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I recently received a notice from the court of a meeting in a few months. I hope it is so the judge can give a decision on my divorce, but I’m worried he’ll send us to mediation.
In my view, mediation is pointless. The STBxW has watched too many daytime divorce dramas and for some reason thinks she’ll get a golden parachute and fully funded life of luxury. I’ve offered her what my lawyer, legal friends, and divorced coworkers have described as a more than generous deal.
Recently, I’ve heard that she’s selling things from the house. I’ve also found that she has closed 2 joint bank accounts and their balance has disappeared. There wasn’t much money in them. However, all of this just irks me in that she is violating the law and she is going to get away with it because it is more expensive to investigate and go after her than it is to just move on.
Everyday, I just keep looking forward and taking the high road. I’ll be able to tell my kid that I behaved honorably and did the right thing.
A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!
Keep all evidence of her stealing assets. Bank statements and testimony if possible. I hope that works against her.
If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.
Sounds like a good plan. It still sucks that you’re the one paying for her “lowlife-ry” (not a word, but you get my point lol).
Once you are free brother everything will fall into place. I wish the road is not so bumpy for you in the mean time.
What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.
Anonymous42I’ve offered her what my lawyer, legal friends, and divorced coworkers have described as a more than generous deal.
Just STOP! Generosity? Are you f~~~ing kidding me? TEAR OFF HER GOD DAMNED FACE AND S~~~ DOWN HER NECK! She’ll do the same thing to you!
Give her nothing more than her VULTURES can tear off your bones!
Your ordeal is just a microcosm in the GENDER WAR ON MEN!
SCRAP THAT F~~~ING BITCH AND GIVE HER NOTHING!
SHE’LL RECOVER HER LOSSES ON THE NEXT MAN SHE SINKS HER FANGS IN!
Everyday, I just keep looking forward and taking the high road. I’ll be able to tell my kid that I behaved honorably and did the right thing.
Excuse me, I gotta go throw-up!
Come On Tower – you are right that OP should express his anger but it won’t help matters.
Incisive focus on the end point and self control is the sensible path here.
Honour is paramount.
Rephrase it as self restraint maybe.
Divorce can be hell on f~~~ing Earth.
Mine felt like that and I realise I got off lightly.
OP- this will pass. You will
Survive. Made of granite.The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
Anonymous42Come On Tower – you are right that OP should express his anger but it won’t help matters.
These modern indoctrinated c~~~s are less than WORTHLESS, treat them like the f~~~ing whores they are!
These modern indoctrinated c~~~s are less than WORTHLESS, treat them like the f~~~ing whores they are!
I think you’re asking for another death threat.
Come On Tower – you are right that OP should express his anger but it won’t help matters.
These modern indoctrinated c~~~s are less than WORTHLESS, treat them like the f~~~ing whores they are!
The greatest power a man can possess is the ability to destroy his enemy but instead walking away.
The enemy might not know the power he was at the mercy of but the holder of the power knows.
Sit back and let them destroy themselves.
Enjoy the tire fire. 👍The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
They do not deserve our anger.
Indifference is the ultimate sanctuary.
Remember the beach scene
In Saving Private Ryan?The Germans had just been hit with flame thrower.
The Americans said ‘Let em Burn!’Like wide the modern woman. Let her burn.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
Anonymous42I think you’re asking for another death threat.
You don’t use water on a petrol fire and you don’t use intimidation to silence MG-Tower! Just ask the local authorities around here that tried those failed tactics! I’ll just dig a bigger hole to shove it further up their ass!
Sit back and let them destroy themselves.
Enjoy the tire fire.I can do that! Having a strong sense of justice is a goddamned curse for any man living in these times!
I am CURSED!
Tower it seems like a curse because we feel robbed by the injustices.
But remain a just man. For nobody but yourself.
Your sense of Justice is a virtue my friend. And that is blessing, not a curse.
The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius
Tower is right. Tear her face off, s~~~ in the hole.
Why is she f~~~ing you? You’re letting her. Retract the offer. Let your lawyer loose on her.
Tell him/her to shred that ass. She will do you no favors, man.Why vote for a lesser evil? #ICETHEMOUT
Anonymous0I’ve offered her what my lawyer, legal friends, and divorced coworkers have described as a more than generous deal.
Just STOP! Generosity? Are you f~~~ing kidding me? TEAR OFF HER GOD DAMNED FACE AND S~~~ DOWN HER NECK! She’ll do the same thing to you!
Give her nothing more than her VULTURES can tear off your bones!
Your ordeal is just a microcosm in the GENDER WAR ON MEN!
SCRAP THAT F~~~ING BITCH AND GIVE HER NOTHING!
SHE’LL RECOVER HER LOSSES ON THE NEXT MAN SHE SINKS HER FANGS IN!
Everyday, I just keep looking forward and taking the high road. I’ll be able to tell my kid that I behaved honorably and did the right thing.
Excuse me, I gotta go throw-up!
I agree with Tower.
You are going to get royally f***Ed
Get a new lawyer and press charges for her stealing your money.
Anonymous0I’ve offered her what my lawyer, legal friends, and divorced coworkers have described as a more than generous deal.
Just STOP! Generosity? Are you f~~~ing kidding me? TEAR OFF HER GOD DAMNED FACE AND S~~~ DOWN HER NECK! She’ll do the same thing to you!
Give her nothing more than her VULTURES can tear off your bones!
Your ordeal is just a microcosm in the GENDER WAR ON MEN!
SCRAP THAT F~~~ING BITCH AND GIVE HER NOTHING!
SHE’LL RECOVER HER LOSSES ON THE NEXT MAN SHE SINKS HER FANGS IN!
Everyday, I just keep looking forward and taking the high road. I’ll be able to tell my kid that I behaved honorably and did the right thing.
Excuse me, I gotta go throw-up!
I agree with Tower.
You are about to get royally f***Ed
Get a new lawyer.
Press FRAUD charges for her theft of your money.
And only speak to her thru your new lawyer.She had refused my offer when I initially filed for divorce. My generosity was to give her half the equity in the house, half the bank accounts, her car, and stuff from the house. I figured splitting it 50/50 was a fair deal.
I can’t complain about men being screwed over in divorce and then do the same to her. Trust me, it isn’t out of some feeling towards her. I’m the one who pulled the trigger on this and filed for divorce. I was mentally prepared and stoic for this.
Regardless, any offer I make is inadmissible in court if we end up having the judge decide the split. I’ve heard from people who know my judge personally and professionally and they say he is a very fair guy who doesn’t tolerate nonsense. If I try to stick it to her, I’ll be the one getting screwed. Since she is the one trying for the divorce lottery, she’ll be the one having to explain her actions to the judge.
Like I’ve said, I will be able to look anyone in the eye and say that I dealt fairly and honestly with her in this divorce. I’m sure she’ll paint me as the bad guy in all of this to anyone who’ll listen, but when my son is old enough to understand, he’ll realize I was the good guy. If he doesn’t, I’ll still be able to sleep soundly and with a good conscience.
I don’t need to make her any more miserable. She has done enough of that to herself. To me, winning is getting divorced and raising my son to be a good man.
A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!
Anonymous42My generosity was to give her half the equity in the house, half the bank accounts, her car, and stuff from the house. I figured splitting it 50/50 was a fair deal.
50/50 is bulls~~~! Men do most the work, most the effort, and most the paying when you say 50/50! Their assigned value is equal to a man even if they never earn a dime or lift a single finger!
You’ve been brainwashed to believe their value is equivalent to ours and it’s just not! Their only value is what the totalitarian law has appointed it to be!
I’d still tear off her face and s~~~ down her neck on those principles alone! She a f~~~ing parasite and a leach just as the law has appointed her to be!
A woman’s real world earnings aren’t even a fraction of what a man brings to the table!
I’ll slice my goddamned throat before I ever get married to these lopsided conditions of 50/50 for a leach that contributes damn near NOTHING!
I understand your point MGTower, but my situation requires more finesse and less brute force. A scorched earth approach would likely leave me screwed in the long term. However, a fair approach would likely result in a fair and, relatively speedy, outcome.
The pendulum swings, but I hope to still it at the bottom. I want both sides to not get screwed in property and custody. I know it’s unlikely, but visiting the same injustice on those who wronged you, continues the cycle.
A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!
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