I finally let go.

[M.V.Participant 30]

Hello,

I registered an account here about two years ago, read some forum posts and then my life went in a specific direction (i.e. me being an idiot and believing NAWALT). It started with a relationship of seven years ending, seven years spent with a woman who I felt I loved, though I had to constantly fight for her attention and affection while at the same time, so the relationship with Girl 1 is over. I start dating a friend (Girl 2) I knew that entire time who after three months wanted to be an open relationship, she wanted me to watch her have sex with other dudes (i.e. literal cuck) so that ended.

After Girl 2 I spent some time in a deep depression. Girl 1 always kept me from going to the gym or trying to get in shape claiming she’d miss me but also that she “hates muscle men” so I give that up to make her happy which was a big mistake. As I’m trying to pull myself out of depression again and battling alcoholism I end up meeting Girl 3 who is the definition of a Bargoyle. We hook up a few times; but once she started spouting about rape culture while also demanding I pay for her drinks I dropped her like a bad habit.

In the recent year, I finally get into a boxing club, start going to the gym and losing weight which I did sadly have to stop for half a year last year due to hernia surgery. Recently as I started going to the club again as well as hitting a regular gym two extra nights a week I found myself longing to be back with either girl 1 or girl 2 again, maybe even girl 3 if I was desperate.

Then it finally happened: this weekend I was out at the bar with some friends and talking to well girl 4. I don’t see her that often, but she’s always been really cute and the type that I tend to go for. After talking to her a bit I feel that spark of romance and live (i.e. Bulls~~~ Brain Chemicals) acting up again. The next day an older friend called me:

“Hey, I heard you were talking to Girl 4. Just a heads up dude, she used to date my son and he’s about your age. She’s no good man she put him through this, lied to him, etc. etc.”

My after work bar buddy told me the exact same story that I went through with Girl 1 almost as if he had seen me go through it all those seven years ago. Finally, something in me just snapped, I had enough. I logged back onto this website this morning and spent my that time before work reading posts and replied to one. I read posts on my two breaks at work, I read posts on my lunch. I was finally able to see it all, I was finally able to let go. Do I spend another seven years giving up my life, my time, my dreams, my goals just for the sake of maybe some pussy and a kiss before I leave the house or do I finally go my own way?

The answer was obvious, and here I am.

I’m 36, live on my own, avid gamer, love DBZ, and I’m a natural southpaw.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Good for you. Life will become less complicated and more clear when you kknow and recognize truths that will save you from personal destruction.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome, fellow southpaw, your buddy did you a major favor, it’s awesome to see men looking out for each other. You have walked away with minimal damage. All the girls were typical, demanding or trying to change you and not giving anything back. Cucking, destroying your hobbies, demanding you pay for everything while demanding equality, lying, all stress inducing. Peace and quiet is priceless.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Never underestimate the value of serenity and freedom.

Women offer neither. A wet hole behind meat curtains is a poor substitute.

With their foolishness and destructiveness, at best they are a source of amusement, best watched from a distance. Sort of like this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oppau_explosion

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

M.V. wrote:

I’m a natural southpaw

When I broke my left arm, learning how to use the right hand was a challenge.

M.V. wrote:

…..she started spouting about rape culture…….

These hateful women don’t even realize how repugnant their nonsense makes them.

And their numerous false accusations are a serious problem for our civilization.

Here is a Facebook page that attempts to discuss it:

https://www.facebook.com/SaveForFalselyAccused

The denial of this problem is overwhelming.

Perhaps it hits too close to home, like the inability to see the nose on your face.

Maybe an example from the natural world would help.

Consider what would happen if large groups of hens started attacking the Rooster with murderous intent.

M.V. wrote:

…….or do I finally go my own way?

The answer was obvious, and here I am.

Good choice.

Hope to hear more about your adventures on the MGTOW Road.

Cheers M.V.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Southpaw, you f~~~ers are hard to fight, the fact that you had that “desire” to hook up is great, your testosterone levels must be going up keep the gym you fat f~~~.

Tame the lizard and remember, those women examples you had in your life are not monsters, they are not evil, they are just women, normal, baseline, plain womem, that is the minimum you can expect, from there on, well…

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 38]

Even the ‘good’ women suck because they are manipulative and disloyal. And are not good enough for most thinking, conscientious men.

Welcome back brother.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Every man has his breaking point. Your male friends breaking the spell those whores were casting is why women have tried so hard to eliminate male spaces.

Welcome. Live for yourself. Lift heavy, run hard, sting like a bee.

Your next step is learning to be invisible so you passively filter out more of these nonsensical whores and have time to do what you want without distractions.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[M.V.Participant 30]

Brothers, thank you all for the replies and the warm welcomes. It’s almost Zen like how I feel right now, as if there are all these doors open before me and I not only can choose any door I want, I can choose every door. All paths are open and free to be explored. I do have a feeling though that the Bargoyle will be trying to get in touch with me soon, she has a pattern about it. If it happens I can update the story here in another post.

[HermitParticipant]

M.V. wrote:

she wanted me to watch her have sex with other dudes (i.e. literal cuck) I found myself longing to be back with either girl 1 or girl 2 again, maybe even girl 3 if I was desperate.
Then it finally happened: this weekend I was out at the bar with some friends and talking to well girl 4. Do I spend another seven years giving up my life, my time, my dreams, my goals just for the sake of maybe some pussy and a kiss.

Congratulations on surviving all these dumb whores. It is best to stay completely away from all women as much as you can. However, if you’re careful and keep control of your emotions, you don’t have to give anything up for the pussy and the kiss. Just use them like they all used you. Get what you want from them and give nothing back, especially your emotions. That is always a man’s downfall, giving away your emotions and wanting a relationship with a woman.

Again, as everyone knows, it’s best to have nothing to do with women, but if you have a need to satisfy an urge, get in and get out. F~~~ ’em and forget ’em. Use them and lose them. Do not ever have any feelings for them. It’s been working great for me. Sex is just sex and if and when you get tired of them or they start some bulls~~~, it just ends. No feelings for them, no emotions, so no pain, no problem. So it’s over now. I’ll just get some sex from someone else if I need to.

I have this one I’ve been with off and on for years. She’ll get lonely so I’ll get some sex for awhile, then she changes her mind and doesn’t want to see me anymore, so no big deal. “Ok, bye.” ………and I’ll get it somewhere else for a while. Then some months go by and she’s lonely again so I’ll get some more from her. I don’t know what emotions she’s feeling and I don’t care, because I have none for her at all. It’s so easy.

I’ll never have any feelings or emotions for any female ever again. It’s a fool’s fantasy to think you can be in a “loving relationship” these days, if it were ever possible at all. Give your emotions to a dog or a cat. They’ll appreciate it more than a woman and won’t use you and abuse you like a woman will.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Many men have found a unicorn girlfriend, and they are happy until the day they get stabbed by the horn.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Congrats on letting it go…..

As time goes by you learn how to adjust to a life w/o a woman around all the time. Focus on the “self,” just don’t become selfish. Working out is a great outlet,but it also elevates the “T”,and that can be difficult to deal with. Avoid girl #4 like the plague.

You will have “needs” like we all do at times,(Hell, we’re MEN right?!?). Give it a tug and push it back down.That’s better than getting involved with a woman and all that entales. When it gets too bad, find a FWB situationor just pay for it;either way it will be a search for that one “good one.”
Best to you !

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1284]

M.V. wrote:

depression. Girl 1 always kept me from going to the gym or trying to get in shape claiming she’d miss me but also that she “hates muscle men” so I give that up to make her happy which was a big mistake.

Translation: “I hate men I can’t control”. She likes weak spineless men.

Muscles don’t make you strong, they are one example of applied willpower, which is where true strength lies. Some women latch onto the symbols as signs to avoid of successful male willpower. Other examples are typical of traditional masculinity: integrity, loyalty, honor, stable emotions, stable mind, stable labor/work/career, or enjoyable labor, patriotism, self defense, masculine patience (think hunting/tracking/BS tolerance), and most especially love. Remember love is where they attack us the most now.

Welcome home!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Vajra Varaha wrote:

Other examples are typical of traditional masculinity: integrity, loyalty, honor, stable emotions, stable mind, stable labor/work/career, or enjoyable labor, patriotism, self defense, masculine patience (think hunting/tracking/BS tolerance), and most especially love.

Well said.

And individual Women are too often seen as Unicorns when they mimic men’s values.

But once they steal “The Crown,” women revert to their true nature, Woman’s Nature. AWALT.

Vajra Varaha wrote:

……. love is where they attack us the most now.

A women uses our great capacity for love as a tool for our enslavement.

The following Video by Turd Flinging Monkey does a great job of Mansplaining:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5OnPJoZG8A&t=47s

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Gravel PitParticipant]

M.V. wrote:

told me the exact same story that I went through with Girl 1

Barbarossa phrased it sort of like, “I realized one day, all these women are the same cookie cut version, is there like a factory cranking them out somewhere?”

The only reason I ever stayed MGTOW after discovering it 5 years ago, was because Barbarossa playlists (still there today) and the Stardusk Compilation (also still on Youtube by Phil G the Knowbody).

Specifically the 4 part Powered by Orgasm, Barbarossa videos and his Traditonalism videos opened my eyes. The Stardusk Compilation saved my life because its red pill after red pill for 6 hours. You dont leave that without an impression.

Without those two men (Lets face it, Sandman wasn’t intellectually filling enough) I would have chased a woman down, got her prego and Id be paying child support or in an unhealthy relationship/marriage.

Im glad to say Im single, healthy (emotionally, physically and economically) with no kids and Im HAPPY. So what is the harm that MGTOW has done to my life??? It’s has ONLY been a positive force in my life.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

There is one way to know for sure if MGTOW is right for you. Listen to the video while cleaning house, playing a game, driving, whatever… just listen to it. THEN make your decision. Do not be dissuaded by fake ass MGTOW content on Youtube. This is how REAL MGTOW got started. The seeds that started it all

[Gravel PitParticipant]

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Last one. Spock found this the other day. If you actually listen to this brief video, this guy sums up some HUGE truths about women & men. This is the briefest version of accepting some deep truths that most MEN refuse to listen to, that I have ever seen in 5 years. Colttaine and huMAN are probably the best MGTOW content producers along with Barbar, Stardusk (Thinking Ape) & Turd FLinging Monkey

[Gravel PitParticipant]

He is talking about Hypergamy and evolutionary biology. Sexually dimorphic species. This whole conflict is about our iron clad, instinctive, genetic sexual behavior (evo-psych) clashing with Modernity (modern medicine like contraception/abortion and modern culture like feminism and no fault divorce/child support).

That collision is only a century old! After millions of years of natural adaption, our perfectly honed sexual traits are perfect for surviving Ice Ages and Volcanoes but when you introduce all the spoils of modernity and LURE women out of their natural roles… YOU GET THIS…

[StealthParticipant 5330]

My buddy works in a hospital, and sees local humanity from the ground. He tells me stories of old senile racist women or girlfriends who stab men in the genitals with dirty needles during an argument, causing years of infection and more. He is young and on dating sites and will meet up with girls, but he is cautious, and he recognizes “there are no decent women out there.”

It’s important to learn from the lessons and experiences that you encounter—that’s where this whole “matrix” vocabulary comes from. There is a system of illusory lies in place, but the truth is much different. In the sensory, short-term the truth offers less, but in the long term it is the path to health, longevity, and well-being. Just like the rest of us, you’re learning these lessons, which has brought you here… Welcome!

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

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