism.”
This law is a foundation for “Woman’s Nature.”
This law is rooted in the survival of the species.

It is one of the reasons that she can never really love you.

As a male, you are disposable.

AWALT.

Asian women are better at obfuscating this law and the consequences from their men. You are in danger when you enter into a marriage or “Relations~~~” with them.

The West had memorialized Women’s Nature in the tales of “Helen of Troy” and the “Whore of Babylon.”

Some fine example of Woman’s Nature come from South Asia and my favorite is Kali:

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Manipulated man, share your experience if possible.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

I am still out and about in the public eye, so I must be stealthy to continue getting the research grants and be able to use the facilities deep within enemy territory. In my defense, I am making history and the work is fulling.

Dangerous Field Work is a “Frontier” and “Man’s Country.” It is well worth the claptrap I have to endure while dealing with the Feminist controlled Universities. South Asia and South East Asia are biological “hot spots” where there are still many discoveries waiting to be found.

For now, I will need to be cautious about disclosing my past “Relations~~~s” even here at MGTOW.

Many years ago, I had foolishly believed that “Not All Women Are Like That,” NAWALT, even though I had been through numerous “Red Pill” awakenings. Unfortunately, I had hoped to find a woman with the heart and mind to be my companion. Even with a background in Biology at that time, I was unable to grasp the full meaning of the fundamental law mentioned above which is programmed into every woman around the world for the survival of our Species. Now I understand that “Woman’s Nature” and “Woman’s Narcissism” has a biological function.

All of my experiences with women have lead me to the conclusion that “Unicorns” do not exist anywhere in the World. They never did. And all of the nonsense about “Love” and “Soul Mates” which comes out of a woman’s mouth is an illusion.

Even with a full awareness of Woman’s Nature and Women’s Narcissism, trying to get involved in an intimate relationship with a woman is similar to living with a “White Tiger” which is recklessness.

South Asian woman do a great job of appearing cute, cuddly, nurturing, submissive, and compassionate. In reality, they are Tamil Tigers and Sri Lankan Leopards in the end. I was surprised how the female Buddhist had no real compassion for their men, in spite of their grand gestures. They are fabulous at pretending to be compassionate which definitely fooled me for some time. These woman are quite “compassionate” towards their own endeavors and their family, but never to their Male “Providers” in reality.

I was also shocked to discover that a South Asian woman’s intelligence did not help her to understand or see her own Narcissistic behavior. She can parrot some words, but there is never any understanding. In fact, her great intelligence makes a powerful weapon in support of the dreadful aspects of “Woman’s Nature.”

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother!

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

globemaster:

It would help if you could outline precisely what your situation is with regard to having to get married. Is this an arranged marriage that you are referring to? Is your family instead just fiercely pressuring you to marry, that is find a wife on your own?

MGTOW members will be better able to help you if they understand your situation better. For example, if it is an arranged marriage, in North America they are rare. However, in the U.S. and Canada, one can pretty much squelch a potential marriage by insulting the girlfriend’s mother.

So, if you want MGTOW help, please elaborate.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

I am not in a mood to tell my past, even thinking makes me go into depression.

I was a white knight,blue pill guy like most were, but now i have become a red pill guy. Western societies give you the freedom of living alone, but south asian societies will see you as an outcast.

Being a red pill guy iam hating women(not sex ofcourse) and see love,dating,marriage,children as things blue pill guys do.

mgtow reinforces my thoughts.

I have lost interest in many things in life, i took the depression test online and it shows i have depression problem. I dont want a women in my life, all are AWALTS, but i feel lonely and fear i will end up living alone in my old age.

i love sex but i dont like paid sex and never done so, also i feel being a player is just a waste of time, running after pussy.

Being raised in a society which emphasis on family iam feeling lost when i dont want to raise a family.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Welcome Globemaster.

I have been exactly where you are now and let me tell you it is not just in South Asian societies but it is starting to be a global problem. I live in Toronto, Ontario Canada one of the houses of the feminist movement (some say it all started here). It is really bad here, the amount of shaming that goes on for being single and not married at a certain age is really bad. We have a multi cultural melting pot of many people from many nations, and they bring their values and prejudices from around the world here. In the western world now a lot of cultures are mixing and their social prejudices and ideals are steadily making their way into western society each and every day.

Being depressed is common when taking the red pill and knowing that you probably will never marry and have children. We are human we are programmed to procreate and even love. The fact that women are so detrimental to our well being emotionally, physically and financially is the reason a lot of us including myself get really depressed with our lives. Keep yourself busy with things you like to do, you don’t have to go full monk you can still have sex just be careful when doing so and never be in a relationship. At the end of the day you have to look out for yourself because no one else will do it for you. Don’t let your parents try to shame you into getting married or having kids, they will do it, and so will your friends too.

Just walk away and avoid them if you have to that is what I had to do in the long run. It WILL get better over time, the depression will eventually lift but you will always be facing the stigma attached to not being married or in a relationship. People will try to pull you down and make you miserable because they themselves are miserable, just walk your own way do your own thing and you will turn out alright believe me I have been there before I know what you are going through. Keep your head held high and don’t worry so much about other people think.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Rhino wrote:

People will try to pull you down and make you miserable because they themselves are miserable,

So true, once i was even told that living life carefree and without responsibilities(marrying and raising children) is a not a worthy life.

[RigParticipant 52]

I’m from central/eastern Europe and the traditional approach is also strong here. Not as strong as you say but I know a fraction of what you are experiencing.

My advice would be to try to delay marriage as far as it is possible. You will:
-gain more freedom of choice (I assume that you are in early 20ty, so not economically free)
-gain more self-awareness
-you will see all the benefits of being alone – it gives strength to fight for your rights

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