I f~~~ed up :(

[Anonymous 0]

Sorry, I wasn’t aware of the need of writing an intro of any type and I haven’t done so before writing 2 replies in 2 posts concerning Brutus, the dog who was about to be dumped to make the guys’ place big enough for a hiena to fit in.

First I’m going to explain my story, then I will proceed with a more pragmatic description of myself ^^

My story:
I am Koboy, it comes from Cowboy <— Because I used to wear cowboy boots in university. I was wearing them for peac~~~ing purposes, offc, I played PUA for a long time (17-22 years old or so, right now I’m 26) and I have known the mechanics of for a real long time, so I have been exposed to the truth of how women behave for a long time. I saw my mother obliterate my father in a divorce process about 3 years ago as well.

I just had 2 girlfriends: When I was 15 I used to have a girlfriend who was way older than me, 21, she payed everything and we lived together most of the time. When I was 18, I met another girl in the middle of my PUA practitioner age.

That wouldn’t stop me from sarging and such, but I kinda felt attached to her and it ended so badly (TBH I didn’t really know how to read the situation most of the time). After I dumped her over being superstressed with many bulls~~~ issues, I spent the next 2 years f~~~ing every girl on my sights, and became bored of the whole situation and trying to find love in the most pathetic ways, losing my cold and in the process many of the skills that made me able to f~~~ those girls in the first place.

I began to see issues in my relationships with my friends as well, how they could extrapolate my dishonesty towards women in dishonesty towards them and distrust me. I could see too how many of them moved on once I wasn’t leading the party anymore and lost my usefullness as someone who could strike in girl-groups in charismatic ways. I decided beginning to live for myself and my own approval ever since, became someone much more trustworthy, followed my own integrity principles, I enrolled in university after not having gone to school for about 6 years, and I dropped the bulls~~~ of lying to girls or anyone in order to get laid. (I quit drugs, smoking and drinking too in that very moment, + began working out)

And life got better! Better relationships with everyone, felt good with myself for the first time in years, (maybe ever) and my future looked much more promising. Then the divorce&obliteration happened. I knew how this kind of thing worked so it didn’t alarm me at all, but it got so messy at home that I left for a year and a half with a dude because I couldn’t even hang around there.

One year after I fell in love (Like for real) with a girl who I used to study with. She had a boyfriend, I became the lover, it was a f~~~ed up situation and I called it quits on the fourth month or so because I was so f~~~ing in love with her but I couldn’t stand how she acted and how she tried to manipulate me into staying there. I mean, the woman-lies hurt so much I couldn’t even stand it.

Seeing how I decided to get involved into something I didn’t believe in, hurt me too bad. How I felt like she was so amazing, but lied in the cruelest fashion to his boyfriend and tried to camouflage and rationalize her own acts with self-told lies, the same thing my mother was doing everytime. I kind of lost faith in that moment, but for the first time ever, I was able to see what I was capable of.

I obviously knew how hypergamy works, what a s~~~ test is, etc, and loving someone with that intensity fueled me to do the most incredible things in my life. I began working out hard as ever, got handsome as I ever could, got happy as I ever could, began topping marks everytime, it was like my potential got unleashed and I felt so f~~~ing unstoppable. So unstoppable that I could resist the urge of keeping on with taht f~~~ed up situation and sent her away. And I was okay within a week or so. (Spoiler alert: She wasn’t :O)

I understood the chemical and biological imperatives of the situation so I have never hated her either.

Ever since though, I began to feel a lack of motivation. Had some depressive moments, and the feeling of having lost purpose etc. I lost some of my physical shape, (when I was that girls lover I was so fit I drowned in pussy, it was one of the major discussions we had. “I do not trust you, you hang out with more girls” yet she was the one who had a lover and I knew I couldn’t stop hanging around with all the other girls or I’d lose control over the situation, how I felt and how I could act.)

So, two months after the whole situation in which I fought so hard and I got to know what I am trully capable of, even though it was still good with girls and friends, I lacked the motivation to keep going on. And it punished me. I went downward for a whole 14 months span. And even though my overall situation was so good, I felt miserable. That was 9 months ago.

I cried like a baby alone in my room every day for like 2 weeks. I went from an amazing fighter state of life to a miserable bitch in just a year, and I knew that the main difference between these 2 completely different versions of who I am was that one version of me had a girl who loved to fight for, and the other one took for every good thing in his life that came as a result of that motivation for granted and stopped fighting for a whole year. I began to fight again, and I would say I am 60% as happy as I was on my peak, which is BIG F~~~ING DEAL. I mean, I love my life right now. I still do not feel as motivated, but I’m beginning to do so. And when I do, it will be because I find something trully worthy of fighting for, and it will be real.

I learned so much during all this time. And I’ve seen many of my beloved friends fall on the same traps. They were clearly way less exposed to the reality than I was. Many of them have been in the f~~~ed up love-bulls~~~ situation and exposed themselves much more than what I did because they wouldn’t know how this f~~~ing s~~~ works. And I told them, over an over, what to do and what not to in many instances. And as time went on, they began to see truth in what I spoke about, and right now they believe what I told them and they understand how women work, but they still feel the s~~~ they do not want to feel. (Just as I am able to feel if I lower my guard and become friends with someone that I consider attractive, as badboywhatever I could be, I’m gonna fall for that girl again if I allow myself to do so).

It was when trying to help these guys (It all happened in the whole process of being in university, maybe from the time when I was so deeply in love until now, about 2 years and 2 months or so) that I began searching for info on the topic since I already knew abit of psychology from my PUA days but I didn’t want to speak too much of something that maybe I didn’t know. I learned about some guy called rooshv which I considered to be weak hater, some other guy called rollo tomassi and some manosphere s~~~ and stuff… With many reasonable thinkning that I liked yet I did not share many of the opinions they held.

My beloved friends, who got f~~~ing angry at women in general for not being who they want them to be, began searching more anti-feminist stuff over the internet and sharing links. In a session of browsing youtube content I found colttaine’s channel. And dude, if I liked it XD I watched all the content within a day. I found about this forum in the process of searching for some community. And I am so glad I found it.

Pragmatic description:

I am 26 years old, will finish my bachelor thesis this year (Electronical engineering), I am from Barcelona, Spain, currently living in Germany to finish the proejct and struggling to learn the language.
I like weightlifting, thinking objectively, people that don’t bulls~~~ around, people that don’t whine, technology, computer science, maths, videogames (Find me in steam anytime btw), taking care of my health, having worthy debates and many other things.

Would be glad to make friends in person anytime.

oh s~~~ and I love music, playing guitar singing etc!!! 😀

Cheers guys! I hope I will be able to give something to the community.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Sorry, I wasn’t aware of the need of writing an intro of any type and I haven’t done so before writing 2 replies in 2 posts concerning Brutus, the dog who was about to be dumped to make the guys’ place big enough for a hiena to fit in.

I like this guy already.

[StealthParticipant 5328]

Bienvenido, koboy.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome, Koboy. S M W

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 42]

Sounds like you don’t need any coaching, you seem to know the score, especially being from gyniocentric Spain!

I like singing and guitar too, heels the soul…

[Anonymous 5]

Welcome Koboy and thanks for the intro.

Anonymous wrote:

My beloved friends, who got f~~~ing angry at women in general for not being who they want them to be,

To be fair, women never stop promoting the dream that they’re cute, lovable carers, so it’s not all men’s fault for expecting to find a unicorn.
The fairy tale version of women is the only way women can legally lock down men as a resource. They’ll never stop preaching it.

Anonymous wrote:

I found colttaine’s channel. And dude, if I liked it XD

I love this mans ideas as well. He uses a minimum of emotion and a maximum amount of logic. I’ve seen and recorded all his videos as well.

It doesn’t matter what the addiction is, your reptile brain tells you your life will be f~~~ed and pointless without it. The Blue Pill dream is an addiction too.
You’ll get back to “Normal” in a year or so, just like getting over any other addiction. It’ll be a better “Normal” than you ever had before where you were always chasing happiness by trying to please and impress and be validated by women.

[Anonymous 7]

Dag-nab it I dropped the ball.
A virtual cold beer for you sir.

Welcome koboy.

[Anonymous 8]

Anonymous wrote:

Cheers guys! I hope I will be able to give something to the community.

You just did.

Welcome to MGTOW brother.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome amigo !

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

ul…

I’ve been the coach for a while now… Just not efficient. They are better right now and they appreciate, I just cannot help them overcome the pain, it came naturally to me over time. I do really believe it has something to do with workouts, hobbies (Music heals :P), and the ambition that I am getting again towards my goals. I just focus on doing everything that will improve my life, well being and development in the f~~~ing hopes they’ll get inspired enough to move on, because it is clear to me that as much as they trust and see the logic in the explanaitions I give them, the true change must come from within.
I’ve been so f~~~ing lucky. I had the best coach, my mother. I could sense everything since I was about 7 years old, when I began bullying her for being a manipulative bitch. I was just too little to hold on what I thought, I learned to shut up as a teen though XD We had such a f~~~ing bad relationship for so long. I don’t hate her anymore though, even she tried to manipulate me and proved to be a s~~~ty human being countless times. Right now I feel pity, she is one of the unhappiest persons I ever met and I cannot even manage to show empathy to her… It gets me sick.

Trail:
To my surprise, some of them are beginning to see all the signals in every new woman they meet. They were like super-joyful whenever they met a new girl before, now they are beginning to see the clues by themselves all over, I do really think they’ll keep up. It just sucks to see them suffering sometimes. The reptilian brain, as you say 🙁

Anonymous wrote:

I love this mans ideas as well. He uses a minimum of emotion and a maximum amount of logic. I’ve seen and recorded all his videos as well.

I loved how coherently he can act with his own knowledge of people’s actions and nature. I wondered if he was like that in his everyday life, it gave me hope for my dudes because I’m the only one in my friends group that doesn’t get annoyed with the truth or loses time overthinking every day the same facts and raging about them and sharing the rage with every other among us. My protocol relies more on knowing how evolution works (which I consider to be extremely useful data) and use it as every other data I know to improve my performance. Since he said on some video that he doesn’t do what he does to help anyone, I asked him why, and asked him if he knew of any forum/community to join it. I guess I will discover if they get to this point in some time, but I wanted to know what’s the general evolution for the people who get pilled. <– Clearly after some exploration I found this forum, so I guess I will get my answer soon enough!

Anonymous wrote:

You’ll get back to “Normal” in a year or so

I’ve been so happy for the last 9 months, way above my wholelife average and only surpassed by the 4 months period in which I was even more motivated than now <— Still way better than “Normal” in my case!!! And I’m pretty confident that soon enough I’ll top that, because whatever the project I get involved in, I know I will believe in it. Prospects for the future are shinnier than ever, by far ^^ I’ll let you know.

[ManBearPigParticipant 103]

Welcome brother!

[wyrParticipant 591]

Welcome brother!

Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

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Anonymous wrote:

Cheers guys! I hope I will be able to give something to the community.

Welcome koboy, I’m sure you will continue to contribute, this nice intro of yours is already a great contribution for the 25000 Members, Enjoy the Forums.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Welcome, feel free to contact me if you need help with German.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

Bienvenido mi amigo.

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