I found a unicorn, NAWALT!!!

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

What females gave up.

20 years ago my other grandfather died of Parkinson’s disease (I won’t go like that). My grandmother took care of him as long as possible. She was so exhausted that she had to crawl up the stairs at night, because it was her duty (in her mind). They hid how bad he was from everyone, shame issues.

He died and she went to the assisted living home. She earned a rest. She lived there for another 15 years. Assisted living cost her ca. ½ million dollars (no BS) over 15 years. She died recently. Recently, as a grandchild, I got a check in the mail from a lawyer for $XX,XXX from her estate. WTF. I thought she was destitute. I’m wondering if they were Meth dealers. Where did the money come from? No one knows.

Somehow, my grandfather, a blue collar tradesman (no pension), earned and saved enough money to:

Fight in a World War
Raise 7 children through the depression
Spend ½ million dollars to care for his wife.

The funny thing is that my grandmother had one demand. She got her hair done every week (or two, I forget) from marriage until she died. No Oprah crap, no hypergamy, no cheating.

Her one demand was she got her hair done every week. Her life wasn’t easy but it wasn’t that hard, compared to many.

That is love or duty, and what else can you say.

Yep, she never worked outside the home, she was totally dependent on my grandfather, oh the horror! The gilded concentration camp. I’m sure she could have been a brain surgeon if she wanted to be, but it didn’t happen that way. She made her choices.

I’m not saying that this should be the life of every female, but she was as happy as a blue collar family could be.

Also, my grandmother wasn’t a female, she was a woman.

NAWALT, I knew one unicorn. There used to be herds of unicorns, sadly, they all died out. Feminism poisoned them.

Young Men, when you read the history books, this is what it was like. You will never see this kind of love and devotion. It doesn’t exist anymore.

I knew one unicorn.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I know a lot of older people in their 80’s. It’s just the age all my Aunts etc are.

None of them got divorced and all of the women, and they’re all women, nursed their husbands till their deaths. So there were plenty of Unicorns at one time.

The pond has been poisoned with loco weed and the mares are running wild, freewheeling with no direction so no progress is made.

Us bucks carelessly walk away, better pastures are just over the hill if we go our own way.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Sure buddy i found an unicorn too…
Unicorns exist!

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

I don’t believe in Unicorns…but the California Highway Patrol sure does…hell they chased one for almost 4 hrs!

http://www.csmonitor.com/USA/Justice/2016/0227/Chasing-a-unicorn-in-California.-What-should-be-police-response-time

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

The pond has been poisoned with loco weed

Surely you’re not blaming cannabis for feminism? Cannabis has been in use for thousands of years before feminism came along, especially the blame-men-for-everything variety we seem to have now in abundance.

Maybe you meant a different weed, or it was just and expression?

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

You all are missing the point. Females used to be better. Now not so much.

NAWALT refers to a previous generation. Something that today’s females could learn from.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22558]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

You all are missing the point. Females used to be better. Now not so much.

NAWALT refers to a previous generation. Something that today’s females could learn from.

That is because the current society and technology is designed to feed on women’s narcissism, hedonism, and other darker traits.

No one today talks about teaching a girl mental discipline.

And for women, self-respect today is considered akin to being an exhibitionist. With being selective in lovers many how much sex a woman can have, with as many men as possible. With her being able to financially screw over the men that she can convince to fall in love with her.

Half a century ago, gold diggers were frowned upon by most women. Now, gold digging by women is considered a national sport by most women.

[Anonymous 54]

My Grandmother cuold make an apple pie from scratch. My Grandfarher died young,but she never remarried and wore her wedding ring until the the day she died. Times were different. Women were different. Now they just creep me out. I loved her so.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Great story Jan-

Your grandmother sounds like she was a treasure.
I often work in Sun City, where the average age is now 86.

It seems to me that ladies from that era are completely different than modern women. I honestly don’t know what happened to society. Your grandfather was fortunate to know a good woman. You and I might not be so lucky.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Thanks PPP,

She was and I miss her.

I wanted to share how things have changed. I am not advocating that this is the path for every female. I wanted to share that there were good marriages, partnerships at one time. That partners took care of each other in one way or another. That females weren’t messed up and could still have a good life. That partners took care of each other.

That the divorce rate for their generation was a lot lower than it is today. That people were happy with what they had.

and stuff.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

What females gave up.

20 years ago…

I knew one unicorn.

Your family was a lucky family.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Big Boss,

Thanks, Yes she was. But those were different times.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

That was back when men and women cooperated with each other and each did their role. Now women are constantly trying to compete with their partner inside the relationship and be the patriarch. Every relationship I’ve been in, the woman was constantly trying to prove she was as smart as me or strong as me, etc. Every time she failed, she resented me. On the few occassions where she won, she gloated. How is that a healthy relationship? So, with competition instead of cooperation, of course there are going to be conflicts and stepping on toes. When roles are not defined, people do what they want to do and never what they need to do. Things get done twice (arguments over whose way is better) or things get missed (arguments over who should have done it, blame game). Marriage is a s~~~ show now. Chaos.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

uchibenkei wrote:

That was back when men and women cooperated with each other and each did their role. Now women are constantly trying to compete with their partner inside the relationship and be the patriarch. Every relationship I’ve been in, the woman was constantly trying to prove she was as smart as me or strong as me, etc. Every time she failed, she resented me. On the few occassions where she won, she gloated. How is that a healthy relationship? So, with competition instead of cooperation, of course there are going to be conflicts and stepping on toes. When roles are not defined, people do what they want to do and never what they need to do. Things get done twice (arguments over whose way is better) or things get missed (arguments over who should have done it, blame game). Marriage is a s~~~ show now. Chaos.

No doubt. The NAWALT referred to women( because they were women back then) of a different generation. These days they are females who are AWALT.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

It’s impossible for traditional family model to compete with Hive’s programming through materialism, atheism, Cosmo, Sex In The City, Desperate Housewives, MTV and other crud. Women are too suggestible, so if they haven’t been born into nuclear families and indoctrinated with religious or other morals – they will fill the void with feminism and television, reinforced by female family and friends.
Men don’t stand a chance in this grinder. Society is f~~~ed sideways

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[NeutronParticipant 321]

Because values were different in the 20’s, 30’s, 40’s and 50’s, people were different too. A lot of the s~~~ that is accepted these days would have been frowned on by earlier generations. My parents and grandparents were from the school of ‘you work for what you got’ and that’s how I was raised. We owe much of what we have today to Feminism and Liberalism.

None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

[KeithParticipant 482]

Long ago my mom told me that I didn’t need to get married. She thought that women “nowadays” want to be men and she believed that this would be an obstacle to a successful marriage. She said women now want to be independent so she said they should be and she told me to harvest the fruit without owning the crops.

She is now 90 years old and she said that gender roles were created and refined over thousands of years and their importance could not be underestimated or easily dismissed. She likes to use my sisters’ marriage failures as examples and she places the blame squarely on their shoulders. My former brothers in law are even included in social events she hosts because as she puts it – “they are nice boys, they were good providers but they had bad wives”.

I didn’t realize how prophetic these words would prove to be.

ONCE UPON A TIME there was a man who never found a wife and he lived happily ever after. The End.

[experiencedParticipant]

Now when laydeez start in with the, “You should be ashamed,” I pay them no mind.
Had my Grandmother said it, I seriously Would be ashamed.
I enjoy posts here where now and then an elderly woman relative will tell today’s man, ~”stay away from them, they’re not the same as years ago.”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RoyDalParticipant]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

You all are missing the point. Females used to be better. Now not so much.

I agree, Jan. As far as I can tell, all the women on both sides of my family who were from the WW1 and Great Depression generations were what we now call NAWALTs.

That’s all gone. The Unicorns missed the Ark and got caught and drowned in the flood of modern feminism. But they once were on the earth in great numbers, I’m sure.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I think that the last Unicorns were actually our Great Grandmothers.

My Grandma took care of Grandpa until the day that she couldn’t anymore, but she didn’t make sure that her daughter followed her path.

My Mom is nothing like my Grandma, she is actively planning for after my Dad passes to do something that he wants today. I became a Grandfather in October, and he immediately wanted to put their house on the market to move closer to the entire family instead of staying in their badly chosen retirement location.

She wants to wait until Dads gone to move closer so my sister and I can help her out. I told her during their last visit and this is a direct quote of what I said with both of them present, “Fat chance I’ll help the bitch that made my Dad die seven states away.” I said it with a smile so he laughed and she made that little uncomfortable noise that Hillary Clinton makes when confronted with humor.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

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