I feel like s~~~

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

I’m 43 and totally “beta” because I married young until I was 38. I’m jealous of my recent ex of a two year deal. She’s better off and its my fault for knowing. I suck at avoiding the poisoning in my head. I had to look her up. I want her to be miserable. She went from meeting me when she was fat and a f~~~ing raging bitch to dumping me, losing the weight with surgery, getting a nursing job and meeting other dudes and having a blast. I don’t want her back. I’m done getting involved with women. So why am I torturing myself? Why did I look her up just to see a recent pic of her and some other dude? I’m so f~~~ing worried that I will never be ok and will always need to know if she’s miserable or not. I’ve never been this twisted over someone so f~~~ing awful to me. I was only good enough when she was 150 lbs heavier. I was her emotional punching bag and she got away with it. I just want her to be miserable. I want to be happy and watch the bitch burn.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

It is your choice if you want to be happy or not…You need to move on and stop trying to get validation from others…Validate yourself…Read and reread gems here…You will learn…Put effort into it and push through the pain…Ghost her and focus on your own life….

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 42]

Give it time with mental adjustments and you’ll feel right as snow on a brisk cold day.

This too soon shall pass.

You never know how empty and worthless a woman feels being masters of hiding their true feelings and emotions, women liberated to their own hypergamy are cursed in ways we’ll never know or understand.

I don’t “feel like s~~~” anymore, time and mental fortitude got me here! My ability to love and be concerned for the opposing gender are all but evaporated to a foggy mist.

Now I’m happy sending them down the road to happen on someone else and never getting involved, not for so much as a millisecond!

I’m just a broken cog in their hypergamy wheel.

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

There’s nothing unusual about any of this. Don’t feel alone.

In the meantime, make a serious effort to discover what things make you happy in themselves. (i.e. not getting revenge at your ex). Do you have a hobby? A favorite book? Somewhere outdoors you enjoy?

You’ve probably been stuck in the mindset of “my happiness comes from her” for so long that it might be hard to assess what your true joys are. But now is the time to really find out what truly makes you happy and brings you joy in this life.

And then do it.

Don’t try to suppress the anger… it will take care of itself when you occupy your mind with something else.

Don’t sit alone in your apartment/house and be miserable. Do something.

Don’t check up on your ex on social media. DELETE FACEBOOK!!!

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

Read threads here and take it all in. Check MGTOW content on YouTube, go through channel playlists and you’ll see the topics covered that you need. They explain everything, back it up with stats, facts and clips to prove it.
It’s not just you, it’s not your fault.
Welcome home.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Mr Logic wrote:

I had to look her up.

What you saw was a picture.

She posed, for a fraction of a second, for her audience – The World Wide Web.

Keep that in mind.

She might have lost weight, got a job, (enter whatever else) but you don’t know what’s going on in her head or her life. Those who use social media, put their best foot forward and usually FAKE, to create an image for everyone else.

She might be miserable as f~~~, but she’s not going to post that on social media.

was only good enough when she was 150 lbs heavier. I was her emotional punching bag and she got away with it.

^ Think about this.

Seriously consider that. Do you think NOW that she’s lost 150 lbs, she’s a more: polite, nurturing, loving, gracious creature?

That’s NEVER how it works with women.

She’s probably even MORE of a bitch now. I bet whoever is unfortunate enough to be w/her is getting verbally and mentally abused in ways you couldn’t imagine.

And as another poster pointed out – what your thinking is absolutely normal and every human does this.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Mr Logic wrote:

I’m 43 and totally “beta” because I married young until I was 38.

Don’t beat yourself up man.

Don’t refer to OR think of yourself as “beta”.

Many men got married young only to divorce later. It’s ok.

There are guys out there on the internet discussing how their ‘incel’ (Involuntarily Celibate). They have never and can’t get laid.

Just giving you a flip side of the coin to consider.

Resident cynic.

[bladeParticipant]

Do you honestly miss all the bulls~~~ that comes with a woman .

You are free to do what the f~~~ you want .

Go hire a couple of hookers or some s~~~ .

Bro three threads below yours in redpill rage .

Put things into play that you couldnt do been with her .

If she would take you back tommorow do you feel that you could move on . Always worrying whos dick she is sucking behind your back .

Her used by date is done . An upcomming postwall in a few years you will have the last laugh when she realises her looks are over .

Time my bro time . Sit back it will come . In 3 years you will look back and think what the f~~~ was that all about . F~~~ i was thinking like a f~~~head back then over a vintage vagina .

Time give it time .

Your pain is normal . Use it for a positive . Thats what it will be when you pass it .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Ohhh I understand your feeling, why you ask.

She is s~~~ty person, then why heaven don’t give her a fitting punishment?

Well, life ain’t fair, she might or might not get punished in life.

But the question is, except for the little satisfaction of knowing that she is f~~~ed up, how does her failure benefit you?… yes, that is right it doesn’t.

Me, my selft I felt the same way, but later I realized, NOW SHE IS SOMEONE ELSE PROBLEM, you are free and you know what the other guy ignores, you are two steps ahead.

Now I wold sleep a lot better if my ex wife was dead, why? Is not because I hate her, but because she knows everything about me, there is a person in this world who I don’t know at all, who is a chameleon and has no moral at all, capable of anything, she know my ID number, my tendency to choose passwords, my passport number, my personal data, that is a dangerous person for my wellbeing.

Soo, yes I wish my ex was dead, is like having a poisonous snake in your room, im safer if she is dead.

Now, can you think it that way:

1) life ain’t fair, she won’t be punished, karma is a lie.
2) why do you feel like you losed something? She was a “heavy “ burden.
3) think about you, how things benefit you.
4) ZERO F~~~S GIVEN.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[JakeParticipant 908]

old bad habits

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

You are p~~~ed because she took advantage of you and you want to see her suffer but the way to move passed this is to forgive yourself for betraying your principles to be with her. Doesn’t matter if she was fat or skinny pussy has this deranged affect on men and they can’t think clearly and almost every time the woman you are with is put on a pedestal by you because that is what we are taught to do at a young age and well past adulthood too.

Forgive yourself don’t beat yourself up anymore it is ok to let go. As an added bonus once you forgive yourself, down the road karma will catch up to her and pile drive her into the fence as the wall takes no prisoners. She will be ugly soon enough and you will think to yourself if you ever do see her wtf did I find so attractive with this POS of a woman. Remember you were always the catch not her and it is her loss not yours that she is gone from your life now is the time to celebrate your freedom. These feelings you are having will eventually pass don’t worry brother we are here to help you through that.

[SmeeParticipant 228]

You can have what you want, but you need to change your mind set.

Stop spending time looking her up and seeing how she is doing, that is totally unproductive time for you.

Find the path you want to take, fitness, education, earnings and be a man and chase it.

Set some targets and then when you meet them see if you still want to know how she is doing. You may well find you no longer have that urge, but if you do, you know you at least are in a better position yourself.

If it takes you a little longer than you think, you may well find she’s sliding down the wall after hitting it at speed.

Basically look to yourself, not her.
There is nothing she has to offer you that she hasn’t taken from you already.
It’s the unfairness of it all that is galling you. Only you, will stop you, from being a victim.

Cold harsh words, meant with empathy and concern, from someone who’s been there, seen and done it.

It’s not ‘Man Up !’, just ‘Be a Man, Brother, be all you can’.

Smee Again

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Rhino wrote:

the way to move passed this is to forgive yourself for betraying your principles to be with her.

Listen to all the guys here LordBrady, it’s all great advice.

I was angry for a while too and I wanted to ‘prove’ to everyone I was better off w/o her. The problem is, you’ll NEVER move on this way.

Ancientwisdom wrote:

She posed, for a fraction of a second, for her audience – The World Wide Web.

Women are NOTORIOUS for this. Their entire online lives are fabricated to personify perfection. You can’t trust a word she says or a photo she posts. The most important thing is you need to NOT CARE.

DON’T LOOK HER UP.

You have to focus on yourself for a bit. Do the things you love. MAKE YOURSELF BETTER and F~~~ WHAT SHE THINKS.

You’re a great guy mate. You’re better off in THIS SITUATION because now YOU’RE IN CONTROL.

Make something of it.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

Thanks guys. I’m taking this to heart.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

YOUR CHOICE, either Continue to STAY in YOUR OWN Self-Inflicted Misery or CHOOSE DAILY to Move On.

Your lil Cupcake has moved on don’t you OWE IT TO YOURSELF to do the SAME.

By the way, if you’re using Fakebook or the like to look up your ex–WHY ?

Do you really think that she would post ANYTHING about herself that wouldn’t make her look like she’s having the time of HER LIFE ?

Social Media is Poison and Lies.

Stop HATING your ex, YOUR HATE is becoming YOUR FOCUS IN YOUR LIFE.

STRIVE for INDIFFERENCE towards her, and put ALL that ENERGY that YOU ARE WASTING on HER onto YOUR OWN LIFE. It’s a process, and takes MENTAL PRACTICE.

START PRACTICING TODAY……?

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Mr Logic wrote:

Thanks guys. I’m taking this to heart.

Good. There’s a ton of great advice in this thread.

Move forward and don’t look back.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[Anonymous 38]

There is only one way to move forward in your life and that is to let go.

Let go of all your failures, all who harmed you in life. Forget about ‘justice’ and just accept what happened. Move on. Realise you cannot ever be harmed in the same way again because you will not ever allow it again. Your life is now yours. Make your future about you, fill your remaining time by building the life you want to have before you die.

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

One day you will see her burning. Until that time, grab some beer and settle in around the cozy campfire!

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[joetechParticipant]

Your happiness should not depend on the condition of other people. You need to forgive yourself first before you can move on, but move on you must. Otherwise, you’re going to spend the rest of your life depending on the misery of someone else to make you happy. That’s no way to live.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Mr LogicParticipant 625]

It’s the brainwashing. The understanding that nothing I did or said ever mattered in a blue pill world where it should have. I bought into all the Hollywood bulls~~~. And now I’m living through the emotional bankruptcy it cost me.

You know what the f~~~ed up part is? I can’t tell you what I miss about her other than her vagina and face. It’s the words that have been ingrained in me. The lies. The “I love you and don’t ever leave me” stuff. She was the perfect set up for any white knight. For a period of time – no matter how awful it was – I really did believe her to “be the one”. After all, I felt as if I understood her.

The brainwashing. The s~~~ you see from those 80’s films growing up. When a women asks for something you better have it ready. It’s all f~~~ing bulls~~~ and they get away with it. She gets away with it. But you’re right. She will never be happy because she never gives back emotionally. She’s just a walking c~~~ who took advantage of me. A single mom of a 7 year old brat who looks just like her.

I know pain is part of the process. Waking up can be very painful at first I guess.

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