I Guess I am a Cruel Gentleman

[ShadeParticipant 53]

I am one who started to veer away from the crowd a while ago! I am new here. I wish something like this was started back when I was in my teens. Now, I give men younger than me (and some even older) some alpha advice.

I was raised by a single mom. She didn’t have the brainwashing qualities, but also could not teach me how to be a man–and I knew this. I rarely took her advice on dating, though, she was one who looked at genders equally.

I started dating around 19 officially. But it was around age 22 when I was that frustrated guy (beta). I’m like: Why is finding a woman so hard? They are staying with this asshats and I get shut down every time, etc. I’m thinking to myself; there HAS to be something wrong here. I require all this miscellaneous s~~~ to attract and keep a girl, but it seems like she doesn’t have to do a damn thing; but show up. And the scary thing is, SHE KNOWS THIS.
There’s an unbalance here. And I couldn’t discuss to my mom about it, I had no male figures that had the common sense. So I struggled, but, took a different path. What woke me up was listening to two guys on YouTube: Sotomayor and Akwesi100. They had some real valid points–but primarily about black women though. It still opened my eyes.

When I got to 25, that’s when s~~~ really changed. I saw hashtags of MGTOW in some internet venues but I rarely paid attention. It was until I saw these two sites: nowife.com and dontmarry.com. Those sites where brothers to this one. And I was like WTF. When I read that, I completely agree, men have no damn business getting married. I look at the testimonials and chuckle, but if you really sit and think…the s~~~ is scary. Women are so wired differently.
I recently pointed a best friend to this website, he said: This is f~~~ing genius!
Because his ex GF was making him be ready to alter his entire life–made him feel lesser than a human being. When I pointed this out I helped him bring out his savage gentleman.

When I came here I decided to be a member and share my hundreds of experiences repelling the BS women tried to put me through. I really like the quote: Women are powerful pretending to be romantic. Men are romantic pretending to be powerful. It speaks about women in today’s society very much.

Glad to be here. Thanks.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Shade wrote:

I really like the quote: Women are powerful pretending to be romantic. Men are romantic pretending to be powerful. It speaks about women in today’s society very much.

Seriously? Women are far from powerful.

I almost c~~~ punted you just for that one sentence alone.

[StanAndreasParticipant 160]

Welcome!

Safety rules: All guns are loaded. All knives are sharp. All stoves are hot. All women are like that.

[ShadeParticipant 53]

DeepInThought wrote:

Shade wrote:

I really like the quote: Women are powerful pretending to be romantic. Men are romantic pretending to be powerful. It speaks about women in today’s society very much.

Seriously? Women are far from powerful.

I almost c~~~ punted you just for that one sentence alone.

They are powerful in many battlegrounds: Marriage, dating, and just them having a pussy alone-which is the common denominator in creating betas. If you don’t realize what women are capable of doing then you’ll never see what to lookout for.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[VeniversumParticipant 492]

I know how you feel, Shade. I was raised by a single mother also. When there is an absence of a father figure in life, we do not develop the masculine traits that are the source of attraction for women: confidence, strength, independence, and fortitude. They all want the protector, provider, leader of men male. It really sets us back when we believe in the fiction of romance. If you look at romance novels though, they do not convey the same message as movies do to the public. It’s always about the challenging alpha male who not only refuses to be controlled, but also commands the respect of the woman. Women are biologically attracted to dominance. If they can force you to submit, then they lose both respect and attraction for you. So, really we should just enjoy all of the good, and none of the bad. Go out, have fun, have sex and say no to absolutely everything else. As soon as any drama turns up, I make myself unavailable. Women will claim you are using them for sex, but you are not the only one having it, so that’s just a lie. It’s a mutual benefit. It’s men who get manipulated into trading their resources for the mutual benefit of sex in a win-win situation for the woman. Saying no to the drama and exploitation just evens the playing field.

[ShadeParticipant 53]

@veniversum

I agree! I realized the unbalance. For now I just have fun and I look at women totally different now. Even ones in my own family. And a few months ago, I started to take my ears away. Not lending that ear to hear the BS problems they want to vent on you. I keep it moving. I’ll converse with them if it is about something positive.
What I noticed in this world is that a lot of women get win-win situations in life and they don’t even realize it.

Thanks for the welcome

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[BufordParticipant 935]

Any power they have is what we allow them. They’re only powerful in those arenas because men traditionally have let themselves be used so we can get access to the Holy Pussy. It wasn’t such a bad trade off in times past because the women generally lived up to their half of the unspoken bargain.

They’re not doing that anymore, and as a consequence the men are waking up and saying, well….f~~~ you. You think we’re useless and expendable and no better than dogs, well go do it alone then and see how far you get.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome. Great to have you aboard
What a terrific quote

Shade wrote:

Women are powerful pretending to be romantic. Men are romantic pretending to be powerful.

This is the dynamics of gender interaction in a nutshell. The construct of “Manliness” is the biggest scam in human history.
Men will always be f~~~ed over unless they acknowledge that women innately have far superior manipulative skills.
If you’re aware of this, it’s almost impossible for them to manipulate you.
That’s all it is,,,,to be aware,,,that’s all it takes to negate their power,,,,,,,to be aware.

Despite women’s obsession and insistence of long term romance, they’re incapable of it.
No one explains a woman’s “Love” for a male partner better than Barbarossa (Bar Bar) I’m pretty sure the video is on the wall in here.
You’ll never have a problem with deciphering a woman’s behavior in your past, or your future once you see it.
We are the romantic ones!,,,and everything a woman says and does is designed to get us into that state of conscious.
Once we’re “In love” our whole lives center around their needs and wants..

Biologists studying parasites have discovered a whole range of parasites that induce and alter behavior in their hosts, insects, molluscs, birds, reptiles, fish and mammals,,,,,,that benefit the parasite.
Women have evolved the same mechanisms because the sexual dimorphisms related to having to birth offspring with such huge heads (brains) and a far longer childhood-caring period physically prejudiced women in a paleo environment.
In other words they needed a male protector and provider far more and longer than any other primate and possibly far more than any other mammal. They had to develop the pseudo-parasitic means to do so.

In a modern setting these primal adaptations now give them the balance of power, especially when it comes to policy and laws,,,, the squeaky wheel gets the oil.
However, the real power and prize is to “romance” a male into legally entitling her to his property and resources and future resources.

Thanks for the terrific intro. Enjoy your time here.

[Anonymous 42]

Shade wrote:

Women are so wired differently.
I recently pointed a best friend to this website, he said: This is f~~~ing genius!

It’s not their wiring that’s the trouble, it’s the fact they’re wired to the law like a detonator is wired to a bomb! They can walk a man around like a puppet using the law, then carelessly walk him into the fire, then go get another….. NOT ME!!!

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

Welcome aboard Shade.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[ShadeParticipant 53]

Thanks for all the replies! I appreciate it!

What I gather from that quote is this:

Women are powerful: Women are given many things because…they are women.

-When you go into a bar, it’s not the ladies buying guys drinks.
-What about the “Drinking Fountain Story”? (Even though that is a little girl, it still shows the advantages)
-In any fragment of OLDing (Online Dating) who messages who first?
-A chick can have a dude travel 50 miles for pussy and all she has to do is text it on her phone
-In high school, whatever the GIRLS say is popular, that’s what is popular through the entire school.
-A chick can make a guy feel like he’s on top of the world but the next day demoralize him
-Do I have to get into the woes of marriage?
-Women don’t know what they want, but they KNOW what a real man is, and in many Genderspheres whatever they say a real man is, that is what he is.

Women pretending to be romantic:

-Ever see a girl give a guy flowers?
-Who’s bending on one knee to propose?
-On Facebook, women post what they romantically want done to THEM, never what THEY will do romantically for a man
-Every time a woman does something romantic, there’s an enigma of personal reasons/gain by it
-When the last time a woman asked YOU out and PAID for the date?
-When a woman pays for a date, it is socially seen as a man being less of a man
-When a man displays affection, he is to perform more actions than words. When a woman displays affection, her kind words alone are enough

Men are romantic:

-We are wired to: hold open doors for ladies, pull out the chair, treat them with upmost respect
-When we like a girl, we are figuring out ways to impress her: getting flowers, chocolates, saying poems, serenading
-When it is anything romantic, we take initiative. We were taught this way.

Men pretending to be powerful:

-Our lifestyle has to impress women. Even if we have to lie about it
-A girl will leave the bar and get laid way more frequently than a guy could without paying a dime
-A guy has to express how powerful he is (even if he isn’t) just to woo the chick in
-Money + Power = Women / No Money + No Power = Nothing

When are men Powerful?:

-Making his own money and spending it on his own terms
-Becoming less romantic (Only give to those who are worthy)
-Knowing his self-worth as a human being
-Not living based on a woman’s terms

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Shade, I gotta go with DeepInThought. On your introduction to this site, I would advise to just keep it simple. As soon as you say s~~~ like “alpha advice”, “how to be a man”, “women looking at genders equally”, “women are powerful”, “men are weak”. Yeah, our t~~~ radars start beeping.

Shade wrote:

I require all this miscellaneous s~~~ to attract and keep a girl, but it seems like she doesn’t have to do a damn thing; but show up. And the scary thing is, SHE KNOWS THIS

She knows this in her prime. After the wall it’s “where are all the men at?”. Gas, grass, and ass, no bitch rides for free with Snake.

[ShadeParticipant 53]

@snake

I kept it simple. And he gave his opinion on that statement I made. So I gave an elaboration on what I thought of the quote, my elaboration was just longer. Maybe I’ll use the words at a different time for the more sensitive radars. There’s nothing wrong with respecting the advantages your opponent has. I’m not saying women overpower men.

I agree on your second statement too. 🙂

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

WTF is a gendersphere?

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[ShadeParticipant 53]

Theronius wrote:

WTF is a gendersphere?

I heard that term from a cousin of mine a while back. He described his job as a gendersphere. Where you have things like: alpha males, chicks, betas, factions, etc. Almost like high school.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Shade wrote:

Why is finding a woman so hard? They are staying with this asshats and I get shut down every time, etc. I’m thinking to myself; there HAS to be something wrong here.

And it’s not you. When I witnessed more than one woman dump a guy for being “too nice” to her, I thought “OK that’s it. I’m done trying to understand or help. Not my f~~~ing problem. It’s hers.”

She should have have what she WANTS!
She should have have what she PREFERS.
She should have what she thinks she DESERVES.
……. to be treated like CRAP.

But it’s not going to ME who gives her that satisfaction.

Shade wrote:

Women are powerful pretending to be romantic.

Wielding sex like an epee (or weapon) — and the ability to make a false accusation — isn’t “power” or “strength”.
It’s like watching a toddler playing with a loaded gun.

Horrifying.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I’m glad made it.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ShadeParticipant 53]

I had a chicc when I was like 16 or 17. If I remember. She gave me the passive breakup: “I just don’t think I am good enough for you. You are very nice but I just don’t think I deserve you. I have to find some things out myself.”

I admit I was p~~~ed. A month later, I hear of her f~~~ing someone else and giving BJs. But when the guy dumped her, she made sure she kept in touch with me to load her problems on. She got me good.
But yrs later I was 21, and met her at the park I hooped at. She has a kid. I talk casually to her. Let her know how well my life is going and whatnot. I could sense that she wanted to soooo bad to ask me out or “catch up” on old times, but the energy I was emitting out she just couldn’t fix her lips to do it.

It took me a while to find it out. Around 22 I was like f~~~ it, I’m just going to f~~~ and live my own way. But around my mid 20s is when I just got more cold and more aware. I really wish I had something like this back in my early 20s because what I read on here described 80% of the women I met and dealt with in my life.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Shade wrote:

I just don’t think I am good enough for you. You are very nice but I just don’t think I deserve you.

When a woman tells you that….. you can take her word for it..
It’s the only thing a woman says that you can take at face value.

That’s the special level of self-loathing known as “womanhood”.
Who else tells someone “I don’t think I’m good enough for you”?
If that’s how she feels about herself, she shouldn’t be dating anyone.
NOBODY will love someone who doesn’t like themselves.

That like announcing that her self esteem is so low….. she wouldn’t know the difference between “love” and not getting spit on.

THANK HER for saving you a heap of trouble.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ShadeParticipant 53]

Keymaster wrote:

Shade wrote:

I just don’t think I am good enough for you. You are very nice but I just don’t think I deserve you.

When a woman tells you that….. you can take her word for it..

It took 3 times for that happening to me to take their word for it and move the hell on. The third time was with a girl who I treated like a human being and she showed how she appreciate it. But then did a 180 saying that she thinks she is not worthy or me or some BS. At the end of it all, she ends up with a guy who slaps the snot out of her and she doesn’t everything in her power to justify staying with him.

From that point on I vowed to not date any women that been in abusive relationships for plus amount of years.

Gohan: "But you can't just leave me out here all alone, that's cruel!" Piccolo: "Hey kid, LIFE is cruel! And don't you forget it!"

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